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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Me and my BF got into an argument.. he got really angry and started saying horrible things to me.. he said I am always whining and..(f*king about with other guys).. he said I am not having sex with him so someone else must be getting since he ain't ...

I have to ask to have sex and when I do he goes off saying he doesn't need me pressuring him or wanting sex on demand.

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14 January 2009 (F) - I love sex a lot, everyday if possible! but I wonder what I've done so wrong to get none at all. My husband and I used to have sex daily and for months, now it's like he's lost intrest in me. He doesn't tell me I'm beautiful any more, he doesn't ...

And oh, the kids and all the crappy divorce war, I just don't know how to go on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - How long can a marriage hold on? Do most marriages fail? I keep reading over and over again too many miserable stories and mine is on the rocks too, after 25 years. I have an unloving, gloomy husband... No affection. I'm so scared, I feel I should ...

Am I his girl or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for the past 4 months... We usually spend time at his place. We eat together, and cook sometimes,watch movies,t.v., talk and spend quiet time. We are intimate, and have amazing sex. We truly enjoy each others company ...

My husband is very irresponsible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been married for a year now. Our marriage was against my husband's parents wishes. We fought even while we were dating but after our marriage its gotten worse. My husband is a very irresponsible man. I literally run the house. He always...

Why does my husband spend so much money on the family? We can't afford it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My husband spends too much money on his kids and grandkids. How can I get him to stop? Our finances (along with most everyone else's) have took a severe hit this year. We cannot afford it! I've tried to explain this to him and at the time of our ...

Problematic friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I had this funny curious episode. A guy added me on facebook. As a rule I don't accept friend request from strangers and he was not my type but I chatted a bit and I liked him. Then after reading his profile and finding him to be a regular ...

I don't want to throw away 20 months of my life, but should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a long discussion the other day. He said he felt empty with life and that he hates his life at the moment. He says he doesnt like living a black and white life and doesnt feel like he has control over his life. He then look ...

Eternal love & peace

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My brothers in humanity , My love for you all , I do not know why many men and women talk about fucking the ass or the pussy , this is actually personal and it is now becoming public and natural . Can we call it shame or immoral .Actually everyb...

Is he worth taking a risk for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 21 years - two children 17 and 19 - one at university , one at home, Husband is good provider , lovely man but we don't talk, not had sex for months , just can't seem to say two words to each other without one of us snapping. ...

Is my wife lazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have met my wife in 2003 and we got engaged in 2005 and married in 2008. When we first met she had a very bad temper and she was verbally abusive, but she would cry and apologise soon after we argue. I tried all my best to help her and thi...

My b/f says he has never felt a connection with anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 January 2009 (?) - I need help. My boyfriend recently informed me that he has never felt a connection with anyone - including his family. I have been with him for almost five years and I feel terrible that he should feel this way. This lack of connection also inc...

I don't know what our status is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - i met a man on the internet and originally it was just for slightly kinky sex which neither of us had tried before, this didn't really get started as we soon were contacting each other daily and seeing each other weekly.over the past 2 months, and I ...

Why does my b/f let his ex control him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I will give you abit of background and then ask my question at the end; My boyfriend 32yrs and myself 28yrs have been together for 1.5yrs (we dont live together). We both have daughters, my child 9yrs lives with me (lone parent since my daughte...

He says he doesn't want to be with me but acts weird

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew ...

We have a son, but he acts like a child himself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a big problem; I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. I got pregnant only 3months after we met. At first things were fine but soon they started to change, he is only a few years older th...

Caught between ex boyfriend and old ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I desperately need help, I am caught in the middle between my ex and my ex ex boyfriend. I don’t see any way out. I need some advice please from as many of you as can spare me the time. I posted on here end of November as I was with a boyfrien...

He treated me as a doormat, broke up, now I wonder if I did the right thing?

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14 January 2009 (F) - hi i have been going out with my partner for six years we have a four yr old child a year and a half ago we had a arguement because i wanted to do things as a famaily cause we never done anything it was always just me and my daughter,so i asked him ...

How can I convince her the trouble is only for short time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - we have been dating for the last one year. this relationship has had its own valleys and hills. the girl is a secondary school dame and i an in my final year in college. sometimes back, i had been posted to a town far away and our meeting was ...

Try again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 9 months, we where very much in love and he asked me to leave college so we could be together. I took a year out and came home to be with him. Within a week of being home he ended it. He said he ...

She keeps saying she loves me but then goes back to the ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hi All, I am really stuck and would really appreciate some help. I am in a really tricky situation with a girl who I work with. We were both in long term relationships and got together around 7 months ago both leaving partners after we cheated...

I'm with my fiance in a scary living situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

14 January 2009 (?) - Please help, Me and my fiance have been together 3 years and have got a house/mortgage last May. The main reason we got the house was that I was unhappy where I was living. I was renting a property near to my University where I am studying. Our...

Should I try or is it in vain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Since the other night she has come to me asking to move back in and now wants to take time to see how things can go. I understand things will be different for awhile from what happened. I dont think anyone would be able to excuss there partner ...

My b/f brags about girls to see if I'm jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - How do I know if my bf is just trying to be honest with me, or if hes really bragging and trying to make me jealous? My bf constantly tells me about all these girls who are flirting with him, trying to hook up with him, making moves on him, wa...

My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex! I don't know how to get rid of her. What should I do? My boyfriend doesn't want to give up one of us, he doesn't even want me to give up on him but how can I get him give up his ex?...

My girlfriend wants me to see/date/sleep with other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend wants me to see/date/sleep with other girls. She says she wants me to be sure that I want to be with her, and that she doesn't want to restrict me or drive me away by being jealous or possessive. I love her and want to be with her ...

He said that he'd been thinking for a few months about dating other people... I'm in shock!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. We were high school sweethearts, and I was his first. We've also been living together almost the entire time, and now go to college together. To me, our relationship has been a life-a...

Stoned, raped and now pregnant...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have a weird question. I was partying with a guy a while back and we preceded to get very stoned with a joint he had. I was pretty tired but he wanted to party. He started to kiss me and I said I had a boyfriend. He kept on till I slapped the ...

I want my girlfriend to drop some weight.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I'm 20 my girl is 18. I'm feeling like I'm starting to fall for her but she is starting to get on the overweight side. I still feel attracted to her but I want her to be healthy. I have told her that I love her how she is but the weight is starting ...

Parental dilemma!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have a parental dilemma about, using information, about "bad signs through facebook." I have access to my daughter's account, and I see alarming conversations. About drinking sex, and many very inappropriate behaviour, I don't ever hear from ...

My g/f is becoming distant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 years her grandmother passed away this past friday. Since then I have told her I'm behind her for anything and I'm here to talk if she needs to. my girlfriend doesn't really like to share her emotions and feelings she deals with ...

I have doubts about my g/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - i'v been with this girl for 3months yesterday but yet i still seem to have doubts about her i always feel like she lies to me even tho she says she dosnt i love her i think and i dont want to get hurt but most the time i have to ring her i...