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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi, it's me again I posted recently about a girl admitting she had feelings for me while having trouble with her boyfriend. Well whats happened now we had another falling out after she misunderstood something I said. What happened was she...

My boyfriend is bi, even gay and likes transexuals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years is bi maybe even gay, but he won't admit it, and I'm gutted he wont tell me the truth, we have never really had good sex, but he is a good friend and I do love him, he likes transexuals etc. That's all, he looks at on the ...

Do you think I should wait for her to come back from her year out and ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hello, A year or so back I started university and made friends with one of the kindest and nicest looking girls I have met. We meet up every week to chat and frequently chat online too. In November I took her to the botanical gardens to tell ...

Still love him but can't get over him cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over four years. A year into the relationship, he cheated on me. I found out a week later and kicked him out and he then spent four months in a relationship with this other woman. All the while he was texting and ...

All my life, I have tried to show everyone that my family didn't beat me, and now I don't know how to deal with my problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have had a problem for quite some time. I need some help with it. It started with my grandmother, she was very controlling, and manipulative, just generally a sick person. My dad was the first, and he was the favorite. There were four kids a...

He says if we're not 'intimate', he won't introduce me as his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had the 'sex' talk last night. He's been making comments, jokes about us having sex, so I set him straight and said, 'I'm not ready.' He was respectful and we continued on... We're all lovey dovey. But he did say, "I want to ...

How realistic are my chances with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I like my guy friend, J. He has a girlfriend who's going back to Europe in June. He likes her physically but called her a whore and never talks about her to anyone. My friend A also likes J but isn't allowed to talk to him because his of girlfriend, ...

Should I accept the fate of my 3 week marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - HI everyone, this is gonna be kind of long and hopefully that doesn't lose your interest. I have been with my husband for 4 years, but we just recently got married jan 10(this year) He used to be different, I don't even know who im with anymore, he ...

He says I don't need to know anything about his "female" friends!?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have been dealing with this guy for 10 years with 1 year of us broken up. We got back together 2 years ago. I'm not the type of person to give up on a relationship. Today I found that my guy has signed up for single web sites, which i found ou...

How to make her forget how I acted and start afresh, confident and assertive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I need some advice. I have been dating a girl for three years. Half of the time we lived in the same city; the other half has been long distance. The distance has been getting to me. Despite the lack of evidence, I have been: (1) suspecting her ...

I really miss him but I want to be close to him as we were.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My ex keeps contacting me via email, we only split 2 weeks ago, or should I say 1 week ago, coz he kept coming round crying and saying he loves me and kissing me. He even said he didn't wanna know me for the rest of his life. Now he wants to be f...

Am I bad? Have I done such a bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Six years ago I left my husband for another man. I have never been able to quite forgive myself because I know it hurt me children very much. I had been married for 21 years and had suffered badly. My husband took our first child from me in hospital ...

I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...? I can't go through his phone because no one calls and he tells everyone that does call to call him back because he's with me. What do you suggest???...

Should I give this man up or continue to be a goofy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm currently in a relationship but it seems like every time he wants to be free he tells me "I'm not messing with you any more" but then when he wants to come home it's "oh baby I love you". 9 out of 10 I'm pregnant but I don't think I can ...

My virginity... or lack of!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm not a virgin and now I'm getting married. Is it possible that my husband would come to know that I'm not a virgin and moreover can it is possible to know all that through a DNA test?...

Boyfriend talking to another girl on MSN but says there is nothing in it???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Last week my boyfriend left his MSN open. I went into it and seen that he had been messaging a girl. The messages were not of a sexual nature however he was saying that they must mail in secret so that I would not find out, he was saying how bad ...

I'm hurting... how can I learn to trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship now for 3 years and now have a 3 month old baby boy who we love amazingly, 3 months into the relationship my boyfriend went away to America and ended up extending it. I did ask if he had met someone else as it was odd, he ...

He wants to fool around. Should this be ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Is it wrong for my husband to feel no jealousy? A man at my work recently made it clear he would fool around if it was OK with me. I told my husband, and he said to (not do anything, but to) be nice to him, and not make him feel uncomfortable. ...

Distressed lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 yrs. When we talk about marriage he tells me that its him not me, and it's not the time. I love him, and I know he loves me. He is always honest with me all the time, and I'm not just saying that because I ...

My girlfriend is being manipulated by another man. How do I get her to let him go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I'll start by giving a little bit of detail about my girlfriend and I. We're both 22 years old, we have been dating very seriously for four years, and we are pretty much best friends. We have never had any big fights or rough spots in the ...

How can I forgive him? Where do I begin to find the forgiveness over the anger and pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - So I'm going to try and be brief with my history. I am married to the absolute love of my life. He has done everything completely right...Up to this point. Back in october 08 I took in a 17 year old girl who was heading down a path I knew all too ...

My boyfriend has switched from watching amateur to mainstream porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has switched from watching amateur to mainstream porn. Why is this? I know I'll get bashed, because I'm the insecure type. I know men will tell me to get over it and quit being such a controlling girlfriend, but hey, I know that and ...

My boyfriend keeps texting me about having sex with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a long time but he keeps texting me saying he can't wait to have sex with another lass and give me awful descriptions of what he is going to do to her. It really hurts me and I try talking to him and he just laughs a...