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writes:hi i have been going out with my partner for six years we have a four yr old child a year and a half ago we had a arguement because i wanted to do things as a famaily cause we never done anything it was always just me and my daughter,so i asked him to leave in temper not thinking he would the next day he was gone back to his mothers,that was fine as the weeks went on we began to talk and sort things out be he would not move back he works as a taxi driver i did trust him in in the last few months he has been leaving his mobile in the car for the last year and ahalf i have asked him back three times there is no way he wants too he comes out every sunday night on his night off and we have our date night,but i tried of it i feel so lonely so last sat night i text him and finished it he was nt very nice to me as you can imgine i m sick of been a door mat i dont go out my daughter is my life even when we where having our date night if i wanted to go out he would freak with me and make my life miserble i dont know weather i done the right thing
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (14 January 2009):
 You both have a four yr old child here to think about and even though he may work long shifts being a taxi driver he must make allowances to do things with your child one day a week is not acceptable and he has to see that your child needs both her parents to nurture and grow into a healthy child and i feel he is missing so much from her young life it is quite sad really he can't see that!
For this to work you both are going to have to talk over what you feel is not making this work if you can rectify the issues great if you feel some need a little more work then work on them.
He is shrugging his responsibilities and is acting very immature if you want this to work i would recommend you both talk in great depth about all of this get it all out in the open what you feel is wrong what you feel he should be doing more and equally he can vent his issues too.
Do not allow him to treat you like a doormat you tell him you want respect and in return you give that to him also, i hope the both of you can work through this.
Gina
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