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female
age
30-35,
*hris558
writes:I've been going out win my bfriendfor a year and we recently moved in together. We live off campus the university I attend. We have anoher roomate, his best friend bill. Things have been going pretty bad see since I got back from a 2 week vacation. We've been fightingna lot and recently he said that he couldn't take the stress I living here anymore. Hhis friend Daniel was having trouble win his family and has had psychiatric problems in he past. He was admitted to he hospital because he got into a rich with his mom and she beat him; then called he cops on him where he was taken to the hospital and up for going to a psychiatric ward. They released him but he txted my bfriend he over night saying he aNted to kill himself. M bfriends sad istoing througt a divorce, and our roomate has been taking a ok of ergs despite our intervention and seems to be sayig suicidal things and isgoing downwards. My bfriend (tim) is having trouble win his work and money and car (which I did some damage to in an accident). He hates living in the house because it has become a party house because of bill, and is stressed from me as well. He thinks I'm tLkin to other boys which I am not.The over niht e was going to Brel up with me because he said he wash happy at all and was just sick of all the drama. By he couldn't because he's never bn in this type of relationship before... I've been tying my bed to make him feel better but t seems ha the tinier thin can set him off. T saddens me hat he can't be with me now and have fun, he has to go hang our win other peopleto get away from thestress. I was texting my friend last night asking her what I should do because I'm really notnhappy with anything either, I hate seein hm likehis and not brig able to do anything. Ue thought i w as t exti someone else, checked my phpne and saw her response of "do whAtever makes you happy" . He got mad because he thought that it meant if I should break up with him or nolot, which was true. I tried to explain my problems but he picked up his phone andcalled his mom tellig her how fed up he was win all he people around him causiighim stress that he just doesn't need. I tried got Ali with him and thinknof solutions, I stayed up the whole night and ben woke him up for work. He doesn't want to talk about it and told him to just stop. He left wihout saying a word to me. I aNt to help him and be there for him so bad but I can't because I'm also he problem. I feel like I'm losing him quickly, should I just lead I'm be? How can I help him? He can I make things better for him and us? This sudden depression of his just started 6 days ago arts a fight we had.... But his feelings he says have ben building up for a long time. I'm so lost and desperatley need guidence.
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