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Sex: Help and advice

I'm finding it hard to masturbate.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I'm finding it hard to masturbate to my girlfriend. I do masturbate to porn and all that but I can stop thinking that 'I should only masturbate to my girlfriend' and feel bad about it! I am definitely attracted to her as I get 'hard' all the time ...

Should I tell my mum my 15 year old sister had sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I recently wrote the article below but am now wondering if I should tell my mum that my sister had sex? I feel as though I should because I can't lie to my mum about my sister having had sex. I know my mum would get rather angry but she mi...

Men making noise during sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - To all the ladies out there, what do you think about men making noice during sex? Turn on or a turn off?...

How long should we wait before we sleep together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Im currently kinda seeing a guy that lives far away from me we have only been together twice but we email and ring each other a lot in between the times I go to see him. I just wanna know how long we should wait before we sleep together? I really ...

Sex wasn't a great experience for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - So i was making out with a girl in a club and i was llike really hard that time but then we wanted to take it further..so we went to the beach and we tried to have sex over there ..i got reaaly hard..and i went inside her but it was winter and ...

Anyone know what this pain might be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - for about 8 months now, ive been in quite alot of pain, its constant, i am sexually active im 15 i started my periods at 13 i use tampons every period, umm ive been sexually active for about 1 year and a half, ive been with the same partner for 2 ...

Cannot orgams with boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - i have been dating a man for about 2-3months now and i cant seem to orgasm vagina or clitoris when we have sex. i am quite a shy person and i tend to become self concious when he is looking at me when he is trying to make me cum. i know it sounds ...

Cheating with him and now he says "No sex"

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi I'm currently involved with a married. We have been together for almost 7 years. He often says that he feels bad about cheating but keeps doing it. I'm not trying to take him from his family but I enjoy the time we spend together. He recently ...

How do I comfort my sister after breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 294 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hey, Recently my sister (15) got a new boyfriend. Last night, after having dated for about a month he broke up with her. She was devastated. Shortly after I found out she had sex with him during their relationship, thus losing her vi...

Why would he say "I love you" one minute then "thanks mate" the next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I am a little confused, been meeting up with a guy (who I like) for a while now, we're always flirting and he has told me he like me. We've had sex twice which is fine, we're both single and get what we 'need' The only thing is last time ...

I'm straight but dream about women having oral with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I would just like to know what or whatever others think about this: I'm totally straight, I love men but I fantasize about a woman sticking her tounge up me and swirling it around. Am I a perv for this? Just thoughts tbh x...

What can I do to change the taste of the pre-cum or make my wife like it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - well my wife does not like the taste of the pre-cum and stops right there. what do i do to change it/make her like it?...

I don't know if I should continue this casual thing, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - hello, i'll get straight into it. around 2 months ago this guy picked me up, and we've chatted and hooked up. he's a few good years older than me, and has had alot of experience-he is a complete partyboy but at the same time he's got what it take...

Problems during fellatio, any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - well my girl has a problem in giving me a blow job. she likes to suck,rub and perform the whole foreplay. but wen she sucks the head I am not climaxing/dont even feel like I am gonna cum but then she says she gets a very salty taste. I am confused! ...

We are virgins and getting married soon - any advice about our first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi I am getting married in a few months. We are both virgins..but I am scared. Don't know how he feels about the first time. Is it painful? If I bleed a bit will he be disgusted about it? What is the best position?...

I have Bacterial Vaginosis or Candida and it's really effecting my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I also have a boyfriend and I'm trying everything I can to hide it from him because I'm too embarassed to tell him... I have been tested for every STD you can think of because I was wondering why I had this (swabs and blood tests)... I believe I ...

I lost my virginity last night and now I'm feeling itchy..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I just lost my virginity last night. It hurt, but that's to be expected. Now, I'm quite a bit itchy ''down there''. I've got a bit more discharge than usual, but it doesn't have a strange scent or color. I'm wondering if I was just allergic to ...

I just want casual sex - but he calls every day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I'm going through a divorce and it has been a very long time since I have been with a man. Well, my daughter introduced me to her supervisor and I explained that I am just looking for someone to help ease the sexual tension. He calls me almost daily ...

We've had sex twice in six months - any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. Everything was great and we did all the things any couple would do, except she did not want to have sex until about 4-5 months into our relationship. The first time I tried to initiate ...

Am I in love witha straight guy? Or is there a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - It's taking alot of courage to write this, but basically i've recently started university, and a few months ago i began talking to this one guy on my course. He's the same age as me and we have similar interests. Since then i've grown to be his ...

I came before penetration - am I a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Recently, a female friend and I were fooling around. I was wearing a condom and there was some foreplay involved and it got me hard. I was then on the bottom and then I came first then she went in. Right after she went in, I said that I came. This...