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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

First time with a prostitute...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...

Is it time to move on after almost 20 years together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I feel like I'm the only one in this situation, but I know with all the people out there, I can't be. I've known my husband since we were 12 years old. We had the same circle of friends, and eventually became high school sweethearts. We'...

Would a guy really sleep with you for a year if he was not really attracted to you, just for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I have been sleeping with this guy for about a year now on and off. We have not made a commitment to each other and it has never ever been brought up in a conversation. My friends just think he is using me and that I am just giving it away f...

A special night, but no sex, any suggestions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Please Help! I'm supposed to plan a special pre-Valentine's Day for my boyfriend. I'll pick him up and we take go from there. I want it to be special but no sex! He's open minded but I want him to enjoy it! What can I do? I don't want to do t...

What went wrong, is it really that he is not interested? Or do you think he has erection issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hello I meet this guy where I work at a swimming pool. He goes to the gym then comes for a swim. He is very hot and very big muscular. He also comes at times with his daughter. I have known him for a while but we just started to talk more over the ...

Sex toys and pornography, any recommendations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my wife for 17 years. We have a good sexual relationship. Its not great but good. It seems to have become routine. She likes it a certain way and we always do the same thing. I feel like a robot. My question regarding our sex life ...

I need confidence to get started!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - i really like this guy and this guy like me we have told each other over email.... well we been talking about sexy over about my sexiy underware and how much he wants to see it on me and i really want to because its a lovely relationship we ...

Should we keep this as just a fantasy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I have a fantasy we want to act out. I want him to go out and sleep with another woman and then come home and talk dirty to me about it. Should we do it or keep it fantasy?...

I don't think she knows what she wants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 4 months now we got drunk and went to ponderosa to eat which we do often. After we ate she asked me if I wanted to go get married I told her I would have to get to know her better that we just met and that she would ha...

My ex b/f gave me genital herpes on purpose!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend has given me genital herpes on purpose. we broke up for a few months. he started seeing somone else, then we got back together. after two months of being happy again a friend told me the girl he'd been with had the std and had told ...

Normal? He wants bj twice a day?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to do bj for him twice everyday(at least once,but doesn't have to make him cum though), if we ever see each other in that day(we don't live together). I just want to know is it normal for guys or it's just he has too much ...

MUST you use enemas or douche before anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I've given anal sex a try several times before and was put off by the pain (my partner is fairly well endowed). The last time I tried it I was a bit drunk and kind of changed my mind halfway through but didn't really articulate that thought firmly ...

I'm pregnant and do not want children. Do I abort it or put it up for adoption?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My birthday was two days ago, and for my present I found out that I am pregnant. For many people this would be fabulous news! And I really do want children, however due to finances, we really cannot afford to have a baby just yet. We were using ...

A guy losing his virginity on V-Day to his experienced GF...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Ok this valentines day me and my girlfriend plan on having sex. Imma virgin but shes not which makes it a little weird for me. Any advice for me....

1st time--which position is best?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I have a question.When losing your virginity,is it better for the female to be on top or the male ?.Bearing in mind, we are both virgins.Any other tips would be great too.I've thought of us having the light off and just having candle light,and ...

My friends are trying to set me up with a girl, but she is "fast". I know the are trying to help but...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I have a problem, well here it is guys, My friends have been basically sick of seeing me alone without a girlfriend for so long. And have decided to try to hook me up with a girl. Well from what they have told me and my one friend who i really trust ...

Am I sick? Or pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I am afraid that we are doing some thing wrong. I graduated last year and my boyfriend and I are having sex, but I am not comfortable with him. We are both in collage and do it almost every nite. The last 4 times are unprotected and it felt wierd ...

Can you become ill from giving a woman oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Can you become ill from giving a woman oral sex? i'm not talking about STD's, just curious cause i'm a bit of a hygiene freak so to speak....

I feel I need to give him SOMETHING to keep him interested. Am I right to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Curious - I've been with my boyfriend for a few weeks now. We've discussed sex and all. I told him I wasn't ready yet. He was understanding but said 'I still have my needs'. He asked that I agree to at least BJ's. I didn't say anything at firs...