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writes:I have a weird question. I was partying with a guy a while back and we preceded to get very stoned with a joint he had. I was pretty tired but he wanted to party. He started to kiss me and I said I had a boyfriend. He kept on till I slapped the shit out of him, so then he hit me and tried to make me perform a sext act on him. I refused. Next I know he is pulling off my clothes. I was so stoned but I know I tried to stop him. I asked him you're going to rape me aren't you? He said nothing and proceded to have sex with me, even though I kept trying to push him away and I kept saying I don't want this. After a while he stopped and got up and went into the bathroom. When he came out, he kept asking me if I was ok or mad and I didn't know what to say aside from telling him to leave. I don't know what to do about this because I am sure I am pregnant and I don't know if I should just ignore him or what. What do I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 January 2009):
 This is a troubling post; I am very sorry to hear what has happened. I think that you should reach out to one of the rape crisis centers that can help you cope with this situation. You could look for the local rape crisis center in your local phone book or google that and your town, county or state name too.
Additionally, I have some national resources that you could turn to for some referrals.
Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network
Phone 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
Website www.rainn.org
Plannedparenthood.org could steer you to a local facility with expertise in this situation as well.
The statistics for rape are a bit scary: 78% of them in the US are committed by a person known to the victim. That's more than 3/4!!! So don't hold back on getting yourself the help and advice you need from the professionals just because you knew him. That is not going to alter the facts in the case, okay?
I hope that you get the help you need and deserve,
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): Well first of all, I would report him to the police. Even though it may be scary, report him to the police, get him to admit it. Something similar happend to my sister, and she didn't have proof, so she just kept texting him until the guy finally was like I AM SOO SORRY I RAPED YOU! and she showed it to the police and it was proof, and he is in jail now. She is not pregnant, but if you are 100% you are pregnant, either before or after you tell the police tell your boyfriend, talk about your options. (abortion/adoption/keeping it) and go from there.best of luck to you and I am VERY VERY sorry this has happend to you!!!
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