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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What is happening with him? does he like me or is he just shy? PLEASE HELP??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Help my friend please.. I told her what I think.. but she what to know what others thinks as well..OK.. she just told me that when she’s on the phone to her BF and she tells him she misses him.. he doesn’t say the same back he replies.. yeah? Th...

My boyfriend has naked pictures of other people in his phone.

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13 January 2009 (M) - Well I been in a relationship with this guy for 4 months now. The other day was our 4 month anniversary, and we spent the day together. He cooked for me and everything, because usually I'll be the one doing the cooking. So later on in the day I just ...

He never makes the first move.. should I be worried?

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13 January 2009 (F) - He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. is like he wants me to come to him.. i always go up to him and then starts kissing him.. i always initiate things..when i ask him to kiss me e just gives me a peck on the lips and i say is that ...

Will she ever come back to me?

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13 January 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years on and off, always ending it when things got too heavy coz I had been deeply hurt in the past. We have been split for 2 months now and she tells me she loves me, yet shows only hate and bitterness toward m...

He's sorry how he ended it with me... why is he contacting me? He chose this not me!

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 10 years and together with him 13. We have 3 kids together. We have both been unfaithful in the marriage but seem to stay together for the kids I think. He says he truly loves me but people who love each other don't ...

Don't we all rebound off each other?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I'm a single mum and had a bad, stressful break up with my baby's father. Recently I met and started seeing a guy who made me feel happy for the first time in ages..we're attracted to each other, he respects me, makes me laugh, is good with my baby ...

I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not! He says he can't see his life without me and doesn't wanna be with anybody else but he won't make a move. I wanna have a baby in two years plan ...

I do not desire my husband like I desire this other man!

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13 January 2009 (F) - I am married and fell in love with a married man. I started the process to end my marriage. I was not miserable in my marriage just bored and my husband and I have very little in common and we do not see each other much because we have been wor...

Do I believe him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - There is this guy... he started talking to me saying he thought I was gorgeous and all that and I fell for it. We arranged to meet (I wasn't going alone) and he stood me up. Of course I was hurt by this and told him. After not talking for a few ...

Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother? Let me explain a bit more. This "man" leads me on and I tell him I like him and he replies likewise and than he suddenly goes cold. His mum (a family friend)said that he feels a ...

I wish he would hurry up and divorce as I am wanting a family of my own soon.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for about 2 1/2 years now. I found out that he was married about a year into the relationship (yes I had to find out for myself). She lives in another state than we do and they have been seperated for about 3 ...

She was raped and won't get professional help. What can I do to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

13 January 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid I've been with my girlfriend for nearly two years now. After a year and a half we broke up for two months... we were still crazy about each other but had moved in together and were having huge problems. We got back together after two...

What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I have been "just friends" with this guy for almost a year. We do everything together. And he at my house every night. We are really just friends nothing romatic at all. Although I want there to be more, he refuses. He says why can't we just grow ...

I'm moving out but I don't want us to drift apart

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have recently made the decision to move out my home i share with my partner and shall be moving out in the next 4 weeks. We are not splitting im just moving out, When i told my partner this he did not seem bothered but over the past week he has ...

My husband started an emotional affair with his ex

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13 January 2009 (F) - My husband of over 20 years became very distant and i asked him what was wrong. He woulnt answer and i provoked him to tell me tat he wasn't sure that he wanted to be with me anymore. He said that something died. The truth came out some weeks later ...

She's telling me things about her past in small doses..do I tell her just to spill it all ?

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13 January 2009 (M) - This isn't a difficult story but it does take some explaining. I met a woman a little over a year ago. This was online, not in real life. We talked for about 6 weeks and decided to meet. Things went very well. From the start they did. We had much in ...

We couldn't be happier together... but I can't erase his ex girlfriend from my mind...

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13 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I couldn't be happier. Problem is, I can't seem to erase his ex-girlfriend from my mind. A little over a year ago, i had moved to the state I live in now, started going to school and met m...

Why do we argue all the time? We seem okay for a couple of days then it's back to arguing again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Hey there, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 9 months now, and already it's been a very rocky relationship. It's got to the stage now where we argue amost of the time, and it makes us both dislike each other a lot but when we aren't a...

He is about to become a Dad, and has only just told me. What do I do now??

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have just found out that my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is 8 and a half months pregnant with his child. My boyfriend and I have just got back together after being separated for just under a year and although I knew that during that time he had slep...

My mom won't talk about my biological dad

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13 January 2009 (F) - i donot know who my biological dad is not even my tribe,am now 22yrs but i've never seen him or any relative from his side.i grew up with my mum and my step sis.when i was 10yrs old i asked my mum about who and where my dad would be and she told me ...

The longer I'm in this marriage, the more I want out

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13 January 2009 (F) - look i got married at 17 ive been with my husband for a year married now.. but it seems the longer im with him the more unhappy i get.. its like i dont wana be with hime i want to move on.. what should i do?...

I love him but my problem is that lately I'm unable to look at him without seeing his past.

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13 January 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and have a child. I know he wants to get married and have a very high suspicion that he's going to propose soon from all the comments he keeps making. Nothing would make me happier because I love him ...

One minute he is telling me kissing is too personal, the next he won't sleep with me but he is kissing me and cuddling me and asking me to stay the night.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Long story short - I've been seeing him for 10 months. Having sex for 5. We are not official by any means, and I know he is sleeping with other girls. Or at least, I think that he is. After getting into a couple big fights, I told him that if he ...

I never understand someone who can sleep with someone else's partner knowingly. What are they thinking?

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13 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had a brief period with this girl but never wanted her as a girlfriend, she was not the nicest person etc and when she eventually got a boyfriend he knew it wouldn't last because of the kind of person she was and he was right. We mee...

The unsociable boyfriend and the girlfriend who cared.

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been in a roller coaster relationship for the past 4 years. I love my boyfriend but am skeptical about how he is feeling about me sometimes. He does things as if he cares about me but I still question it. He is a homey person and is not ...

He never loved me and only using me

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13 January 2009 (F) - I am married but had an intense soul connection with someone three years ago. My relationship with my husband is stagnant and he is never available for me, thus, my souls thirst for emotional and spiritual attention and connection. I used to ...

Did I do the right thing? I gave up being the other woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - HI.. well were do i start, about a year ago i met this guy we kinda hit it of but just as friends over the phone he stoped by once we talked for about 20 min and that was it he had a girlfriend and i respected that i didnt even see him like that ...

I don't want to lose what we had because of what I did...

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13 January 2009 (M) - My gf and I have just split up after 5 1/2 months. I'm 16 and she's 15 and we're the most serious partners we're ever had for each other. We broke up becuz I wanted to have sex and she didn't want to. Actually she told me no and I said ok then she ...

Should men chat to other women online?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up after being together for the past year becuase of his Myspace account. I knew he had one when we first got together and I told him then that I didn't like it. He has over 1500 people on it and their mainly ...

I am having terrible trust issues in my head, I know he is the one in my heart but my head and heart can't seem to agree.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - ok so here is my story. I have known my boyfriend (SK) since 1993. I met him when my son was a few months old. The first time I met him I knew he was the one for me, however I thought i was doing the right thing marrying my baby's daddy. we all ...

What does it mean when a guy gets so protective of his phone..??

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13 January 2009 (F) - When he gets a phone call he goes out of the room... even though I can hear that it's his friend's voice, a male's voice... he looks at me to see if I am listening and then goes out of the room.. What is up with that? I don't question him about ...

I'm bored and I'm tired of our lack of depth!

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13 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year but I feel the romance is gone. Actually the romance was never there, and I don't know how to define our relationship. He has been home often because of some probation restrictions he has a ...

How can me and my partner see eye to eye more?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys, it's my first time on here and I need some serious advice, I have been with my man and the father of my children for a long time and we have had a lot of problems, mainly with me and doing things that I should not have been doing in life ...