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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend is going bald and I hate bald men... how can I change the way I feel?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and he is going bald. i am having a difficult time adjusting to it as I am just not attracted to bald men. We have been together for 5 years, and while I do love him, it's making me see him in a completely ...

I want to trust him and I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. But can a player really change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for around a year. When we first got together we were totally open with each other I told him about things that had hapenned to me in past relationships and he told me everything he'd done in his past, he was a bit of a ...

Is this truly consider moving on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - My ex bf and i dated for 5 years and were engaged for 2. I called our wedding off because i was not ready and wanted to take some time apart to make sure. We were fighting all the time over stupid stuff. Of course this devastated him and was ...

Cousin is being abused and controlled! How do we help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - basically my cousin is dating this guy who is a control freak. my cousin is only 18 and he tells her what she can wear, who she can see,etc. also i think he is abusive to her. her mum is very worried and has recently gone through cervical cancer. ...

We're going at 2 different speeds and I wish he'd slow down a bit.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - He's like.. Let's get it on! But I'm not ready yet! I just started dating this guy.. Our kisses are very, very passionate. I mean enough to lead up to sex, but I'm putting on the brakes. Of course I want sex but much later in the relationship. I ...

I don't want him to be mad at me... how can I get him NOT to be mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - hello every1 I have a problem with my boyfriend.. 2 days ago he met a girl.. and he told me she was nice and stuff and they talk a lot now.. I got jealous and I stressed yesterday.. he told me I have nothing to be afraid because he loves me.. yea...

I feel as if I'm making all the sacrifices here...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months, we want to move in together. I'm willing to move away and take my 3 kids with me. My eldest doesn't want to go, she's 15, which would mean me going without her. This is a big sacrifice ...

Is this what you'd call cheatin' or wot???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I don't know if this is cheating or not, so here we go... I went to a concert Friday and I left the people I was with to hang out with this guy, and my friend I saw there. The guy is just a guy but he was hitting on me hard and I was playing back...

She's the perfect girl, she's the girl of my dreams, she the one I want to spent the rest of my life with.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and my best friend is 18. I really love her and she really loves me. About 6 months ago we started dating.. secretly through. She has a boy friend, oh by the way she's straight too and I'm bi. It was hard cuz I'm not out and she has a ...

To me actions speak louder than words.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been engaged to a man since February 2008, since his recent divorce and all that helped I have seen a lot of chances in him for the worst, he tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me but we are so strapped for money right now its ...

Some days he loves me, some days I think he wants me out the door

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i wrote to you regarding my issue and you said you couldnt list it why i dont know. well i thought i would give it a try one more time i have been engaged to a man feb.2008 alot has happened since than he has when throw a horrible divorce in ...

Is there a way to find out who owns an email address?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I suspect my boyfriend is cheating on me and I am busy collecting evidence before I confront him and kick his sorry ass right out of my house. I found an email address written on a piece of paper in his trouser pocket and would like to know if ...

I cannot bear the thought of another man looking at me, never mind touching me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Twelve months ago I had a disastrous encounter with a guy I considered a friend who I really fell in love with and thought he felt the same. I trusted him implicitly. Never ever found out why but he cut me dead and was extremely weird and nasty. I ...

I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...

He's hurt because I went back to my ex for a bit. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I am a 20 year old female. My boyfriend and I started dating in our Senior year of high school and were together for two years. Our meeting was rather unusual, he was the friend of a guy who I was dating, R. R. introduced us and we ended up becoming ...

Love my husband so much, not sexually attracted to him, adicted to my lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my husband for 12 year, married for 5. Although we once had very steamy sex and were completely in love and "in like", for me, the attraction is completely gone. It has been for probably 9 years. There's a lot of resentment on my pa...

Any advice would be appreciated about my tangled mess of a marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - My husband left me (and our 2 kids) a few months ago, before Thanksgiving. This was quite a surprise to me, he just up and did it! We have been having problems before that for about 1-1/2 years. A couple of weeks after he left, I lost my job because ...

He tells me he loves his girlfriend but there is still sexual tension between us.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid, Me and my partner split up a few weeks before christmas and it really hurt me. We were still sleeping with each other right up and till he got a new girlfriend which I found out was his house mate which hurt even more but on Christma...

I rarely get head but she REALLY doesn't want it herself either...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - I have a question regarding variety of sex dropping off in general, and cunnilingus in particular. My wife and I have been married nine years, been together for fifteen. No kids. When we were first got together we were quite open to most "stan...