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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it worth waiting 2 years to be with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 months and 9 days. Now our parents found out about us dating and didnt approve so we are no longer to speak or see eachother but me and her sneak around and do it anyways. Now i love her to death and ...

Every time we have sex I think about her with others from her past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Well im not going to write a book, but this is really putting a burden on my sex life with my girlfriend. Ive been dating my girlfriend for a year now. She is awsome, she really is a great girl. Last summer was kinda a roller coaster, it was grea...

He doesn't want to buy an engagement ring just because he's "supposed" to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a committed relationship for five years. Of the five years, we have lived together for four. I want to get married. He claims that he also wants to get married but will not be told what, when, and how to do it by other people. ...

My girlfriend loves someone else, should I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - we've been in love for 2 yrs now My girlfriend is in love with another guy and i saw her giving him a hand job.i feel horrible.should i carry on What can i do...

How can I show him that I think our relationship is worth saving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I'd appreciate some advice from readers (particularly any males out there) on how to go about showing my possibly ex-bf that what we have between us is worth holding on to. To cut a long story short, we got together 8 1/2 yrs ago after meeting at...

Cooking up trouble, we hooked up, I wouldn't go far enough, now he wants nothing to do with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hi, i've been looking for answers to my predicament online, and i found this website--people seem to give actual answers--so i thouhgt i'd give it a shot. i met an older guy (he's 24, I'm 19) at a place i worked for a few months. --long story sho...

Is my partner just not interested in me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years and the last time we made love was 1 year ago while on holidays in Spain! Now I must agree that sex is not my favourite thing I do enjoy it now and again. I am in counselling for work related str...

What can I do about my girlfriend? She's always moody and there's no passion in our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - before you read any further, please don't let the length of this question put you off readling it fully! i'm going out with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, we took a break for about a month a while ago but got back together. the night we decided ...

I like the feeling of being with someone but I don't like the man himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I'm worrying that this new guy I've been dating for 2 months is taking advantage of me or somehow expecting me to behave like I'm chasing Him which is SO NOT happening, ...for example, I got sooo lost trying to visit him where he lives (4 hours ...

I would like to trust my online guy but my gut feelings about this guy are not good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hello there to everyone who has kindly been giving me advice regarding this Sydney internet guy. I have decided not to go to Sydney to see a guy who has clearly told me that he just wants sex even though at one point he said that how did I know tha...

She wants me to trust her but.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Before anyone says I should speak to her about this, I have, I've told her times and times again. Me and my girlfriend have been together for roughly nine months now, And she keeps going on how I don't trust her.. Well, I don't. She is always o...

Is she unsure of her feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Recently, this girl ive liked for half a year, we got really close. And she has also admitted that she likes me too. Thats where the problem starts, she just stop msging all of a sudden, asking that she give me an explanation the next day. i asked ...

My partner is drinking to cope with the stress of our baby and work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - hi am 7 months pregnant my partner is excited but has started drinking nearly every night he says he is stressed with work and baby!sometimes its ten cans and he cant make work next day.have tried being nice and understanding and also telling him ...

How much control is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - How much control is too much control? My boyfriend of two years doesn't like me around ANY guys. All of my friends before him were guys, but now I've lost them. I didn't care at first but now it's a problem. I've been trying to work on it lately and ...

Am I being dramatic or am I right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half and lived together for a year,in the past week we have pretty much split up because i went to my parents house for a few drinks he was invited but decided he didnt want to come,just as i was ...

My boyfriend was talking about marriage and then out of the blue he decided he has concerns about the relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a while, and lately things have gotten quite serious, he's been telling me that his mum would love me, and jokingly asking if i will marry him, then out of the blue he said he wants to talk through som...

It daunts me that I may be in competition with a woman I know nothing about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hi I've been seeing a guy for almost 5 months now. When we met he said he wanted to take things slow and that was fine, i'm at uni and pretty busy most of the time so it was something I was willing to try. Everything had been going great betw...

I think I am in love, so why do I fantasise about other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - So my dilemma is this: I have been living with a girl for just over one year, and to get to the punch line, I fantasise about having sex with other girls, random people on the street, colleagues at work, fellow students at college, whatever. While I ...

I've fallen for a guy who moved to my country to be with his girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I met a fantastic foreign guy randomly on a night out when drinking with my work mates. He was by himself at a bus stop, and I started talking to him. We found out we had heaps in common, like music, favourite literature, travel, sense of humour ...

Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - i was with my partner for nearly two years. Mostly we were fine. Our arguments were mainly about his obnoxious interfering mother. Two weeks ago i ended it because i felt upset he was annoyed with me for falling out with his mother. I tried to at ...

Does he need to know everything about my sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - A past boyfriend introduced me to phone sex, and when we broke up, I realized it was still a pretty good sexual outlet for me. It seemed problem-free, because I could easily find a guy on the internet, call him from a blocked number, and have an ...

Don't know if I can put up with my fiancee's behaviour anymore! What should I do?

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3 August 2009 (F) - Help me I don't know what to do. My fiancees been lieing to me lately about little things because he doesn't want to hear me whine. Also he lets his best friend disrespect me and he disrespects me every now and then to. I tell him I don't like it he ...

Is he staying with me just because it's convient??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend decided to tell me after 11 months that "I may not be the one." After confronting him about how I felt we were wasting one anothers time, he said we weren't. Is this because he lives with me and it would inconvience him to leave? He ...

Do I give him another change or end it before I get hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I got together within a few days of meeting each other. I was blissful. He had recently broken up with a long term girlfriend who was his best friend. We were together a month and then he grew distant and i broke up with him. He ...

Roles reversed since our breakup: she's having the time of her life and I'm so unhappy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Alright so about a month ago I ended a relationship that I was very unhappy in. The girl didnt appreciate me, she lied a lot, and kinda just used me. While we were together lots of my friends said I should break up with her. Even some of her friends ...

I go on chat sites and have had cybersex. Why do I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Why do i do this? Hi all. I have been with my bf for 2 yr and we have a daughter together. He is a lovely wonderful bloke who i love very much. But 4 some reason i go on chat sites, yes i like the compliments, i like just chattin, think that is 2 do ...

Should I even consider getting back with my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up on very bad terms a few months ago after I found out that she had been lying too me about her ex-boyfriend. She had told me that he was begging for her back and that she just hung up when he rung her/contacted her. ...