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Archived questions from: 10 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My b/f was fingering me and it hurt then and it hurts now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - ok, im only 16. and have never slept with anyone, or done anything apart from snog (sad i guess but ive just never met the right person) well anyway been a relationsip with this really nice dude for about a month, we havnt really spoke about sex, ...

Men, what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - I was just wondering for the young guys, (16-25) what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced? Would you prefer for a girlfreind who is a virgin for example, who you can teach, or someone who is very experienced? xx ...

Tips about using dildos?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - when i mastuabate I play with my clit. Ive tried a dildo like 5 times, though it never works. How do i make it feel nice? It does fit down there, and it doesnt hurt, i just get nothin sexual out of it. How do I make it more sexual? Thankyoux...

Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish? If my wife and I have sex and she doesn't achieve an orgasm, she wants more. But if she achieves an orgasm, we can go days without her desiring more. And God forbid, she has ...

Do other women ever feel a little aroused during their period?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - do anyother women experience feeling a little horny during your period? i don't think i could ever have sex during a period, but sometimes i feel a little up for it. must be to do with hormones of something? i guess i'm lucky, as i never have hea...

Why does he get soft as soon as we start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - why does my bf willy go hard when we mess about but as soon as he puts it in it goes soft?...

After the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - this is a question to the ladies. after the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle? my 2 best friends said their period was delayed after making love the first time. i recently had sex and i was due to come on on saturday. ...

What does it mean for a man to agree with birth control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Cuious -Does this change our relationship in any way? My bf and I talked about me getting back on birth control. I'm wondering if this defines our relationship as more serious? How does a guy feel about this? ...

What does it mean when a mean sends you naughty messages about what he would do to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - For the men:- If a man sends you quite saucy text messages about what he would like to do to you (in the bedroom department) does he really mean it or is there a chance that men just like to string women along for a bit of fun??...

Female vs. male masturbation - what is your opinion on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I have always wondered why female masturbation is such a taboo subject. It is almost accepted that men will masterbate, so why isn't this level of acceptance given to women making themselves aware of their bodies in a completely natural way. Just ...

He doesn't love me but is happy to receive my sexual favours!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - hey i just asked this guy "what would you say if i asked you out?" and he said no because it will mess up our friendship , i was like oh ok , but the problem is i have been doing sexual stuff with him , like tossing him off ect, but he will still le...

Girlfriend always has to masturbate before sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend that I have been with for about 2 years has recently started masturbating before we have sex. I find it completely odd. This is how it usually plays out... I start doing stuff with her and getting "fresh" haha but after we start ...

My bf only wants sex when he wants it... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - My bf is 24 and I'm 20. We pretty much have sex once everyday.but lately I've been getting aggravated he says I dnt ask for it enough and I'm not aggressive enough, but everytime I ask he's either too tired or its just exucses. Also he won't let me ...

I'm just confused because she has been extremely open sexually, and I don't understand this sudden hang-up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I live several hours apart, and so we only get to see each other a few days every two weeks. We have had sex and both have been extremely open and honest to each other about everything. Recently we got on the topic of masturb...

What is causing me to have this "brewers droop?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Ok, bit of a long winded question but I really need help so here we go... Up until summer last year, my sex drive was perfectly normal and I frequently had erections without even thinking about it. Until that point I hadn't had much experience ...

First time sex leads to a hurt ego and erection problem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Ok so I tried to have sex with a girl. We were in the club and making out and I was hard like rock hard. We decided to go to the beach (it was winter but Cyprus is not that cold in winter.. but still) and started making out there, I was still ...

Why does his penis slip out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i lost my virginity a year ago and everytime me and my boyfriend have sex his penis slips out half way through. is this my fault? can anyone explain why this happens?...

Now it only takes 5 minutes! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - In the beginning of me and my girl friends relationship! When we was having sex it would take me hours to actually cum! But now it only takes me but 5 mins! We have the same amount of sex and we still use condoms! Why is it that now it happens so ...

Do guys tell each other EVERYTHING about their sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I am not talking about guys that are in serious commited relationships but I guess like the guys who party and go to bars. Do they tell their buddies *everything* when it comes to sex? Like "this girl was good in bed, that girl sucked, this girl was ...

I constantly think about sex, undressing women, thinking about sleeping with them, stopped having sex as often with my wife, anyway to stop my urges?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Am I a sex addict? Pretty much what's on my mind most of the time is either fucking porn or fucking... I feel I got a problem with it. I've talked to my counselor about it and he said I might be addicted to sex. When I first got with my wife we ...

Is she serious about wanting to make out with me, I am a girl??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I'm a girl. And I feel like lately a girl friend of mine has been either a) making a very bold move on me or b) having a very interesting sense of humor. She messaged me one day basically saying that if I wanted to make out she was totally down...

Could I have gotten pregnant after having unprotected sex, the first time we had sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i am 16 yrs old i had sex about a month ago..my bf took of the condom i remember him stoping several times inside me with out a condom..it was my first time..2 days after i did it i stared an early period it only last about4 or 5 days then i just ...

Could someone please tell me what is up with my relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Question: I had 2 flings the past year that i was crazy about. So heres the pattern: 1.They chase hard 2. they get me 3. I fall for them ...eventually it becomes sexual 4. I think of them and want to get a lil serious 5. they get distant...

How long do I finger my g/f to give her an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - We want a bit more sparkle in are realationship, but dont want to have sex yet or my girlfreind doesnt want a lickout or doesnt want to give a blojob. We are both 15. We've been goin for 15months. I respect her alot and ive sugested sex but she seem...

B/f wants to be very aggressive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - My bf has a very, very high sex drive! He wants me to be more aggressive when it comes to making the first move. He mentioned this before, it's a huge turn-on for him. How can I please him in that way, specially soooo close to V-Day?!?...

Can I masturbate near the end of my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - What happens if I masturbate toward the end of my period, if there is no flow?...

He went to whores and prostitutes while I was on holiday!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I went on a vacation with my baby and when I was gone my husband got totally wasted with some friends and went to a whore house and had sex with a prostitute. Right after I got home from my vacation my husband and I put our child to sleep and he ...

I don't think I know how to masturbate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I am very confused. I have tried to masturbate in the past, but, I am worried I am doing something wrong. My boyfriend and I have sex alot, but I am confused on how to masturbate properly. I am 18 and have tried to masturbate since iwas 14. My ...