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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel so lost. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I'm so lost at this moment. Me and my hubby met back when I was 18. We met in college and we fell in love. We soon after got engaged and we married the following summer. We married because he was wanting to go into the military and his...

Does he seriously want me back? Or like my friends said, Is he just lonely for now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend brkoe up with me about 2 weeks ago. We only went out for 2 months, but this breakup hurt me espeically since it was my first serious relationship after a bad experience. (My ex-boyfriend hit on one of my friends and lied to me when I ...

I think I'm falling for my partner's mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 7 years, I love him but for at least 6 of those years I have had really strong feelings for his best mate, I've tried to get over these feelings as I never thought I had a chance with my partner's mate, but I have ...

Lost and Confused...Aries and Aquarius!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Here is the gist of the story. I met this guy in Cali I don't live there but visit often for the past 10 years. He is a friend of a relative for six years and we've never formally met each other but had to have passed by each other countless times. ...

My BF's parents hate me, should I stick it out and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Thank you for reading... Well I've been with my boyfriend for four months now and things were going amazingly well. We're happy together and truly love each other more than anything... But there's one major problem... Recently my boyfriend's p...

How do I gain mutual respect in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend is 21 and I'm 20 this year. We have been together for almost 2 years and recently we have been having lots of problems, from 5 months back. My boyfriend was enlisted in army for 2 years, and right now, he left 1 year to go. We o...

He's amazing but he's a total manwhore, what do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - k to start off, i'm 17 (grade 11) and my boyfriend's name is kris, he's in grade 10 (16) but verrrrry cute:) i think he's amazing, basically perfect. since he's extremely popular, amazingly hot, a gentlemen, good listener, caring and the whole pa...

I want him back. What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have met this guy 7 months ago. Everything was perfect and I know we were in love. He did everything for me but apparently there were things that annoyed him and he didnt talk about them til last week. He said I act bad about things and I have ...

Do I trust my gut feeling or my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been reading a book in order to help me with my confused mind. I am currently with my man of 4 years, he does everything right, and everyone around us thinks we are very happy together. I am however constantly thinking about another man, ...

I'm so confused and messed up, please someone pull me out of this!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I am in desperate need of help. I have been so over anxious about my relationship the past week that I have almost been making myself sick. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years, and have lived together for about 10 ...

Does romance really fade away so fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I am 26 years old and I've been married for a little over a year. We've known each other for 10 years and had several ins and outs with our relationship. He was my first serious relationship at 15 and I've loved him ever since..We have a son whose ...

Shall I just move on? My gut instinct says that he is avoiding me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend contacted me 4 months after breaking up with me and wanted to see me, we met up a few times and ended up sleeping together. I am not over him and he knows that He told me I am beautiful and that he still thinks of me especially ...

Live-in boyfriend of 3 years needs his space?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have lived together for 2. He told me 2 nights ago that he wants to get his own apartment because he needs his space. He goes on to tell me that he is still in love with me and still wants to remain ...

When a guy gets close to me, I back off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I am 23 year old girl and my most embarressing problem is that I've never had a boyfriend. I've had problems in the past with me having been sexually abused when I was 9 and really bullied at School. I have been asked out by lads before but found ou...

Facing 30 and very unhappy about it. Unlucky.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I grew up with very little opportunities in life, I grew up poor and in a badly made house with no heating and no hot running water. I also have asthma, short eye sight, learning diffculty, depressing and low self estreem, so I found school very ...

Should I send him a message apologising for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I was upset with my online man cause he wasn't acting the same then my best friend got really upset and sent him a message saying I was crying for him and that if he cared about me he should talk to me. I told her not to send any messages to him and ...

All I want is some space to be left alone for a while!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have this ex girlfriend who's gone completely raging psycho on me. I mean, completely off the deep end. We broke up about 3 months ago, but she is still expecting me to treat her like she's my girlfriend and that's completely flustering to me. ...

He accused me of chucking a little old lady on to the street...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years we have a 2 year old little boy we both work full time. My problem is when we met I owned my own house with a mortgage he also owns a house jointly with his mum, his mum put half towards the house and ...

What can we do to stop fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Well thanks to all that gave me wonderful advice. :) but I have another question... Okay well I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 and we have been together for seven months now and we have a lot of problems. We always seem to fight. So my question is how ...

Friendship and Hurt Feelings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have a couple who I consider friends, and I thought they considered me a friend. We do not have any long history of being friends, but our girls are in the same grade at school. We have done casual things together, Girl Scouts, etc. I have done ...

I want to have a relationship and it be sexual but I have problems

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Hello I'm 30, male, divorced and I have a dilemma. I want to have a girlfriend, and I would like the relationship to be sexual. The problem is that I also don't want to upset any girl if I like her enough to be interested in her. I have n...

He says his heart isn't in it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for 14 years. We have 3 kids together. Now in our 14 years together we have had alot of make up break ups. and we were apart for almost 2 months he was in another state and called me to say he messed up and wanted me back. ...

My g/f is sad but we don't talk about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Hello i need help, me and my gf have been dating for 2 months now, and now she is sad and she says its something that she doesnt remember but every time she forgets it she feels it in her heart. When i called her she talk abt it and then she got ...

I want to leave him but I'm afraid he won't come after me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - SO I have been with my boyfriend for six years. When we first started dating he was amazing. He still is an amazing person works hard, and I know he loves me. Everyone who meets him loves him and thinks he's a great guy. The thing is things are ...

I feel alone and abandoned and we play mindgames on the phone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - hi ,im divorced and met a man 16mths ago,he is the same divorced also .at the start he wined and dined me,but after all the breakups we have he is not the same,he lives away a few miles from me and as im the one with car he wants me to go to him.he ...

6.5 years and she's not being honest with me? Move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 6.5 years is lying to me. She got this new job more than a year ago and last year I stared to notice some changes in her. Last year we were in the process of buying a house together than soon get married. However, I was not happy ...