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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want to call her, but I also think if she really cared she would have called by now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Hello Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this as I am completely lost right now and could really use some advice from an outside party other than my friends and family. I know this is a long post but please, if you have the time, read this ...

Should I be making an exit strategy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...

I might as well be invisible

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - He never notice how nice i look.. only the 1st time we met. He told me i look good and that i look after myself.. we i go to see him.. i look my best.. but he doesn’t say i look good or anything... WHY IS THAT? I feel like he doesn’t like how...

1st b/f any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are 17 (well I will be in a couple of weeks.) We started seeing each other 5/6 months ago and continued dating until November when he asked me out. The problem is we're both really quiet people who have never had a boy/girl f...

How do I stop being too nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - ive had 4 failed relationships and all of them didn’t turn out well at all.. in the beginning it would be soo nice.. but then after a while all the phone calls would stop and it seem like am the only one tryng to make it work. trying to force th...

Boyfriend will not stop talking to her! Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am dealing with so much confusion and heartbreak with my current boyfriend, I don't know what to do. My boyfriend lives about 4 hours away, I am on the main coast and he is on the Island. When we met, he was everything I had bee...

Involved with married man & I'm really messed up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I need some advice. I am a 25 year old young woman who fell in love with an MM a year ago. It all started when he made a pass at me unexpectedly. Because I trusted him, and he is a leader at my church, I did the wrong thing beca...

I think he will get tired of all the drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hi, My problem is that i feel like i have become a bad girlfriend and i dont deserve my boyfriend anymore. We been together for 7 months and up until the 5th months things were wonderful, but majority of the problems stems from my side of the r...

I feel she's crossing the line of respect in our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Im sure my subject line gives you all a good idea of what my post is about, but let me give a couple details. My gf and I have been together about a year and a half now and are living together now about 8 months. Our relationship...

Will I always be on the outside looking in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - my bf went to court to finalize his divorce recently, which he initiated, no kids involved, and then after the court hearing - they went out to eat. I was a little surprised I guess and admittedly a little upset. Not sure why but I think because ...

Is she keeping her emotions in check and waiting until my divorce is final?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Let me tell my story. I need some insight from someone on this situation. I have written on this forum previously. I am in a long-distance relationship with a single mom, whose son has deployed to Iraq. We are high school classmates and hadn't ...

Why do so many women want to be in control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - My relationship is great except for the following: She's a real nag sometimes and it drives me nuts! She's controlling and it effects my self-esteem. Why do so many women want to be in control? Don't they know it makes us feel like less of a m...

Please give me the courage to leave my cheating husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I will be celebrating our 10th Wedding Anniversary in Feb-2009 but I'm not thrilled about it as my husband is having an affair. I found out about it for 7 months already. I've confronted him about it, asked his best friend to talk to ...

I need to be reassured and to know where we stand in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I really need some help. I'm pregnant, 7 months and I'm feeling really pushed away but my partner. He says it's the pregnacy but I swear he's bipolar or something, he's nice one minute and being a smart ass the next. I feel like I can't tal...

I feel that the feeling of being forced to have a son will never let him love me the way I want him to love me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and have been together for 3 years now. The 1st month we were together of course we were so happy so happy that we got pregnant really quickly we met in December by January I was pregnant. He was happy at 1st was willing to tell ...

My future husband doesn't know I smoke and I'm scared he will hate me for it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I've been smoking for three years and dating my man for 2 years. he doesn't know that i smoke. I've tried quitting but its so hard because it's my relaxing point. but i'm in love with him and he hates people who smoke. i don't want to tell him ...

I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend. This man makes me feel like I am on the top of the world, he is a amazing person the thing is he is much older than me and has a girlfriend in his hometown; we live in two different states. The th...