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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Will I ever be able to trust him while she is still in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 months still has regular contact with his ex, he dated her for 5 years, she is 23 he is 40. A few week ago he went to meet her and she stayed the night at his, he told me he was going home to watch the footie with his neighbour ...

My boyfriend won't finger me or do anything sexual for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Okay, well my boyfriend and I have now been in a relationship for over 4 months now; I am 17 and he is 18, and we both love each other very much. Yet I'm worried something is wrong because he won't touch me in any way more than touch my breasts. I ...

Can you make love for 5 hours and NOT be in a loving relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible to make love constantly for 5 hours and not be in a relationship that is based on true love?? ...

I want out, but I fear it will hurt my daughter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I live with my fiance of 2 years (we been together for 6) and our 4 year old daughter. We own a house, live a quite life. I have recently realized I am not happy! My entire family lives 14 hours by car away. He is an only child with only his father ...

Is it time for me to leave him and move on with my life and try to make things better for me and our son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My husband works, I'm the mom/housewife. He never hardly ever gives me money, we hardly ever communicate like we used to, we've been together 3 years and married one year, we just got some taxes back and he's spent his half and most of mine that we ...

He knows how I feel so why is he still pushing for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 months now. When we where friends he didn't want to rush into any thing like sex, he just wanted to take things slow and at a time, he didn't seem like all the other boyfriends that I've been out with, ...

Has my husband been unfaithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am married and have not had sex with my husband or anyone else for months. Last Friday I had sex with my husband and 2 days later I had a white discharge, itchy and sore vagina. Did I get it off my husband? Has he been unfaithful?...

Would you ever go back to an ex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Hiya people, One quick question when a guy says he doesn't go back to his ex, does he mean it even when people say there's a connection between you both? That's what my ex has said to me, but he's gone back to one of his ex's before and it ha...

Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls? I'm in a relationship with this guy and sometimes I'm like 'What a jerk' Either that or has no manners. Ok, I hate, hate, hate it when guys walk in front of me and leave me behind. He does this sometimes. ...

My friend and this guy are being total assholes!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - So I really love this guy and my best friend or I mean who was my best friend is now going out with him and that really fricken hurts me like you would not believe!! But I don't know if he does but I don't think that he really likes her, I think he ...

Can you have a healthy relationship without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - this is an awkward thing to be asking strangers, but i don't really know what to do. My Boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years, and man has it been a ride. But we don't have sex. We don't have sex because he doesn't like vagina's, but he ...

How do I break this cycle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - My question relates to breaking destructive relationship patterns. I am gay but this is not a gay-specific issue. My typical short-lived relationship begins with my attempting to make everything perfect and impressive. Eventually, say by the thir...

Is my paranoia sabotaging my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Right well let me just start with something about myself. I have cripplingly low confidence. Seriously, it is abnormally bad. I am so harsh on myself that it's crazy. I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and I am on antidepressants to ...

I feel I'm being bullied and I'm in my twenties!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - A guy down the local keeps on starting on me - getting in my face and demanding I do stupid things for him and coming over and interrupting my conversations by taking the piss and he's really threatening. I've never spoken to or seen the guy before ...

I can't stop seeing prostitutes...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - hi agony agony aunts and uncles, I have a problem which is really getting me down. To put it bluntly in the last year I have had sex with more than 20 prostitutes. I have no problem getting women the normal way (one might even call me a player...

I don't wanna be seen as coming between best friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I am very much in love with my boyfriend however there are a few things which really upset me and I don't know how to approach him on these issues as I don't want to lose him. He would rather go out with a load of people and get drunk on valenti...

Is he playing me or trying to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a few days now got off work early yesterday and wanted to hang out. But I had to work late. Plus, I had school work. We talked throughout the night. Then, I said let's hang out on Friday...due to my busy work and school schedule....

We've been together 2.5 years but now I'm questioning our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2.5 years, and we have had our many ups and downs, but lately I've been questioning my relationship. We live together, have come through many arguments and problems, have lost and regained trust, pretty ...

I want her back, I know she still loves me! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I am 44 and met this lady who is 28 at my sons baseball league. first time we both seen each other from first day we fell for one another.. she was in an unhappy marriage. she fell in love with me and thru our relationship she had gotten divorced.We ...

My girlfriend jokes around with friends but then is so quiet with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hi there ive been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we are very much in love. I love her more than anything and she is the most improtant person in my life. Thing is recently she has started becoming grumpy and crabby quite a lot. She has ...

If it werent for our infant daughter I wouldnt even be trying to save this marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Do I stay or go? My wife and I got married in April 2008 principally because she was pregnant - we had a daughter in september. Before we married we both lived in our own houses about 50km apart. After our marriage due to location of work etc I mo...

DON'T share your wife with anyone!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I was married with my wife for 3 years we had no children. We went to the doctor but of no use, they said my my sperm was not fertile, my younger sister and I are the only "children" of my family and my mother is dead. My wife suggested we adopt ...

I dropped him off at the bus stop and left him stranded with no money.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Today I made a harshest decision. I dropped my boyfriend off at the taxi rank and he didn't have money for the bus fare. I left him there to find his way. I know it is mean, especially for someone who has zero cents in his pocket. I have been dating ...

He's married, so why does he need a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - i've been married to my husband for two years.. but seems like i still don't know who is he.. i found quite several time that he with another girl.. even bring the girl to the house when i'm not arround. i try to forget and forgive. coz i really ...

He just doesn't feel like a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - hi,hope someone out there can give me some advice. I am in a relationship with a man who has been in the British army for 9 years,he is a corporal and is currently training to become an officer at sandhurst. We have been together on and off for abou...

My neighbor thinks I still like her and I don't

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - About a month ago my neighbor found out that I liked her. I have moved on and an completely over her by now. But sadly she still has this crazy notion that I still like her. She has a boyfriend that lives with her, and they constantly talk rea...

Should I stay? OR should I go? I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am a single mom of a 17 year old who's father passed away when he was 3 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend on and off for about 4 years now. I spend most of my free time with both my son and my boyfriend. My boyfriend says I am close to ...

I'm in a relationship but want to experiment with men--is it wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I am a 20 year old male with a crossdressing fetish. I have been interested in crossdressing since childhood, and as i hit puberty, it became much more of a sexual thing. I don't get to enjoy this fetish of mine very often however, due to the fact ...

My boyfriend just joined the Marines, how can I feel better about this new situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3.5 years just came home today with big news. He enlisted. He's a Marine. We have been talking about this for about 10 days, but he's been thinking about it for a long time. We're both liberal minded folks, me definitely more of a ...

Should I make her or let her go?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...

Do I really want to be with her or am I just lonely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I need some advice. I started dating someone a while back and we had basically both just come out of long-term relationships. After awhile it was because clear she just wanted something casual, although I had wanted more of a relationship at first. ...

Why does he never bother to text me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I are apart and I call or send a text message to him he never bothers to reply. Why?...