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Archived questions from: 5 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How can I help so that our first time is loooong lasting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that after a guy gets so used to masturbating..the first time after that, he cums faster. He says it gets a bit sensitive down there. Is this true? How can I help so that our first time is loooong lasting? ...

Pretending to be the ex during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?...

Any tips about 'domination' in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I was just wondering about 'domination' in the bedroom. Me and my bf have a good sex life, but we're a relatively new couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. Seeing as it's valentines day soon, I wanted to experiment some sort...

I'm turned on by watching fat, unattractive men in porn videos, is this strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Any other girl with the same "fetish"? Thanks for answers. Hay, This question might sound a bit weird. I'm 19 and I recently found out that i have some kind of fetish about watching porn movies with older man having sex with younger girls(18-25)...

I want to ejaculate on her face, how to convince her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

5 February 2009 (M) - my girlfriend and i have done a lot sexually. we have both performed oral on each other, she likes it when pull out and cum on her, and she has even let me cum in her mouth and on her face once. i only recently told her that i would like cum on her ...

The problem is I can't make him climax!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been going out 4 awhile now, I've had one sexual partner before him, he was still a virgin when we started going (but he had done oral) anyway... I know how to pleasure him, in the fact that I know what he likes. The problem is I ...

Sex with her is rather messy..is there a way to approach this with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

5 February 2009 (M) - I have recently started seeing this great girl, the relationship is going well and the sex is great. However, there is one thing that I feel a little awkward talking to her about. She is fortunate in that she can orgasm very easily, literall...

Extremely frustrated by the lack of sex in my 6 year relationship, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

5 February 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old male and my partner is a 21 year old female. Recently ive been extremely frustrated by the lack of sex in my 6 year relationship. I have a very healthy desire for sex, so much so I would have it everyday if ...

How do I get my cold sex buddy to open up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Hey , so iv been seeing this guy. He's been my friend since 4 years but we started makingout a year back. The problem is that hes just so cold all the time. I dont want him to commit or be my bf , but at least a real friend.. He never tells me ...

Why do guys don't want a relationship with me after sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Never had a boyfriend and I'm 20 I feel so alone and depressed because I'm at the end of my rope. I've been kissed I've had sex with guys they never seem to want more than that from me. I watch everyone I know go through relationships: love, loss ...

Is 4 months too soon? How much does it hurt first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - hello! :D ok ive now been with my boyfriend for 4 months and love him so much!I think i want to have sex with him but im a virgin and hes not.Hes putting no presure on me to have it and we will be safe but im worried. How much does it hurt first ti...

I'm shy and uncomfortable about sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid... Im gonna be straight forward... Im a VERY SHY woman in bed. Ive been with my husband for 7 years now (6 of them we were not married!) and I feel like Im just too shy for him... I have fantasies of being more wild but Im not the type...

Is he just trying to get into my pants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Well,There's this guy. I do believe we have chemistry. The problem is,he's my best friends brother. And he has a girlfriend. Well,it pretty much started when I was in like 6th grade. I talked to him alot,on myspace,the phone,and when I wou...

She thinks I'm cheating on her because I don't want sex

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5 February 2009 (?) - My wife and me haven't had sex in 2 weeks mainly because I have a very stressful job and my boss makes everyone work late without being paid extra. I have actually started getting high blood pressure and horrible headaches from my stress. Anyway ...

No sex until marriage? Does anyone believe in that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - do any of you guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE?? sorry i kinda messed up in that other question...I meant to say if u guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE....DO U THINK IT'S A LOAD OF BULL OR WHAT??...

Does anyone believe in sex before marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - Does anybody believe in sex before marriage? I would like to hear your opinions about it.. what do you guys about it?? Do you think it's possible or is it a bunch of bull??...

My brother is going down on his girlfriend and he is only 13, what should I do?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

5 February 2009 (M) - Hello If you don't want to read what fully happens, skip to the paragraph above the last sentence. I have a brother. He is 13, and has a girlfriend. My aunt visited my mom so they decided to go shopping. I was told to watch my brother...

Are guys turned off by hair down THERE?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - okay so im... younger and i have hair on my vagina and my bf tried to finger me which i dont care and am all for but then i had to run out on him. Are guys turned off by hair there? should i shave that? if i do need to shave how do i do that? ...

Was he rejected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - If things get hot n heavy!! He initiates it and I follow..then I end up putting the brakes! Say 'no' to sex. Will my partner end up so frustrated that it will drift him further apart. I'm asking this because it went as far as him pulling his pant...