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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

One week he wants me to never leave him, the next he ignores me, then he loves me,the next ignores me...??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I need advice or I might do the wrong thing..I met the perfect guy in Sept 08, he was engaged and has a 7yr old boy from another relationship.He always turned to me for help since the engagement wasnt going well and they used to fight a lot.He left ...

So much criticism...rarely do I hear a good word. What can I do to improve our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think I need some help. I am in a pretty good relationship - at least most of the time... When we are not arguing! We've been together for 12 years now... I am 28 now, we met when I was 16. He is 14 years older. That he is that muc...

I would just like opinions on this situation with my ex, please.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I've written about my situation before - it keeps progressing. My ex and I have been talking/slept together.We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it".It made no sense to me seein he was contacting/seeing me daily,made sure I met his fam etc ...

My boyfriend is pretty much constantly high!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend smokes a LOT of weed. I knew this before we started going out, but I suppose I didn't quite know the frequency of it. I don't have a problem with weed in general, I'll have a little myself occasionally if I wish to chill out. It hasn'...

I'm back with my ex... but he's giving me mixed signals! Should I stay or go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Mixed signals. I am back with my ex. His actions say love and commitment. But his words say he does not want a commitment. He says he does not want to see or be with anyone else exceot ne, but he does not want a commitment. I do not realy ...

My boyfriend has a hard time opening up to me... how do I approach this subject with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - So I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. I like him and he seems to really like me but a few things concern me. He is very quiet and seems to have trouble opening up. I have tried to get him to open up but he doesn't say much. I ...

Deeply troubled with sexual past, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I am almost 20 and have slept with 7 different people. I find myself thinking about it each day more and more and its depressing me to the point that I cry about it for hours. I am so troubled with it and have so many different issues I just dont ...

Boyfriend trying to change me too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I just wanted to share some concerns I have about my 3 year relationship. About a year and a half into our relationship my boyfriend started trying to change little things about me. For instance, he decided he really didn't like my reddish/b...

Boyfriend is infertile... is there away for us to have a child together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - my botfriend is sterile. hes 24, im 39. weve been together for 4 and a half yrs. how can he go about having a child? he doesnt want me to be artificialed inceminated. is there any way to get his sperm cell count back? i dont know why hes ...

Help...I don't know who the father is! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Well I'm 8 months pregnant and I'm in a pickle... I've been with J for a year now, but sometime around christmas we had a fight and I went to my exs house (T) and u can do that math on that, well I went to Ts house christmas eve and then christmas ...

Underage next door female coming on to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I am a 20 year old male, and I moved to a new neighborhood about three years ago. Over the last three years we have become friendly with everyone on the block and my little brother enjoys playing with the neighborhood children. One of m...

Utterly confused about my feelings towards him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I'm new to the dating scene, so I'm quite clueless to all the dos and don'ts. My situation might be a bit complex but bare with me. There is this guy at work that I'm not sure if he is interested in me or just want to be friends. He gave me a cut...

I feel so stuck...why can't I just stop loving this guy? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hi, sorry this is going to be a looong one. I have been with a guy off and on since I was sixteen. At first everything was great and my family life was horrible at home so the day I turned 18 I moved in with him. Then, I ended up pregnant. We were ...

She lied about her past lovers! Should I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - i have been married to my wife for 13 years i just found out that she lied too me about how many people that she had sex with prior too us getting married she told me that she just rembered about one more person about five years ago but just now ...

Help! We have a LD relationship, but her lack of contact is so hurtful! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Dear Readers, Thank you so much for reading this.. My girlfriend and I have been on a long distance relationship for over 2 years now. I met her when I was studying aboard in Japan, and after my term has ended at that school, I came back to t...

She lied to me and cheated! Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I’m a 34 year old blk male I’ve been with my girlfriend for about nine years I ask her to marry me about five years ago she said yes but she started cheating on me. for about a year and a half till I found out she said she would stop but she kept ...

Thanks to Agony Uncle RCN! You helped me immensely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - My last post didn't show up because I guess it wasn't "question" related. But it is an update from what I posted on the first of August. rcn was a major help and I would like to thank him for everything he told me. I did exactly what he said and it ...

Our relationship is dying and I am trying to save it! What else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - yesterday was year number 4 with my partner (not married) I got divorced while starting a relationship with him and i admit it was the worst possible thing i could have done. i dont think i did the right thing , but ok we did continue and its been 4 ...

She won't remove this guy off her MySpace!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Hey... my girlfriend had a guy message her that she said she talked to like "that" before we met. but once we met she stopped talking to him. he wrote her on myspace when she was at my house and said "hey whats good, i miss yu girl i want to see ...

My cop boyfriend is obsessed with me! How do I get out of this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Complicated... I am in a relationship with a veteran police officer. This relationship sucks. We started off while he was married, (yes it was wrong) and he left her to be w/me. Problem is ..to me..he's obssessed. I am not sexually interest...

Committing to someone scares me! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I'm going to try to say this as best as i can, so bare with me. Okay, I'm currently single and i dislike it like mad, i really would just love to find a girl, some-one to hold ect ect ect. For awhile I didnt get why i couldnt, I'm not ugly, gir...

I want to leave my husband after 20 years of marriage but I have nothing! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - me and my husband have been together for nearly 20 years and have 4 children. we have our own busissines, he works and i don't anymore as two of my children have learning difficulties. I feel as though i have given up my life for everyone else and ...

Help! My boyfriend thinks I am a flirt and as a result, keeps breaking it off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I could really use some help, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really love him, more than anything. We only ever have one problem. He thinks that I am a flirt, but I'm not and I would never do anything to mess this up, he ...

How do I win back the trust of my former mistress? Will she take me back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I'm 40 years old and will be married for 12 years this month. Last year, I had an affair with my Exec Assistant, who is 8 years older than me and a truly sophisticated lady. It started as friendship, but then I lied to her and told her my marriage ...