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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I've told my girlfriend to fuck off at the moment and not speak to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I have a serious problem with trusting my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 months (a long time for me) and we just argue A LOT we get on most of the time but a while ago, she was going home after seeing me, she usually catches the bus home, ...

I feel like we have such strong feelings for each other but very confused as to what he is feeling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I have been getting to know a man for a couple of months. He just got out a relationship recently.(3 months ago) He is a very withdrawn guy but trusted me enough to discuss his feelings with me. I've never met a man who had such strong emotional ...

Why is my boyfriend doing this???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him ...

He loves his step son more than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My youngest child's father has been really supportive but my 16 year old son has been causing problems and my bf got really involved and neglected me. As a result we have not been intimate for nearly a year and it's getting colder. Christmas we d...

My friend is a good mum but she doesn't eat enough and I'm scared she will pass out and I'm worried about the kids...

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15 January 2009 (F) - I have a very good friend but I think she has an eating problem. She starves all day and is below size 4 in clothes size, she has two young kids below 2. She also has a boyfriend, whenever he gets in from work she starts an argument and is ...

He's stressing me out and I'm pregnant and don't need it! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Okay this is the third bulletin I send out in like less than 5 minutes and I appoligize I just got a lot of problems that i need some sort of opionion from a stranger that is willing to take some sort of time to care, at least a little. Well, Okay.. ...

Dating 3 years, pregnant and he tells me he don't love me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Well, My name doesnt matter. I'm 19 years old. My bf is 28 years old. And we've been together for almost 3 years now. And I'm pregnant almost 3 months. I love him, and I do love him to death, It's just hard for me to tell him, I love you, after ...

How rotten is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I have caught my bf in little lies off and on for quite a while but what he has done in the past couple of weeks was just over the top. I've caught him quite a few lies. First he loans money to someone he works with for only a few weeks. I'm s...

He's a totally different person when he's on drugs...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Hello there, I have a major issue. I've been with my BF for almost one year. That may not seem like a long time to you but considering I practically live at his house every day is pretty much equivalent to a few years together. Anyway, my pro...

Crucial concept...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - On June 29, 2008 my handsome son was born. He means the world to me. Prior to that I had been with my son's father for almost 2 years till I got pregnant. When I told him he lied to everyone telling them I was a hoe and that we never had sex. Soon I ...

Open mouth insert foot..now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Last night I casually asked my gf if when we first started talking and seeing each other 6 months ago, if she was still thinking about getting back together with her ex as they had only just split up. I didn’t mean anything by it as I wasn’t ...

I'm angry and worried-no contact in 2 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Advice from men required! Am I overreacting or am I right to be upset? My ex-boyfriend has gone away with his friend for a few months to Vietnam. We agreed that this experience would do him good with the idea of us getting back together when he ...

I want him to know that I will be wherever he needs to be

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Got to go back in time a bit first. 14 months ago I lost my mum and a few weeks later I met a lovely man, who was just what I needed. We loved each other, my family liked him and I got on with his family and friends. We spent lots of time ...

I just don't want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I don't want sex. I am 23 and I dated my boyfriend for 6 years before we broke up for a number of reasons. After a year we got back together and when we did I did not want to have sex. I had no explanation for why, I just did not think about it...

My b/f lost his dream how to comfort him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has jus been told hes being medically dscharged after several injuries from the royal marines and he is devestated. It was his dream 2 be a royal marines commando. How do i comfort and help him at this time and through it? :( x...

Hopefully you have time "Insecurity and Paranoia"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - This is a long story in a question hopefully somebody has the time.. My girl friend and me have been together on and off since I was 15 and im now 19 ..she has seen me in past relationships and stood by as a friend, and vice versa...when we hooked ...

5 months pregnant and in a crisis!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - First of all im writing in to just ask for help because everyone I speak to says I need to sort it myself but I seriously don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months, I am 5 months pregnant and he treats me like I...

He seems to be a little distant since his brother arrived...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Hello. I am a single mother of a 2 year old little girl. I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. He's an attractive, funny and smart guy. He has a nice job as well. We both have lots in common except he is 4 years my junior. He has a 3 year ...

I truly believe this will work out, she just needs time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - So basically she said she needs time to figure out what she's going to do about her ex which she went out with 3 years for, she still has feelings for him and she needs to straighten them out, those feelings were getting in the way of are ...

I feel that he just doesn't want to listen to my stuff any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Well basically he says that we are not communicating as much and he says that I have a nasty attitude or my jealousy but whenever we have an argument he like to always win and basically whenever I feel him distant or that something is wrong with him ...

I don't feel that "spark" any more between us.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I'm engaged to a great guy. Treats me better than I feel I deserve sometimes. We've been together for 5 years. We met when I was 19 he was 21. He had been engaged to a girl he had dated sense high school. She cheated on him and they broke up. Not ...

Do I finish with my baby's dad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend of a year and a half. He is a lovely guy, but I don't feel in love with him. We also have a baby together. I would love 2 make it work for all of us. One problem I have is I can't help this feeling of ...

I'm not sure whether my boyfriend wants a break or some "time off".

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he doesn't feel the same but he wants to try it once again even though he thinks it's gonna work out only for a few weeks and later it will end up as usual, without communication and romanticism. We are living together and ...

I don't want anything from him but attention and care.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old and I've beeen seeing my boss who is 43 years old... I started it as fun. I've never dated a married man or someone older than me for even two years.. but matters of the heart are not to be played with.. I am so much in love wit...

He shagged like a porn star in his affair!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 14 years, with 2 kids. He is 40 I am 37. For a long time (possibly always) our love life has not been right. He is very highly sexed, and would want to make love every day, and several times a day if ...

Cheat, cheat and cheat again?!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - i been married 20yrs and found out my husband was having an affair with a girl at work.she is 20yrs younger when i found out he admitted everything he had been seeing her for a few months he even took her to a hotel where our son had got married a ...

I feel the fool now, how does this happen? A person who said I was the love of his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I too am very prplexed and also hurt I have been term relationship of over 7 years he was much younger and persued me. he was innocent a virgin at 26 and i never knew till after. now after 7 years he says he wants to still be with me but needs to be ...

To be or not to be.. that is the question!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I was dating this girl for 7 months on and off but the reason why we were on and off is because of our trust issues and insecurites(mostly mine). In the beginning of the relationship, i caught her staring at this guy really really hard and it's ...

Is this what it's like to be in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - what is wrong with me.. whenever me and my boyfriend get mad at each other he says goodbye then i say bye but i always end up trying to get him to talk to me. and he doesn't.. he just talks to me when ever he feels like it. and it makes me so sad.. ...

Three years and he still calls me by HER name

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - HI. I am having a similar problem to one problem that I just read. My Fiance called me by his ex wives name. AGAIN!!! First time we were in bed in the A.M. and he said "H" go make my coffee. Now my name is "P". Those names are nothing alike. Second ...

We can't stand each other but I'm addicted to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for a year and a half now, we've been going as a couple well we suppose to! Anyway during our relationship we broke up so many countless times, we have an arguement or something over very meaningless stuff and then we break up! ...