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anonymous
writes:i'm confused about my ex-girlfriend.We broke up about 8 months ago. She found a new guy but we been having sex the last six months while she been with her new boy friend. She tells me how much she loves me and miss me.We meet in the morning and talk on the phone when can.She said she don't want to loose me. Times are tough and she said she's going to move her new boy friend in with her. I still have feelings for her. I need help!1. Should i leave her alone with her new boy friend?2. So she can see if this can work between the two of them. 3. What happens if she continues to persue me for sex because her boyfriend is not good in that area?4. I'm i wrong if i give her a booty call when she wants it?It just feels weired. I don't know why. I'm not persuing her, she is persuing me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): 1) You know what you 'should' do. Follow your instinct and do it.
2) Regardless.
3) This is really up to you. There is no "what happens if". Regardless of what she's been doing with you and telling you, ultimately, it is YOU who is allowing all this to happen.
4) You're not wrong at all. Monogamy has always been a social standard redesigned over the ages. You choose to live how you want to live.
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