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Archived questions from: 24 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My sex drive is going through the roof! Why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 24 year old female. I think that my sex drive is too high. I think about it all the time, in the car, at work, the grocery store, everywhere!!! I'm in a great relationship, but my boyfriend's drive is nowhere near mine. I take care of ...

Foreplay is nice but sex is painful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I have just started in a new relationship but i have a problem. I dont enjoy sex. I love foreplay but actual intercourse is painful even with lots of lube. I dont enjoy a second of it, it doesnt feel good, i count down the seconds until he is done. ...

My b/f wants to see the wild side of me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to see the wild side of me? In other words to take charge and say..'I want it now!' And just have sex right then and there. What else can I do to show him I do have it in me? I feel he'll lose interest or our relationship wil...

My partner feels nothing when we have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I have been with a guy for about 4 months now (my first gay relationship) and we are very much in love. I have a fantastic time with him, except for the fact that he 'feels nothing' when we have sex. He says that he has been like this for around 3...

Crying during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Last weekend, my gf and i tried anal sex for the first time. The initial penetration hurt her a lot, but we took it really slow and i was able to enter her fully. The pain seemed to go away and i was able to start to thrust gently. But right in ...

It was so painful but I want to try it again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend wanted us to try anal sex. We tried it once before but he didn't go all the way in. Well this time he did and I wasn't at all relaxed.. ummm really tight. It hurt and I made him stop. I want to try it again because I've don...

In my first loving relationship, I experience erection problems for the first time, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I'm 27 and I've been seeing this girl for about a month and a half. We are in love with each other and love spending time together. I've never been in a loving relationship before and I've never wanted to satisfy a woman more than I do her, she ...

I have a mental blockage about sex since that night, how can I be less nervous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I was going to have sex with my girlfriend of only 2 weeks, when I was 14, almost 15. I know this was a stupid thing to do, and I should never have even considered it, but I felt ready. It was my one chance, and I didn't want to muck it up. I was ...

How do I not get attached to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I've been sleeping with a guy since early this month. It started out as a NSA (no strings attached), but after being with him, chatting with him alot, sleeping with him twice, it's getting more difficult for me to get him out of my head. I try to ...

I was fine during foreplay but lost it during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

Is my b/f pervy or does he love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - pls pls as many opinions as possible from men and women, im having a hard time deciding if my b/f is a bit pervy or does he love me. everything comes down to sex if i want anythin he will jokingly reqest sex or a favour like that. when i see him he ...

First time anal or any sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - How bad will first time anal sex hurt? Also, what position is best the first time? This will be my first time for nething so I want it to be perfect!...

Will I get bored with my marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I am so afraid that I'm going to get bored with my marraige and cheat on my wife. My family and religion taught me that the best thing you can do for your marraige is to wait to have sex until you are married. They said that having your wife...

What sexual position do women enjoy the most?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Simple one really...what are a woman's favourite sex positions that satisfy her the most? I think my girlfriend is getting bored of missionary... ...

I'm a virgin, he's not. I am ready to have sex, but don't want to be another skank on his list. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 February 2009 (?) - This is my first real relationship. I'm 19 hes 20, and we went out on our second date, last night. We made out for a long time and it was hot:P I am a virgin and he is not at all. I know he wants to have sex and I want to too but I don't want to ...

Risk of pregnancy if I only touch her vagina with my penis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - i want to know that could my girl friend fall pregnent if i only touch her vagina with my penis tell me soon...

Should I ask my wife to repeat last year's fun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - my wife tried another guy for her birthday last year as a one off. we both found it a great turn on at the time and have since. she hasn't asked yet about this year but i would like her to. do you think i should ask or wait untill she brings it up...

I feel like my sex drive is diminishing, I don't understand why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been with my fiancee for two years. I'm totally in love with her and fancy her like mad. But, recently, when it comes to sex I get erect during, kissing, foreplay, oral sex etc but when it comes to putting the condom on, I lose my erection ...

Is it possible to have an orgams for everyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hi, so basically I'm 19 years old, have a comfortable sex partner, who cares about my needs, but I still don't orgasm. I have never had an orgasm in my life, whether it be during sex or masturbation, it's never happened. I've felt like my body has ...

I found out my husband was having viagara

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Tonight I found out my husband has been taking 'pills' to have sex with me. We have been married 2.5 years. When we were first together he couldn't keep his hands off me. Now it seemd he can't bring himself to touch me without a little courage in ...

What's the best penis size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - What is the best penis size? because im like at 7 inches and my penis is 5"thick so i want to know if ill be hurting my gf or not pleasuring her...

Virgin & he's too big!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - ok so im a virgin and have been with my nonvirgin boyfriend for a while now. i want to give him my virginity and we have tried having sex FIVE times now and have yet to make it work. im am a rather short girl and weigh 103 therfore im smaller than ...

She won't let me touch her below the waist in ANY way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Hey, me and my 15 year old girlfriend (were sexually active but don't have intercourse) is very very self concious about her period. She won't let me touch her in anyway below her waist, any ideas to help her ease up? She's very clean..always, and ...

How do I seduce him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I am 25 years old, and im interested in a 50 year old man. After spending time with him for the past couple of months(as friends), I've found that the feeling is mutual. He mentioned that the age difference is the only barrier, so I feel he won't ...

How do 40-45 year old men keep up with much younger women in sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - If man's sex drive drops after 40-45, than how can they keep up with 20 years younger girls? Is this because their old wife does not turn them on , but the fresh young woman does? Is this an ago thing, or ist biological? I keep hearing about gu...

What is considered sex between two women? My girlfriend says she's waiting for marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I'm dating a woman for the first time and my girlfriend and I just started screwing around (rubbing against each other, mostly). Before we started dating she had always said she wanted to wait till marriage to have sex. I asked about this and it ...

Happy man in his 40's--what should his sex drive be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - If a man in his 40s is healthy and happy then what should his sex drive / libido be like?...

Opinions about men going off sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I just read an article "Why men don't want sex anymore" at http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/sexandlove/article2220901.ece?OTC-RSS and ATTR=Sex+And+Love In summery it sort of surmises that some men go off sex because they feel mispla...

10 -15 masturbating..quicker with sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I usually last around 10 to 15 seconds while masturbating. Is it going to go quicker with sex? and how can i get myself to last longer? ...

He called me twinkle toes..was he being rude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I feel a bit silly but glad I mentioned this to my boyfriend. This past weekend we had sex for the very first time..I had mentioned before that I would give him a lap dance. He brought it up, and I wasn't up for it. I guess I just wasn't feeling it. ...

My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now ...