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Archived questions from: 22 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Any tips so that he lasts longer than one minute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and have fooled around a lot before that. He never seems to last long... At all. Is there any tips that could help him control himself so he's not done in one minute?...

Why has my boyfriend's interest in sex with me waned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I usually have a normal sex life, but for the last 3 weeks we haven't had sex once. I know I could initiate it, but I feel like if he REALLY wanted to have sex I wouldn't have to. He usually has a higher libido than I do. ...

Since my hymen was already broken from sports, why did it hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were at my house alone today and we ended up in a play fight over the remote. Well, it resulted in sex. We got so turned on that we got physical. It was unprotected and it hurt. I was a virgin and this was my first time. I don't ...

I like him but he only calls when he wants to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I've been "hooking" up with this guy for a little over a year now, and before I never really thought a relationship would work between us and just enjoyed merely having sex with him. Lately he hasn't been returning my usual late night calls and ...

Is it normal not to be able to get my nipples hard?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend loves my breast, even though i, at 16, don't, and he loves to play with them, and i like it. but he like it when my nipples are hard, and i rarely have hard nipples. my nipples are rounded completely. the only way he gets them hard is ...

Bigger and better orgasm during masturbation. Any tips on how to get one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I have been masturbating for quite a while since really i was 13. i have had at times a big "OH WOW", orgasm. but not all the time. Are there any ways to get a really good orgasm? Are there ways to stimulate myself to make my orgasm bigger and ...

Told my bf he's have to work to see my new bra. How do you think he'll go about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - hi i teased my boyfriend and tried to sound sexy the other day by telling him when we meet tomorrow he is going to have to work to see a new bra that i have brought and he says that he likes a challange and is looking forward to it..but what things ...

Losing virginty to a black man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hello everybody,I want to address mostly to white girls who have lost their virginity to black men or have heard stories about it.One of my friends advised me not to do it with a black man first,because it might be more painful and stuff but I ...

No matter what I do I just can't seem to make him cum! Help!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and experienced and I'm 15 and still a virgin, but we've touched and I had oral for the first time with him and our sex life seems great but he can get hard, but cum with me. I mean I can get him hard in less than 2 minutes but no ...

Anal stretching?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Does anal stretching cause long term damage to your rectum? I love receiving anal sex and have started playing with a large butt plug. Will I have to wear diapers later in life, or will my anus heal itself over time?...

Why do girls pretend they don't like to perform oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - why do girls pretend to not like performing oral sex , then you find out that they love it? whats up with that?...

I am seeing an older man, I wish I knew if it's just for sex or he wants a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i need some advice. I am seeing an older man and i spend 1 night a week with him, i also work with him and no one knows. I really dont know where i stand with him and i feel that i will look a bit mental if i start asking questions- he tells me he ...

Do guys orgasm each time they ejaculate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - mainly for the guys out there: do guys orgasm each time they cum?...

Is it weird that I'm a guy who likes to use dildos on himself when I'm with my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - for some reason i allowed my girlfriend to finger my anus during sex and now i love it but i feel as if im turning into a pervert. i first wandered was i bi but i have no interest in guys whatsoever. however i will admit to enjoying shemale porn. ...

Do you always listen to your intuition? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Do you always listen to your intuition,or you just say no to it? I do. I know long time ago ,that my intuition is suffering from repressing it, but if I go with it, I must leave my husband ,and that is the biggest step in my life , after I went to ...

I don't think he loves me... should I leave him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I live with a guy, he tells me he loves me but he never wants to kiss me or have sex with be but he wants me to give him oral sex when he watchs porn. He sometimes has sex with other girls! We have been living together 5 months. Should I leave ...

Is it me or is he a sex maniac?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - my husband is opsessed with women of all types porn celibrities, calendar girls. he watches naked girls on line early morning then come and has sex with me makes me feel like he need them to turn him on and I am just a filler. I am getting breast ...

How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off ...

Obsessed with porn, how can I slow down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for two years. We had sex countless times. He then decided to cheat, so we broke up. Four and a half months later, I'm now with another guy and he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex. I totally respect that and all, but since we started ...

She only likes normal sex but I need to please her in other ways due to my PE, help?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - So, recently I wrote about my premature ejaculation problem. I am in my early 20's and after about a minute of intercourse I can't hold it any longer which really upsets me. I want to please her but a minute is hardly enough. Some said to do it ...

How can we make our first time amazing and perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have decided that we are ready to take the next step and have sex for the first time. We are both virgins and are totally inexperienced(we've been naked together before and have played around a bit.) So any ideas on how we can ...

Will this always hurt her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - hiya :) well am 14 and i dont really no how to say this so here goes....... my gf of 2 and a half months is 15 and im 14, we have played around and stuff but ive never actually fingered her. i was wondering if i fingered her properly would i...

When on a break, is sex outside of a relationship ok?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Dear Uncles and Aunts, etc. My relationship is starting to gear back to normal; however, I have to be patient until my lover returns to me in August. Knowing that we are getting back together has been a great relief. However, I am struggling to ho...

Can the doctor say I'm not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm 13, I'm a virgin but my hymen ripped from being fingered and also "fist" by my boyfriend, I think it ripped because I was bleeding after he fingered me. Since I really am, still a virgin, Can my doctor say that I'm not a virgin since my ...

He fingered me..am I still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me and I think he broke my hymen. Am I still a virgin?...

How do I deal with being raped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - How do I deal with being raped by my father constantly at 13-15? Ive been in counseling but it doesnt work for me I keep having images and flashbacks no matter what. And it doesnt help that ive been molested by my brother and cousins earlier on in ...

Is it wrong to think about sex every time you see a cute guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Is it wrong to think about sex every time you see a cute guy or just a guy u see while your out walking ect...

Desperate to see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I have a severe problem I think. I met my wife back in 1992. We remained really good friends, (she even hooked me up with her cousin) and I finally started dating her in June of 1994. I was VERY attracted to her. We could not keep our hands off each ...

Did he break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me with three fingers, before him only one other guy had fingered me, but only with one finger, so I wasn't really stretched since I've never had sex. Anyway, he used three fingers. It hurt, and then afterwards there...

I think I'm sterile and have questions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old. I know I am young but my boyfriend and I who have been together on and off. Have sex regularly sometimes twice a day. He almost always cums inside of me. Not saying that we want a baby so young or nothings its just we know how ...

When is the right time to have the sex talk with your BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - When is the right time to talk about sex with your bf?...

Should I tell my BF to tone it down in the bedroom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a different relationship than most you could say. i am 16 and he is 27 but we are in love with each other and we dont see ourselves with anyone else. My boyfriend has like a fetish of spanking me and pulling on my hair when ...

My online man's advances are so sexual, how do I tell him that he's turning me off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i've been chatting to this guy over the last 3-4 months, he seems really nice, we just talk about school, family, parting the future.... recently he's started asking to see me on webcam (i havn't let in, yet) i kinda wanna do it because i feel like ...

How can I learn to make our sex life fantastic and have an orgasm with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I am in a wonderful relationship with a man I really, really adore. I am happy in every respect of the relationship, except the sexual side. I'm not really sure what the problem is. It's quite complicated so I'll try to explain it as best I can. I...

Is it worth staying with him when he's so obsessed with asses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do with my boyfriend in my position. He is obsessed with asses and this is probably why he loves my body, but I feel that he is a bit of a flirt. We work together so I can see him flirting, etc. That isn't what bothers me the ...

Is it normal for a healthy guy of 21 to be this disinterested in sex, or is it just me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - hi, me and my boyfriend are both 21 but have very different sex drives. I want sex pretty much every day, and I recon if pushed, he would want it once a fortnight (which sucks, because he is awesome). I'm well aware I'm very difficult to ple...