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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I make my boobs bigger???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - How to make your boobs bigger ??? I'm 13 and my boobs aren't very small they are actually not bad and my bf everything was gud he is one year older and a lot of girls like him but he always loved me cause he knows me well and we were together 8 ...

I don't know who to choose now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hi I went to see a girl called Lucy, we said we loved each other and we talked about doing many sexual things however, we had a part at hers and I got with her best friend. It was the first time me and her friend met up. When she made the first m...

Did I do something wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - after speaking to him how i feel about the fact that he still had a photo of his ex wife on their wedding done, and her number under sweetheart. I told him how feel and hurt i was. To make a long story sort, he said i am special to him and i mean a ...

He treats me more like a slut than his GF.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - hey i really love my boyfriend, but he doesnt treat me the way i want to be treated. the way he talks 2 me is always dirty (sexual) and i want him to b more romantic and chivalrous towards me. he says that he is romantic cos he gives me pres...

Should I just stay out of my neighbors drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (?) - I have neighbors that live in the same duplex building. They were divorced when I met them. I started out as friends with the man because he has a son a couple years older then my daughter. Then when his ex moved in we became friends and I don't ...

How do I deal with my girlfriend moving out? Is it the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - How to deal with my girlfriend moving out? Is it the right choice? I am 21 years old and have been with a girl for 2.5 years. We still go to college and work full time jobs. We are both very bright, intelligent, and "too mature for our age." Sh...

My parents refuse to accept my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Please help i dont know what to do.. come from a strict greek family who dont accept my boyfriend - even though he is greek too. i have known him for years and are perfect together but my parents wont accept it, they wont even let me see him. i ...

If I leave him alone like he's asked, will he just end up with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - im 22 years old and my ex boyfriend is 33 years old we were together 4yrs before he broke up with me past november because he needed time for himself. we stayed in touch afterwards and on christmas eve i found out he stayed over his ex girls house. ...

Need real advice, we are on a break from our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We also have lived together for 8 months currently in a one bedroom apartment. Whenever we get into a small argument, he never wants to talk about. He gets up goes to the bedroom and gets ...

Am I making a move on a man or a statue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I'm always the one making the first move, he just sits there, makes me feel so unattractive. He says hes no good at this, just wish i could get him to touch me, kiss me. I feel as though i'm kissing and feeling a statue what can i do?...

I accidentally kissed my GF's flirty Mom, and now she's mad - how do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - my name is nick and am 22 years old i have a girlfriend jolie and she is 19 we were both so in love until something happened jolie's parents are divorced since she was 11,and she is living with her mom ever since her mom is 43 and she is ...

Is she having a text message affair with this guy or is it all innocent like she says?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - hey guys iam new to this site and want your advice. I have a girlfriend i have been seeing for quite some few months and things have really been going well with us until recently when i went through her phone and found text msgs from a guy i had ...

Mixed signals after first date

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - ok here goes..went out on somewhat of a blind date that was set up by a mutal friend..it wasn't so much blind b/c we exchanged pics and there was a mutal attraction. the date went great..we laughed and really hit it off..when i got home, she texted ...

What is wrong with me? I've got wedding jitters??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hi there. I'm glad I found this website. I have something I need to get off my chest, and would really appreciate any comments. I'm sorry this is going to be a little verbose. I've been with my g/f over 12 years. One year ago, I finally took t...

Have a partner but in love with my ex-brother-in-law

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - what should i do? hi im 18 and have been in a relationship for nearly two years, we are engaged and i have a baby girl with my partner. but all we do is argue with each other. i love him but, i have had a crush on my ex brother-inlaw si...

Why don't women appreciate a good guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - my gf hasnt been giving me respect as her man, lover. we became a couple in may, but she dumped me in july n we got back together same month.i found out in that time she had sex with another man. i also found out by going through her emails that i ...

I know I need a new boyfriend. I am just never attracted to anyone. Am I depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dated off and on for twenty years. At some point, he married a woman and had more kids with her while having one with me. Needless to say, this has caused some rocky times. Basically, he has been juggling both of us this ...

Do I tell him I regret him being my first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Everything is a bit of a mess really lol.im going to tell him how i feel, how he's making me feel etc etc. I dont know what we are. Seeing each other, the next friends - with him saying 'for now/not ruling it out' and then theres been a few things ...

I am told I'm a failure and a stalker, what can I do to change their opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Well, heres the story, my whole high school life so far, ive gotten no where in regards to relationships. I am constantly rejected, constantly told that im a failure, and constantly told that i am a creeper and a stalker. I have eased up on it a lo...

I'm in love and he's a druggie - did he take advantage of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and no im not exactly sure what love feels like but if i had to guess im pretty sure it would feel the way im feeling about this guy. My best guy friend introduced me to his best friend (the guy i like) and ever since I cant get my ...

Am I overreacting? He slapped me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so ...

My best guy friend beat me up - am I overreacting to what he did to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

Are my friends cutting me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I am 21 years old and I feel like all my friendships are falling apart. I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was 15, I decided to stay home after graduating high school and go to a community college here, while my friends went off to other schools. ...

Need marriage advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My husband left me when I was three months pregnant and didn't come back home until 2 weeks before I have my first child. He has a drug problem and a hot temper. It is hard work getting along with him. I Recently found out i was pregnant again ...

Mean Girls: what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - ok i am 13 and in 8th grade i am kinda overweight but these girls in my spanish class are always trying to start fights with me cause they think it is easy to hurt me but every time they start agrivating me and arguing with me i start arguing back i ...

I need your advice with my "A-hole" husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My husband only thinks about himself. He truely believes that he is a better and a more important person than I am, because he makes more money than I do. We always have to do what he wants. All of his brothers tells me that he has always been this ...

How do I get the trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I am 28 and been in a serious relationship for the last 2 years, and have been living together for the last year. We have had alot of issues with fighting and i admit i can have a very hot temper. She travels back and forth to see family where she ...