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Archived questions from: 6 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why do his feelings always seem to change for me every other day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - 36 with 41 year old man he says I am the cause of him being unhappy. I have tried everything I can to make him happy. His big thing is that I don't see things his way that I never agree with him. He says I don't bring anything to the table. That I h...

Why am I never happy... and so clingy?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Why am I not happy in my relationship sometimes? I love him so much, this I know; but when he goes out with his friends, or goes on trips without me, I get mad at him. I don't know why I'm like this. I get so bothered if he even mentions the idea of ...

We are always arguing and he is always saying hurtful things. I've gotten to the point where I can't take it anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi i am 36 living with a 41 yearold man who thinks he is younger than what he is. Recently I have been receiving email from a woman who claims to be sleeping with him. De denied it of course but lately he seems to pick fights out of nowhere they ...

Help me get over my baby daddy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I am 24 years old with 2 little girls, a 3 yr old and a 7 month old. I was with my boyfriend for 15 months, I got pregnant right away. During a routine ultrasound, it was discovered that our baby will be born with spina bifida. That's when the spine ...

Should I give us a chance to be friends? Did he even cared about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I've meet this guy about 10 years ago, we used to work with eachother. He's 11 years older than I am. Few years back we started dating. Things were really good, until gradually he was start saying that age is a problem, and he feels that I wou...

Updated from last post.....Still really scared went to the police...unsure who to believe help!

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6 August 2009 (F) - Updated!!! Boy friend complications Now what to do? Please help im scared and confused? Ok, in june I broke up with a guy because he was cheating on me. In may some guy called his law firm and tried to get us fired. I thought it was my ex but...

Dear cupid has destroyed my life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - A few months ago I discovered this website and started reading through the posts as a bit of general interest during my breaks at work (IT department so lots of spare time). But unfortunately I found the website a little too addictive and hence have ...

Should I move on and get over these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Twenty six years ago, I left a 13 year relationship because I felt like I was losing my soul. I left to return to my family and especially my daughter who never got along with my lover and lost respect in me because I had become dependent. After all ...

I love him but if doesn't return that, why can't he just be a gentleman about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I think it is time to let go of the man i have loved for years. he tells me he loves me yet he dont phone me when he say he will. he lives in england and that is were we did meet i have visit england many times and he has visit me 3 times. the last ...

I'm trying so hard to be the bigger person but he's being a jerk!

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6 August 2009 (F) - I'm so confused and angry!! My boyfriend of six months and I broke up recently (his decision), and I have been a mess. I am dying to get back with him but I am holding onto my dignity and I am not contacting him or saying mean things about him or ...

My wife doesn't want me to witness the OW's child birth..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - I have a pregnant woman on the side and am married. The problem is that my wife doesn't want me to be there during the womans labor. If my wife has forgave me, shouldn't I at least be able to be there during the birth of this child?...

There are trust issues, along with others.. should I just move on?

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6 August 2009 (F) - Should I move on? Me and my fiance have been having problems because he doesnt like for me to tell him who he can hang around with,but theirs some girls and a guy that live 2 houses down from where his mother and my ex fiance lives, well the p...

I wish I could be religious to deal with this pain.. but I can't..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I'm not a religious person , but I wish I would be. I'm suffering a lot in this life, Right now just staring a painful divorce, but there is death and accident, sickness, and all.. Years ago , none stop. So ,actually I wish if I could be expla...

If anyone has been in this situation, I would like to hear what you did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi all , I'm really struggling just now with the end of a relationship of 5 years .my ex is a widower , of whom i knew his wife , and we got together 6 months after his wife had died (she comiited suicide ), when which he asked me out . I was stil...

He got a new girlfriend and now I don't know what to say. What would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I'm in college and I've been dating this guy for almost a year. I went home for the summer to take care of some family issues. When I first left we called and texted each other all day, everyday, but soon that became less and less. We were testing ...

We know we made a mistake, but it can't be changed now but she doesn't want me to meet their child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 2 years... yes he was still married when we started dating we were not intimate right away because he was married but once he decided that he would divorce we did become intimate. Yes I know that this is ...

I'm 17 and pregnant and my husband keeps hitting me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi i'm 17teen years old iv'e been married for almost two year's and i need help and fast my husband is 19 and he keep's hiting me when we get into a fight in front of our 18month old and we have another baby on the way i'm 15weeks and he keeps ...

My bf stopped talking to me because of his family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - me and my ex had been together nearly 10 months and we broke up just over a week ago. everyone said we was so much in love and we had been engaged and went on holiday 3 times together, we was also going to try for a baby. when he left i kept calling ...

He's not ready to grow up yet, should I wait or go.

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6 August 2009 (F) - Hello.. I've been in a relationship for almost 5 years. I am 22 and he's about to turn 23. We have been together since the middle of senior year in high school. We have been through A LOT. We have been in a semi-long distance relationship. We went ...

Help! How can I stop him from making me feel stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 4 years now. He was newly divorced when we first got together. I love him and he is good to me but when we get into an argument he talks to me like I am stupid and then he always threatens to leave. Sometimes he does ...

I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I need urgent help; I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop. He's away on holiday, and I've been getting close to this guy the last month or so. Last night we went to the cinema and he held my hand and stroked my leg, then on the way home we ...

Does education matter in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I met this wonderful man, fell in love, everything was going great until he told me that he would not marry me until I earned my bachelor's degree. At first I didn't care because I was in college when he met me and I intend to finish with or without ...

Is he likely to get back in touch???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi If you were seeing someone on a sex only basis because you were both in relationships, would it be reasonable to assume that when one of you (i.e. him) goes on holiday with his girlfriend for a month, that he will not contact you during that tim...

I feel so hurt, he wont speak to me because I told people about our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I met this guy, i really like him, we have had sex a few times and he wants to keep it discreet although i know he is seeing other people, he has told me a lot about what he gets up to. He wont speak to me cos i have told people ive seen him! What ...

I'm missing something during sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is very sensitive about her body. I have managed to raise her confidence and she says during sex she is more open than with exes, but sill i´m missing something during sex. I have a few questions. She doesn´t want me to pleasure her ...

Should you ever give a controlling boy a second chance?

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6 August 2009 (F) - Should you ever give a controlling boy a second chance? I was with my bf for over 2 years, and just recently I broke it off with him. I love him and that was the hardest thing i've ever done. I miss him, but I had to do it because I was living my ...

Do I take my boyfriend back after he's been seeing another girl for 5 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hey people..ive just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. he lives like 4 hours away from me but i didnt think that he would do that. at first i found out the he kissed a girl he denied it at first and then admitted it and apoloigised and he ...

Why does my baby's father treat me like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - my baby father i been with him since i was 15 and we have two kids and he cheats he calls me names he dont come see the kids he dont care about me i never cheated he make me feel like im not worth it no man will ever want me what should i do do he ...

My boyfriend needs a break from our relationship, how do I get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 8 months just recently told me that he needed a break from the relationship because my friends were putting to much pressure on him. He told me that he honestly does love me and that he just needs some time to get everything ok ...

How can I trust her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - Ok. My problem is.. When I first met my girlfriend she was seeing another guy. We worked together but seemed to connect really well. One day we made out in a private room at work. After that we started hanging out together and we would occ...

If we are around each other for more than a few hours all we do is fight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - i"m with my girlfriend for the last four years it used to be wonderful had great laughs really enjoyed each others company but now if we around each other for more than a few hours we do nothing but fight. i am hooked on golf i love the sport i am ...

I want to help him but I cant because I am part of the problem!

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6 August 2009 (F) - I've been going out win my bfriendfor a year and we recently moved in together. We live off campus the university I attend. We have anoher roomate, his best friend bill. Things have been going pretty bad see since I got back from a 2 week vacation. ...

How do I win him back?

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6 August 2009 (F) - I dated my ex-boyfriend for a year. He proposed after I pressured him to move to the next level. I don't think he was ready and I felt betrayed by the "false" proposal. Things got tense and headed south. A month later we were broken up. We tr...

How do I deal with my BFs crazy mother?!

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6 August 2009 (F) - Okay so I have been with this guy for over 4 months. He is 17, will be 18 in December. He has a very overprotective, crazy mom. Some of my friends have said it's because it's her only son and I'm his FIRST girlfriend. But anyways, at the beginning ...

Technically I didnt cheat but I'm worried that this will ruin my chances of getting back with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - please help me. me and my ex split 5 months ago, when i suffered a miscarriage and he told me he didnt love me anymore, but since then we have carried on seeing each other all the time and acting like we are together. he has told me consistently ...

Should I approach the subject of marriage and children, or wait for him to take action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years (lived together for 1.5 years). I am 28 and he is 30. I am ready to get married and start a family. He says I am his soul mate and says he wants to be with me forever. However, we have never ...

I moved to be with the man I love, now I have no options

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - Well, here we go , I am gay who was working flight attendant for one of the best airlines in the world , my life was good , not perfect , but I was me , myself , I was satisfied , but there was something missing which is Love hehe I found the lo...

How do I show my BF I wont put up with his crap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - How do I explain to my boyfriend I won't put up with his bullcrap anymore??? I don't like the way he treats me some times. He doesn't pay as much attention to me as I would like him too. He is not as attentive as I was before. He says I am also not ...

She has a baby with him, but he's a cheater, how can we get him to be a family man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My best friend is 17 and is in a relationship with a 22 year old. They have been together for 3 years and have an infant child together. He is constantly cheating on her, so she leaves him but he always comes running back and begging ...

Is he playing games, or does he want to get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Why does my ex keep calling me twice a month and talking for only about 10 minutes when he has told me he doesn't want to be together anymore? Sometimes he says things to make me feel like there may be a chance for us and then he does the same thing ...

Trouble with the boyfriends close knit group and family! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hello. I have been dating a guy for almost 2 years. He has been friends with a group of people for 15 years (he's 31) so since high school. His brother is married to one of the queen bee's in the group. My boyfriends ex girlfriend (dated two ...

I'm hurt, losing my best friend, and need help coping please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - sorry this is long but i need help im really hurt here.. someone who i considered to be my best friend has recently become new "best friends" with a woman P -who she is going to open a business with at the end of the year. P is wealthy, lo...

She's clingy and melodramatic and I always end up feeling guilty!

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6 August 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have a great relationship but she is terribly clingy. We have had petty arguments lately and she is very emotional and atop that has been through some very rough times as of late. We live together and spend a whole lot of time ...

My girlffriend isn't as passionate anymore and won't talk about why.

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6 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I am a 20 year old male and my girlfriend is the same age. We have been dating year and a half. We do not have sex because we are waiting for marriage. In the past couple of months, she gets in the mood to make out/fool around less and ...

My fiance would rather sleep on the couch than with me..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - hello, I wonder how common this is: my fiance will not sleep with me in our bedroom, and has not for 7 months. she prefers the couch. i do not like this at all. we used to snuggle and fall asleep in eachothers arms everynight. i have made ...

Ugly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been finding that the majority of the things I watch or read always have pretty people ending up together, getting their happily ever after as the good guys, while ugly people either die or have some kind of unfortunate ending. So, how ...