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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I keep waiting for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I am 25 my g/f is 24 we have been together for 10 yrs we have two kids an 8 yr old and a 3 yr old. In august she decided she wanted to leave didnt say anything to me just left for 2 weeks i finally convinced her to come back home and try to work ...

She just doesn't have time for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I have recently engaged in a new relationship with a wonderful girl. She is 17, a senior in High school and I am currently a sophomore in College. The age difference really doesn't affect us that much. My problem is that this girl never seems to ...

Am I just wasting my time with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend don't have the greatest relationship.. but i wish we did. i really feel very strong feelings for him and i just want to be with him all the time. but stuff bugs me.. i know he likes me a lot and always has but i always think ...

He has time for smoking with his boys, but none for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - lately i've been feeling a little lonely. my boyfriend always says he's busy and barely asks me to hang out. i try to wait till he asks so it seems like i don't care. but i do.. and whenever i ask him to hang out he's always doing something. but he ...

Isn't it fair that I start paying rent when I actually move in?

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6 January 2009 (F) - My bf and I are planning to move in together by march. He moved into a bigger apartment and we both paid for the 1st payment (I paid $1000 and he $674). We talked about me paying about 65 - 70% of the rent since I make more money, which is fine ...

He says he hates living with me, should I stay and take this or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for over three years we live together. recently he has been really crabby towards me because times are slow at work for him, and he says i am lazy because i dont do enough house work, even though i work two ...

All's fair in love and war? I'm one of his TWO girlfriends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I was in a three-month sexual and romantic relationship with a guy i thought was single. He called me his girlfriend. Out of the blue, a woman contacts me online saying that she is his long distance girlfriend of 1.5 years. (He had kept this ...

Is it too hard making LDR's work when you don't see each other for weeks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Hii, i just wondered if anyone has or is in the same situation i am soon going to be in. my boyfriend attends university about 2 hours away from home and has a place there in the halls of residence. he has recently been home here since the start of ...

I'm bitter from financially supporting the both of us, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months and now it is really difficult to carry on with the relationship. When we met he just resigned from his previous job in order to finish his masters degree. I was hoping things would work out sooner for ...

Cold feet boyfriend can't commit to living with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I have been seen my girlfriend on and off for 6years. I do have a commitment problem I know. She has been really good to me all these years. I need to move out of my current place and she needs to move out of her place by the end of the month. We ...

Two close brothers that I don't want to come between!!!

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more...

Should I move with my BF or find someone who is happy living where I live?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Please help, My boyfriend wants me to move and live with him (he lives 5 hours aways from me). We have had a really rocky year as he can be a very unreasonable person and is never wrong. Strangely though I do love him very much. He has had a tr...

I don't want to say "I love you" yet, but he gets mad when I don't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I have a situation this boy that I talk to on the phone, he says that he loves me but i don't say it back to him n he gets mad when I don't say it. I don't think that we know eachother that long to say that to eachother. He says he don't mean it, he ...

My boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I need advice, my boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more, I'm 4 months pregnant and my daughter calls him daddy. I just found out he had a one night stand 6 months ago when he was drunk and that destroyed me, I forgave ...

Why has he changed so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend is totally confusing me. When we were dating we had sex and I told him he got a little in me so don't be surprised if I'm pregnant and I told him I found out I was and he thought I was lying so my best friend called him and told him ...

Should I wait for her to call me or call her later on and she how she is doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Last night my girlfriend got really upset with about something she messed up. Everything prior to the incident was going well. She spazzed out about the whole situation. Once again it has nothing to do with me. (she locked her iphone, and has to pay ...

He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that kee...

Arguments about anal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My fiance is always getting sexually frustrated with me and it is always about the same thing -- him wanting to perform anal sex on me!!! I'm not down with that. We've kind of tried before. Last night, we had a slight argument about it. Of course I ...

Misunderstood...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend needs some money for an internet connection, while he is overseas. He tell's me, that since we are in a relationship, that we should be there for each other. Yes, I understand that... but he thinks being there for each oth...

My girlfriend always seems too busy to talk with me these days...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are together for over 6 months now. I am 17 years old and she is 15 years old. She acts very diffrent towards me these days, and I'm very insecure about it. I can't stop thinking that she is cheating on me or something like ...

I'm looking for advice on my boyfriend's attitude towards me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I'm looking for advice on my boyfriend's attitude towards me. About a month before Xmas just gone my Grandma fell very ill and sadly died, the funeral was 2 days before Xmas. I became very run down and fell ill with a cold virus over Xmas and New ...

I now want out of the relationship. How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Started seeing a guy at uni a while back and we're now dating and basically I now want out of the relationship. What happened is this. We got to know each other and maybe rushed in to things a bit quickly. We slept together. That was fine. ...

My boyfriend is friendly with so many pretty girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My bf has A LOT of girl friends. In fact, all his friends are pretty much girls, apart for two of them. He is 20 years old and I am 19. Him having so many girl friends doesnt annoy me too much, its more so the way he acts around them that upsets m...

Lack of intimacy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I have known my boyfriend 6 years - we were good friends on and off throughout the years. There has always been a spark between us, but our timing was always off, one of us would have a partner, or various other reasons would keep us apart, not to ...

Pregnant, Unhappy in relationship--try to make things work or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship of two years and have a one year old son. I am now pregnant with my second and feel unhappy in my relationship. I don't know of it's just hormones but I feel like all we do is argue over the silliest things. I have been wo...

I'm just not feeling her love anymore

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I really need some help on this one please... I'm having some trouble with my girlfriend. I haven't seen her for 2 months on Friday because she keeps saying her work and family are keeping her busy (she's doing her GCSEs so maybe that really coul...

My ex's SO is trying to be my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Well Maybe I can Make Sense as I write this .I am coming out of a marriage after 25 Years .I still have feelings for my husband , but he moved out almost a yr ago .He is now seeing this woman who is about 3 yrs older then him who acts as she wants ...

Is it okay for someone else to tell your man they love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - So ive been having problems with this girl my Boyfriend went to highschol with, shes in a relationship and lives like 200 miles away, so im not worried about him cheating on me with her, plus i look better, anyways this girl has been telling my bf ...

We started a romance, I didn't know he had a girlfriend! What to say/do to him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I'm living abroad for a year and I fell in love with a man I met here. He's 32, I'm 22. We were seeing each other for about three months, and it was wonderful. He called me his girlfriend, introduced me to all his friends as his girlfriend, wrote ...

Does he still care or is this a tactic to reel me in again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I had an 'emotional affair' with a guy at work, who is is really brought the best out of me, a part i let go of until I met him. He reeled me in, I never found him attractive, but now I do, we felt for eachother no doubt, but I could not take the ...

They're wrong about me but the damage is done!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I'm a 25 year old guy. I met this girl when I was 21 and it was love at first sight. We worked together and eventually she left her boyfriend so she could start seeing me. She was everything I wanted; cute, smart, funny, loved me to pieces. I had ...

Has anyone turned this kind of situation around to be civil?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Hello: I work with someone who I was in a 'fantasy relationship with' though we did express being crazy about eachother, after nothing went further then our feelings, i got pissed and realized I need to end this. Yes he is a co worker and yes he is ...

I act badly when drunk, my b/f's son likes me, what a mess! Want to end it!

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6 January 2009 (F) - I've been a relationship for 6 months.he's 15 yrs older. Its been great. Until friday nite. Please don't judge me to harshly but honestly. My relationship is with a married man and a musician (he doesent drink anymore, 14yrs sober) but I was ...

Will I ever be able to smile again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - This is long and i have left out some personal detail so bare with me, but i feel so down and out. I didnt have a great childhood, it was stolen from me when i was very young, my mum and dad thought they could trust this guy to look after me but ...

Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...

I tried to walk away but he gets so upset and it just kills me, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I really need your help. I'm 18 and in college. I'm an attractive girl and party a lot. I live in the moment and keep my grades up and everything else is just about being happy and having fun to me. I don't like relationships but I am in ...

What is going on with him? Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Is he seeing someone else? or why would he start acting this way? I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he started standing me up, and when I call and ask him where he is he very calm, when I ask him to bring the stuff I left in his car ...

I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Please help me end it for good.... I need some emotional support. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 1/2 years. I'm 44 He's 47... I have broken up with him before only to take him back after he begs and makes promises he cannot seem to keep. I have ...

How can I tell my boyfriend to stop talking/seeing his ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28. I have the feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex. (she is my age). I know his ex, she was once friends with my older sister and she can be very intimadating and very sneeky. When I look through his ...