I have to ask to have sex and when I do he goes off saying he doesn't need me pressuring him or wanting sex on demand.

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I love sex a lot, everyday if possible! but I wonder what I've done so wrong to get none at all. My husband and I used to have sex daily and for months, now it's like he's lost intrest in me. He doesn't tell me I'm beautiful any more, he doesn't whisper to me I want you. He's just disgusted with everything I do. I have to ask to have sex and when I do he goes off saying he doesn't need me pressuring him or wanting sex on demand. I try to talk to him about it and he filps everything around to being my fault. When we have sex it's like 20 seconds then he falls off to go to sleep. This isn't fair and I wanna scream. Yeah I've gained a few pounds since we got together but I'm still the same person. Please help, I don't know how much more I can take. Sincerely lonely wife

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