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I prefer masturbating to actual sex! What's wrong?

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Question - (16 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2009)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so a very bad sex experience on a virgin makes him get the wrong idea?

coz I am afraid I really got the wrong idea about what sex is.. I didn't enjoy it... not in pain but pleasure... didn't feel anything special... I prefer masturrbating..

What's wrong?

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

anoms agony auntyou may just find that you and your partner just didnt bond to well in the sack, if you just had sex for the hell of it i could see why there was no passion in it, and of course its less effort to pleasure youself for that matter, i wouldnt go worrying about your sexuality at your age thats for sure, well gudluk and keep trying, you might find the right one.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntIt's normal to have a few bad expiriences when you first start having sex, and masturbating will always do it for you.

Don't give up on sex, the more you have the better it gets.

Just always use a condom

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

not a thing wrong with you I think alot of us like to masterbate its nature I think we all do it .And if you like it more then you do having sex with your guy then it could be that he isnt doing what you desire and I would probably let him know just what you want and how he can give it to you there is nothing wrong with telling your guy how to put it to you ....

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