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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is excessive masturbation the cause of his lack of love-making?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a sex problem. My boyfriend of five months is unable to have sex with me. We get to the stage, past all the foreplay, and then he loses his erection. Sometimes he fails to get one at all. I hate to sound sex mad but the lack of "action"...

Should I stop having sex with my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) - I´m in college and I have sort of fallen in love with one of my teachers. I did have sex with him once. I didn´t feel bad about it, but he kept saying how sorry he was. He says it´s not the right thing to do, but he doesn´t really do any action t...

He couldn't penetrate me, so what could be the matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - OH MY GOD HELP. Ive been with my boyfriend about a month and already love him so much and we both think we're ready for sex. So today he was round mine and we were getting very close and intimate and he whispered to me he has condoms. So he w...

How can I make him last longer than 20 minutes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Im 17 years old. i have a 17 year old boyfriend. when we have sex its good but its only for like 20 minutes.. then when he cums he doesnt want to do it anymore, or let me touch him down there, why is this? and how can i make him last longer? please ...

Does he like receiving oral if he doesn't orgasm from it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said he has never come from a blow job before. I want to give him oral during times when I'm on my period, but usually after a while he would stop me and say it's okay. He never asks me to finish him with my hands and he never finishes ...

STD's... but who from???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - When I was 21 I lost my virginity to a 23 year old and he gave chlamydia and gonorrhea and I told him that I had them so he went and got checked and it came back that he didn't have anything but he is the only one I have had sex with so I don't see ...

Should I have sex at 14?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - im 14 and I want sex and i dont know what to do. I already masterbate and its not good enough. what do i do?...

I feel like I'm going to pee during sex but never climax!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - When we're having sex or fingering, I always feel like i'm going to pee, but it never happens! ... Any tips?... How to get an organism?...

Lack of oral

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - hi i am the one with the lack of oral stimulation and a man with premature ejaculation problems.i have asked for what want and why i dont get any,yet, it he wants me to give him oral.and he tells the reason he dont do it is because he dont want.im ...

When I ejaculate the fluid is very thin?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - My fluid when i ejaculate is very thin and there isnt much compared to what you see in most porn films. Does this mean there is something wrong and if not then how do I help it?...

How do I make my man really hard?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I want him to become very hard and so he could be the happiest.. Any tips or ideas? I'm willing to do anything and i'm always in for something new! Cheers...

I don't want to be a turn off! Shave or no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - this is for all the guys out there. do u prefer it wen a girl shaves down there or do u like the hair? neva had sex before and i guess i'd neva really thot of shaving till today. my b/f only commented once about it but he doesnt seem to really mind. ...

Is it illegal to have sex in a car?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Last night (16 February 2009) an older woman I am seeing went out and on the way back she said pull into the side which I did. Then we kissed and had sex.............what I wanted to know is: Is it illegal to have sex in a car in public?...

I worry about our religion, could it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Now this isn't racist or nothing like that..and i don't really want a lecture about what religion teaches etc. I'm a Sikh and i know Alot about my faith.So i'm not being brain washed or none of that rubbish. I'm nearly 19-done nothing with a g...

Threesome troubles!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a very strange situation - my boyfriend and I have been in an open relationship for the past year and a half. We are a highly passionate couple and like to explore new things. He been seeing this girl for a few months now, I've met her a ...

If she says she loves me then why doesn't she find me attractive or want any physical contact any more..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - My g/f and I have only been together for 3 months but already our sex life is non-existent. When we first met we were rampant and spent entire weekends in bed having plenty of great sex and spending hours cuddling but all of a sudden she has beco...

So I squirted, does it mean I orgasmed as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I was doing some research on this site, looking up woman's orgasms and squirting. At first I was going to ask if it was normal, but apparently it is! I'm kind of embarssed about it, it seems so abnormal! What I am wondering is when I ...

What is a normal amount of sex a couple has in a week?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Can anyone tell me what is a normal amount of sex or fooling around an average couple has in a week?...

Our sex life is almost inexistent, I'm a very sexual person, should I leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I have been married for 6 years and am not really sure what to do. My husband and I had a great sex life when we first met. We have been together for 8 years now. Our sex life started to go down hill about 2 years into the relationship. At first...

How do you know if a woman wants to have sex with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - how do you know if a woman really likes you and how do you know if she wants to have sex with you? ...

Sleeping with a first date

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I went on a date with an incredable guy and we had amazing chemistry, the only trouble is that chemistry also led to us sleeping together. He admitted it had been a while for him (as it had been for myself) and that he didn't think any less of me ...

Lack of oral stimulation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - dear cupid, my fiance and i have been together for 3 years now and have 2 kids. i love him to pieces,but, i cant get him to give me any oral stimulation.hes only done it 3 times since we have been together and i have not given him any any oral ...

I want to pleasure my girlfriend but not have intercourse yet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I'm 15 (she's 15 too) and from USA and i'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months, And i don't really wanna have sex in such a young age but i really wanna pleasure her? What do i do? do i ask or just do it? thanks...

How to rebuild trust in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 13 yrs now. we have children. recently he cheated on me with a girl he works with who is about 8 yrs younger then him. this is not in his nature-he's never been the type to do anything like this. well she ...

Does he want sex or a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) - i really need advice! does he just want sex? or a relationship? i have been seeing a guy for about 4weeks. im 19 and he is 26. and we live on the same street so i often pop round his in the evening and chill. i really, really like him. and he says...

If I get lost during sex, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 14 year old female. I'm about to have sex for the first time. I'm not totally clueless about sex like I know what it is and how to do some stuff, but I'm afraid I'll be bad at it. What happens if I get lost and don't know what to do?...

Should I go all the way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - (sorry this is kind of long!) A friend of mine from high school reconnected with me about a year ago. We went on a few dates before he suddenly (and it was definitely sudden) revealed that he didn't want to be in a relationship. At that point I ...