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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My wife has big problems! Can you change someone's behaviour and personality?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Can you change someones behaviour and personality? My wife of six years is changing, all aspects of her behaviour and personality are different to when i first met her. To give you some background I knew her for about 4 years before we were mar...

I'm angry...she is being over friendly to this other guy! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I've just had an argument with my ladyfriend over this guy in the office. Both she and I have worked at the same company for about 3 years . We started dating about a year ago - but kept the matter secret. I used to have an office right next to ...

When he blows up, it's so much hard work to get him to lighten up and accept that a lot of the problems are the ones he's causing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is so gorgeous to look at, absolutely stunning, so I was gobsmacked when we got together. After a few months together I have realised that he is always always right. We fall out over the most ridiculous things and until I apologise he ...

My boyfriend keeps spelling my name wrong and it's so embarrassing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone...! I have a problem, it might seem slightly small and silly, but in the long-term it could turn out to be a bigger problem lol I'm 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months. The problem is that he used ...

Am I in denial? Is he really gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy on and off for 9 months, the last I seen him was around the middle part October, the guy is strange to make a long story short which there is so much talk about. Today is my birthday. He called me to wish me a happy ...

I think I might be gay... in love with a straight man! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi everyone! First of all before I even begin I would like to thank you for reading this and for any responses as well. I'll start at the beginning I'm a 24 year old guy, whose life has recently been turned upside down! All my life I've thought I ...

Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I right in having doubts about what he said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Dear all, When I first started a relationship with my boyfriend, he told me that he had dated before. Like any other couple starting out, we tried to be honest about what happened in the past. Of course, being younger then, we didn't really do...

Will my girlfriend forgive me for accidentally standing up her parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend got really pissed off at me because I stood up her at her parents (I suppose met them) and I made her look stupid (that what she says). For some reason I thought it was next week. Shes also mad because she call me like 20 times that ...

My ex cheated on me all the time and now I can't trust my new girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Basically since my ex-girlfriend cheated on me repeatedly its hard for me to trust my girlfriend Im with now. My girlfriend now of five months is having an old friend of hers who she had sex with before come up to our job to see her. This is ...

How to tell her I'm not in the mood without pissing her off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I used to rarely be sexual because she would be so stresed / depressed that it would take that drive away from her. Now that shes less stressed she is probably more in the mood, but I have talked to her about when shes not been ...

I have a problem with telling lies to my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i are in kind of a hard palace right now. I have a problem with telling lies to him because i have lied so much in my life they sometimes just slip out and then they come back to bite me in the butt. Right now we are inbetween ...

How do I get my bloke to dress smarter because when we go out he embarasses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Afternoon All! Im hoping to get some advice. I've been seeing this guy for a few months-we met at a theatre group and got on really well.He's 19 im 21. The problem i have is with his dress sense. For work he wears nice suits but when we go out...

Husband has new male friend - what are his intentions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Husband has new male friend - what's his intentions? My husband of five years has a male friend (he is married also) that he met at his new job. We recently moved to a new area and he says he is his only friend. They talk at least once a day, call...

I'm going back to my ex, but my Mom disapproves...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - i'm 19 turning 20 and i was with my bf for a year and a half before we decided to call it quits. Our relationship was a little complicated. We met at college and didnt live too far from eachother while being at home. My bf always respected my ...

What do I do? Does this seem logical? Is he just pulling my leg?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and his mother just passed away in august very suddenly and her death has taken its toll on him. We're both only 20 years old but we care for each other very deeply and are like two puzzle pieces that ...

She's insecure because of her abusive ex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (?) - This is a two part question so might be a bit confessing. My girlfriend (of 2 years) had a very abusive ex-boyfriend (he physically and emotionally abused her) and she's afraid I hit her as well. I honestly wouldn't because it isn't right. I t...

My b/f now wants to be FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 1 and half years, told me that he wanted to be just friends with benefits, i agreed as i still love him, and it was a way for me still to see him. i cannot bare the thought of not seeing him, and i am hoping that he realizes ...

He wants me to change my PROFESSIONAL name after marriage and I don't want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have been in a relationship my boyfriend for 2 years and have run into some problems. We have discussed our future many times, trying to sort things to make our relationship work into a marriage, but I have some issues with what...

How do you know when its over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - how do you know when your relationship is over? my partner and I are always argueing! and I just dont know what to do anymore! Iam pregnant, and love him but everything else in life just seems to get in the way of us actually enjoying each other ...

I don't want to cheat--how do I stay faithful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Ok so ths is kind of hard to explain. im 22 and is engaged with two kids. One daughter adopted who is 18 months and my newborn son who is 8 weeks old. I love my fiance and my family to bits but we have had troubles and low points in the past ...

I'm pregnant my husband has bad depression and making it so hard to live with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - i found out that i am pregnant ,my husband and i have not been getting along for 8-9 months now. he has bad depression at times and is not easy to live with. i think that i have stayed with him because i love him and feel sorry for him , he ...

Is it ok that I'm pissed off at her about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - My gf and I have been going out for 5 months but lately weve become distant and Ive talked to her about breaking up but she desperatley wants to keep going with it. So a couple of days ago her mom dropped her off at my house to stay for about 12 ...

What should I do about her jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - My fiance and I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half. Generally, we get along well and of course there are bumps in the road every once in a while like any relationship, but one bump that comes up a lot is my interaction with ...

Why does he keep texting and calling and emailing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i need your help. robert and i have been best friends for about three years i mean this boy would kill over me and he doesn't do that for everyone.about a year ago i told him i wanted to be more. hes had it bad for me since he met me but ...

What he has said still hurts, should I leave things as they are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - my husband cheat 3x in 11yrs. the last time I woulnt take him back he moved out to our other home and didn't help with any $ or the kids I turned to my older sons father for support my husband found out and started all these rumors about us..he is ...

He's a friend did I ruin our friendship by telling him to back off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - hi... i am a 12 year old gurl... I have a bf who i am REALLY in luv with { i posted a question about him not to long ago} anyway, i also have this friend, he is deeply in luv with me and is always trying to interfere with my relationship. Recently I ...

We liked each other, we dated, we talked, then he wanted to end it, what happened??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - OK, so, I liked this boy for ages, and he liked me too, but neither of us could pluck up the courage to ask the other out. We had always been friends, so it's weird how we both started fancying each other after we'd known one another for so long ...

I am love and he loves me but surely the way things are isn't good!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I am in a clueless frame of mind as to what to do with my relationship. I am in a relationship with a man (gay) that has become sexually strained, well for me at least. He has decided to tell me after years that he just isn't a very sexual pers...

How do I know he is telling the truth about it being a "one time thing"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I'm 26 and recently i was suspicious of my boyfriend. Before I get to much further into it, our relationship has been great up until the past month. We are best friends and do everything together. We play video games, go fishing, take walks an...

I trust and love him but at times he makes me question us...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys I have a bit of a problem recently I got married to the love of my life. But before we got married he had told that he had gotten back in contact with his friend whom he thought was the love of his life. He's constantly talking to her even ...

Is this co-worker interested in my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - How do I know if my boyfriend is interested in one of our co-workers? He started buying her snacks and always smiles at her. He asks questions about when she is working. She knows that we are engaged. She always smiles back. Now when she hears ...

Question for guys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I would be lying if I said I wasn't in love with him. I get scared cause I think he will leave me all the time. I want to talk to him about my fears, but guys hate girl stuff and emotion and ...

I love him to death and I don't want to let go. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I have been with a guy for the past 3 years. We had our ups and downs, I'm still madly in love with him.. he obviously love me too because he gets jealous, our only problem was trust, I never trusted him because he cheated a lot, I always forgave ...

My girlfriend has one inverted nipple and she's paranoid about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has one inverted nipple - it doesn't bother me at all, but she is so paranoid about it that her boobs are a no go area. She has been to the doctor and there are no medical problems. I don't know how we can get over this as I really...