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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Commitment issues?

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11 August 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy only about 4 months now. We've only known each other for about 7 months. One week after we started dating he asked me to move in with him. I was reluctant to say yes but my lease expired in a couple of weeks and I was ...

Did he do this just to play mind games with me?

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11 August 2009 (F) - hey guys i really would appreciate some advice. just an update on this ok so my ex fiance got in touch via facebook 2 weeks ago and when i responded to his request i added a note which he never replied to . so imy mind worked overtime thinking...

Am I the token boyfriend?

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11 August 2009 (M) - I've been going out with this girl I love deeply for quite a while now, I love her more than anything. the thing is that I just never feel like I'm part of her life, she's an incredible and amazing person but sometimes I can't help feeling tha...

He wants us to live together but NEVER to marry!

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11 August 2009 (F) - I need advice so badly! I am 41 an he is 50. We have been dating 2 years and we both have had 2 divorces each and we both have kids. I have been divorced 6 years and he has been divoced 8 years. We get along great, we love each other we spend all ...

What do I do to win him back!?

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11 August 2009 (F) - So me and my bf have been broken up for a week. we have had a little contact. I miss him so much and I am deeply in love with him. I dont want to sound naggy or clingy and i really dont want to beg him to get back together. So what should I do...

Help!!! Is she lying to me?

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11 August 2009 (M) - Ok let me start by giving some background info. I really wanted to be with a popular girl, i finally got there, she is now psycho, she has tried to tell me she is pregnant 3 times now. Ok ok ok, now i stayed away from her for 4 weeks. Broke do...

Does anyone else find this odd?

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11 August 2009 (F) - I'm 23, my partner's 44, and recently he's been wanting to go out clubbing more and more. My parents like him, they understand this is just a phase and that I have to experiment. I just don't have the energy to do this ALL THE TIME! He want...

My boyfriend thinks I'm a liar now and I don't know what to do about it.

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11 August 2009 (F) - Hello, Right then basically i need some advise, me and my boyfriend met on a flirting website now we split up a few months ago but are back together now after having a heart to heart and everything has been great until now. While we split up he...

Anxiety is ruining my relationship. Please help me.

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11 August 2009 (F) - Hello I would like an outside point of view for my problem, I live in USA, I am inmigrant, from third world country, I came to this country after has suffer a lot of missery in my country of origin, my first years here were awfull because I didn't ...

I feel my wife wants me to compromise too much. thoughts please?

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11 August 2009 (M) - We all know that marriage is about giving and compromising, but what should I do if the compromise I have to make is against the personal values i hold dear, and I have to give in to demands that don't make sense to me? My newly married wife and...

My boyfriend had sex with my ex-boyfriend, I can't cope with this, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I'm a 24 year old with a 3 year old baby. Me and my new partner have been together for 18 months now. I'd been on a girls night out, and left my partner in with the baby, he agreed to it. However, when I came back from my night out, what hap...

My BF likes to kiss other people.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - My boyfriend is great we get along great but he's a heavy drinker (not an alcoholic). We've been dating for 7 months. He's a forgetful person, even more so when he drinks. He really lets lose and has fun when he's drunk but sometimes does things ...

We broke up but he still seems to want me, what is going on with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - we split up nearly 18 months ago after being together for over 2 years and being engaged. we split as he dumped me and he wanted space didnt know what he wanted his head wasnt clear - he lost about 3 stone in weight and everytime i saw him he bro...

My widowed GF can't get over loosing her husband, what can I do?

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11 August 2009 (M) - my girlfriend has broken up with me after 5 months and i am heartbroken,she is a widow of 2 years and says she cant get her deceased husband out of her mind and says its not my fault and dosent want a relationship i am sad and cant get her out of ...

I know he still loves me, what should I do?

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11 August 2009 (F) - Hi, Im 23 and had been in a relationship for the past three years. A month ago he told me it was over through a text. Over the past three years Me and him had been through so much and talked everyday and night. I was heart broken that he could ...

Is it normal for him not to care about sex?

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11 August 2009 (F) - ok, so i've never been the type to be in a serious relationship, and here i am almost two years with a guy. without skipping all the details we both decided we were ready to lose our virginity, about 7 months ago. i do not regret this deision at ...

She is a widow and my parents don't approve.

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11 August 2009 (M) - I'm 25yrs my problem is i'm in love witht a girl i love her so much but my parent don't alow me to marry her b/cos shi is a widow with two son...

His ex told me things that she could only know if she was with him, but he denies everything.

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11 August 2009 (F) - Hello.. I have been with my fiance for a lil over 4 years now. we are supposed to be getting married next year. At the beginning of our relationship i had some problems with his ex girlfriend. (he was with her for like 3 years). well the beginning ...

He told me he wants to be with me but I havent heard from him in days!

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11 August 2009 (F) - I have this friend, we both want to be more than friends but we are taking it slowly, starting as friends and seeing if anything develops. there are two reasons for this 1) he is getting over a marriage breakup (6 months ago) and 2) i am already ...

I lied to my fiancee about why my phone was off all weekend but he's not convinced. What can I do now?

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11 August 2009 (F) - During the weekend i spent time with my ex boyfriend and i had switched of my phone. my fiancee tried calling but could not get through.When he asked why my phone was off i told him i had a lot on my mind and just did not feel like talking to him, ...

I love her but I love my space too!

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11 August 2009 (M) - I don't know why, but she is just so clingy, and her emotions are seriously unstable at times. If I don't say I love you enough, or Ill miss you when i go to work enough, or hug/cuddle her enough, and more along those lines, she gets serious ...

How will this physical attraction die?

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11 August 2009 (M) - A girl joined the company i worked for, a year and a half back. I didnt use to find her attractive physically or intellectually. I came to know through my female colleagues that she really liked me. Since I always had a tendency of falling in love, ...

My pregnancy hormones are making me want sex all the time, but I'm worried my boyfriend will be unsatisfied once the baby is born and my urges go away!

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11 August 2009 (F) - I am 7 months pregnant and about 900 miles away from home with my fiance because he's a worker for traveling company(welding co. )and so obviously in a hotel. Well, since we have been up here I've had this sex kick to where I'm into porn and ma...

His ex is always going over to his house and I feel she is getting in the way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I have recently broken up with my boyfriend of 6 years for an old love from interstate. My new boyfriend has also recently broken up with a girl with whom he was having a casual relationship, yet they are still spending a lot of time together...

Should I stay with my boyfriend if I believe he is cheating on me?

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11 August 2009 (F) - Should i stay with my boyfriend if i believe he cheats and lies? here's the story i've been with this guy for a couple years now we live together we have a baby she six months i started getting these feelings around the time i was pregnant he acts ...

Is delusion and Denial the only answer?

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11 August 2009 (M) - Is delusion and denial the only answer? Let me start by saying that I wouldn't consider myself remarkably good-looking, I have no confidence, and the women I'm interested in don't ever seem to be interested in me (probably because they're above my...

My girlfriend is always sad and I can't seem to make her happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for just over 2 years now and I am really happy with her but it seems thats my girlfriend is always sad or depressed about one thing or another. She's expressed the desire to be married a bunch of times and we've ...

My mother in-law is causing my marriage to deteriorate. What should I do?

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11 August 2009 (F) - we have been married for almost 7years and have 4yrs old daughter. but from day one continous interference from my mother in law side. she has created such a misunderstanding between us that our relationship is deterorating day by day.she creates a ...

I lied and made mistakes, but surely he shouldn't treat me that way? Is he the worst kind of person to be with?

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11 August 2009 (F) - This is my first time to get sme advice, suggestions or ideas. I have a troubled relationship in which has a long story behind it. My boyfriend and i are deaf. I grew up with the public so i have alot of experience with hearing people a...

Please help me learn how to intimate with him again.

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11 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 22 years old and I have a boyfriend and we have been together for over 5 years, we have lived together for the past year or so and are both finishing up university (he's in a 5 year bachelor and I'm doing my master's). Late...

My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!

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11 August 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...

The awkwardness remained

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11 August 2009 (F) - Hi there... just went into "just friends" mode with a boyfriend of 3 months. We are both very well suited for one another, but a degree of awkwardness always remained. We were exclusive to one another, but he was only able/willing to get together ...

Need advice on how to go on with life..

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11 August 2009 (M) - I have been in love with a women for 15 years ,and for 15 years living a life full of lies,She was a friends girlfriend at the time,He introduced her to me and for some reason we had this connection from the first time we set eyes on eachother.We ...

Do I keep trying to get him or get over him? How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hi there,I need some help please. Well,I like this guy a lot and I've known him for almost a year now.I liked him when I first met him but I got over him real quick.Well,we both have the same friends and I get along great with his little brother a...

Did I do something wrong, or is this a one-way relationship?

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11 August 2009 (M) - I dont know what to do... my girlfriend is always lashing out at me for no reason, and im beginning to get sick of it. For example: She keeps in constant contact with all of her ex's. While this makes me uncomfortable I dont make mentio...

Go with my ex or stay with my current?

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11 August 2009 (F) - I'll try to make this long story short. I'm 31 years old. I was with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years before he got a great job 2,000 miles away. I moved to the job location for him. We ended up having a lot of problems and he left me. That was in ...

Everything's broken...

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11 August 2009 (M) - Hello, Just to warn you, this is a long one. Bsically I am in a weird place right now, I was with my ex girlfriend since the age of 16, we spent over three years together,some happy and shit times. We were both each other's fist love and sexua...