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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Signs of female orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - What are the signs of female orgasm? Is it excesssive sticky liquid... cos i get that all the time, it like squirts out of my vagina. and im only 13. no b/f. what could it be?...

Why are some men so rough with breasts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Whenever a guy goes up my shirt, he squeezes them so hard that I sometimes scream out in pain. Dont guys understand that they are sensitive? I mean its like the equivalent of having their testicles grabbed just as hard, now guys wouldnt like that ...

He's 12, will I become pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and had sexual intercourse with a 12 year old young guy. This lasted for about 4 or 5 minutes and I orgasmed. Now I am afraid, will I become pregnant. He has no hair down there. ...

Can you get pregnant and STD's by penis up the butt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Im a 14 year old girl. I have a Amazing boyfriend who would never hurt me, We talked about the future, and we desided to wait a longg time before we have sex. he does finger me, and i have gave hand-jobs to him only. hes the only one i been with but ...

Sex is getting boring, how can I improve it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hello Im Taken09!!!! Me and my boyfriend has been together for 3 years and the sex is gettin boring.i dont want to lose my man so really what is there for me to do??????...

Why does he keep putting his hands on my bottom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I met my friends friend a while back and we drank together and ended up kissing. He wanted to have sex but I said no and I found out he was a major player. We partied again some time later and he kept putting his hand on my butt, but I kept taking ...

We had unprotected sex, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Well....I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend kinda had unprotected sex. He didn't cum all the way. He said he only did a little bit. I was just stopping my period. I don't know if I am or not. He has also been known to do drugs, like pot. I have resources ...

Men, what do you enjoy most? How do you like to be teased? What can I do to make it better for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - hi ive been giving my boyfriend hand jobs for a while now and he always enjoys it and i cup his balls and we use my breats too,, but how can i make sure its GREAT for him?? men..what do you enjoy the most? what can i do to make it better for him?...

Is it some kind of sign that I can't masturbate thinking about my girlfriend as much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Ok ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 months, and i fantasise of us having sex when i masterbate. this was great until a few weeks ago when i find it harder to do it. I can do it but it takes a long time for me to......y'know? Im worried in case ...

My FWB knows I am a virgin - will he still want to have sex? I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - me and my friend with benefits we havent slept together and i am still a virgin i lied to him and said i have been with loads of guys and then yesterday i told him the truth and now he is feeling guilty that he has ruined my first time doing cert...

First time sex, the pain was an agony and it hurts when I urinate, is it normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity last night, i barely bled but i was so tense the pain was agony! we did it twice, without a condom but he withdrew before he came. Im sore now and it really really burns to wee, its awful! is this normal and will it always hurt ...

I need help understanding the Frendulum Breve problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hello My boyfriend has the frendulum breve problem and i have researched it but nothing seems to sink in so if someone could explain it really simply so i can just get grips with it would be much appreciated. Also im so worried about hurting ...

I still have my needs but he wont listen!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am a 25 year old female...I have been with my partner for over 3 and a half years now. And we have been planning our marriage for some time now. But I must say that in the beginning of our relationship our sex life was really healthy. I couldn't ...

I want to grow old with her but our sex life is problematic and she is not receptive to any change, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 34yr old guy dating a 31 yr old lady. I'm not all that experienced however I have been around the block. The girl I am seeing is all that I've ever wanted and more and couldn't be happier but this is not so when were in bed. She is not e...

We've been really frustrated and angry recently... about nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hey everyone...I've been reaaaally frustrated and angry recently. I manage to hide it really well though so people don't notice it. It justs explodes at home though even though i live in a good family environment. The same thing coincide...

What is my ex really feeling? Is it love or is he playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - my ex and i were together for 2 years and broke up 2 years ago. a few months back he got back in contact with me saying he missed me and was sorry for how things ended between us and i was happy to see him ive missed him a lot. since then we talk ...

How can I overcome this sexual insecurity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I'm feeling really sexually insecure lately. i am young and i've only had sex with one person, i've hooked up with people, and i've been masturbating ever since i was 11. ive always been confident and willing to try and learn new things, but ...

He doesn't arouse me enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My husband of six mos., rather we remarried after 34 yrs. we had fun dating and was intimate, altho he has ed, and went to drs and can have implants in but he turned me on tremendously two yrs ago, took the effort to make me happy, and i did him ...

Did he ejaculate multiple times over a day or a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Do guys ejaculate creamy or clear and watery. If it is clear and water, is this because the guy ejaculated numerous time over a day or in a week?...

A sharp pain in my butt as he fingered me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - okay so here's my question. I'll start off by saying that me and my boyfriend are both virgins. we do everything from fingering to oral, but like i said, we've never had intercourse. My boyfriend is really good at fingering me, and he knows where my ...

I want to find the women of my dreams. How can I make sure I only think with one head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I haven't been in a relationship in over 5 months and the lack of sex is really clouding my mind. Hard to think concentrate. I'm not interested in one night stands. STDs are way too scary. I'm worried that this will tint my appraisal of the...

What do I do if she doesn't want sex as often as I do and she's not even affectionate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - What do i do if my girl doesnt want to have sex as frequent as i do? i dont know if its me with a problem because i want it at least once a day. theres barley no advances from her not even for regular affection. im ready to move on without her it ...

Is it normal not to feel anything during oral sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend liked to go down on me a lot but I couldnt really feel anything from it. I mean, its not that I couldnt orgasm, I didnt feel ANY pleasure whatsoever and I can only orgasm through masturbation. He is the only one I have ever been with ...

He didn't tell me he had an STD! Do I have it now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Ok I am freaking out right now! This guy ive been seeing has a profile on positive spot.He didnt tell me,I found it on google.What is positive spot? Well,that was my first question too! Its a dating website of sorts.what sort? For people who have an ...

Please help, I'm tired of crying because I think I'm in the wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am 32 and in love with the best man ever problem is he is 43 has had a stroke and only wants to make love to me once a week. where i would be happy if we did it twice a week he wants to have a baby but we don't make love enough to even come close ...

How can I have sex for longer and not get worn out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for one year and we have sex very often, but when we do I find that I can't last as long as my boyfriend does (he can last for ages), I often orgasm and become to tired to continue. I want to be able to have sex...

How do you know you aren't in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 271 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - ...or is it something else? I'm in a relationship with a really great guy - treats me like gold. Recently, we've been having more downs than ups (all because of my reactions to things I've learned about him that aren't horrible by any stretch o...

Why does my girlfriend stuff her bra and want a boob job? I love her as she is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (?) - I was making love to my girlfriend (of two years) and I unhook her bra without her knowing. There was padding and toilet paper everywhere. Before I could say a thing she ran of the room. I called her a few times with no answer. I really don't thing ...

My hubby's best friend took advantage of me while drunk, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I have been married now for almost 3 years. While out with my friends, one of my guy friends took advantage of me being a little drunk. He was all over me in the club and made me nervous. I tried to avoid him knowing he was also one of my husband's ...

Could masturbation cause headaches and dizziness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Could masturbation cause headaches and dizziness?...

Why won't my husband sleep with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My sex drive seems out of control. My husband doesn't really like to have sex with me as much as I think I need. Not only that, but when I do have sex with him, I feel disappointed. He has never been able to make me orgasm. He is the only person I ...