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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

If I'm so "nice" why do I get treated so badly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - After failed relationships and a marriage, I have ended up alone, in debt, lost my home (to my ex-wife) and, apart from my mum, no other family. Women have never respected me or found me really attractive. When I met my wife, it was through a ne...

He needs help, but for the life of me, I just cannot. Does anyone have any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - hello. i grew up with a violent father and also suffered mental abuse. there were times as kids when we thought we were going to die and we also ended up on the at risk register. he would drink the money and then come home and beat us but mainly my ...

How do I get what's mine and get the hell out of there without getting in trouble?

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4 August 2009 (F) - i have had failing relationships in the past. i have been married 4 times and i'm only 38 years old. i have a 16 year old daughter who, after 15 years, decided to move in with her daddy, and a 5 year old who loves me uncionditionaly. i recently met ...

I want some revenge over this ex who thinks he can still control me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I want some fucking revenge! After eight months after a terrible break-up from a two-year relationship, I was finally able to walk away from a Friends-With-Benefits thing with my ex. This happened about a week ago and I just feel so awesome about ...

He's taking me for granted, what should I do?

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4 August 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a yalf now. I don't know what is happening. I think he is getting too comfortable with me. He doesn't appreciate my time. Like yesterday-he said he would do something with me today. I call him ...

I'm pregnant, but our relationship is on the rocks and I don't want to lose him. Please help

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4 August 2009 (F) - Heya guys, Well to start from the beginning I have a nine month old little boy. My sons biological father left me during the pregnancy as he wasn't ready for fatherhood and couldn't accept the fact I wanted to keep the baby. So i went it alone an...

I'm 28, He's 66. Do you think the age difference is too great?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I need to know other peoples opinion about my current relationship. I am 28 year old female and dating a 66 year old male. Nobody in my family knows about it because I am quite sure they are not going to approve. I really love this man and some...

What's the reason for all these mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I have finally "got in there" with a girl (I'll call her Holly) who I've fancied for a while.....so I thought. I presumed I was friendzoned before until just recently. She had told me (a few months ago) that she would like to go out with someone...

My husband wan't a threesome with both men and women, but I don't want him with another woman.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Well my husband wants a boy toy for the both of us since I have been giving him a hard time about wanting to be with another woman I think he will still want another women in bed with us should I do anything about this? We did have a three some with ...

My wifes lover dumped her now she's depressed.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Hi Cupids, can anyone help me, my wife cheated just over 6 months ago and the OTM dumped her and then broke of all contact. We have remained together to work at saving our marriage,but the problem is that she seems constantly down and depressed that ...

My sex life is drying up and I can't stop it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. For the first 3 we were living separately and the sex was great. We made love almost every time we saw each other. But since we moved in together the sex has kind of dried up. We went from 3-4 ...

He says no one compares to me, then why does he keeps leaving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - If a man loves you and wants to be with u .and they r saying that u make them a bettter person. And he has never felt this way b4.hes lucky. I only no the true him. Why would he keep leaving me.then begging me back wks and months later saying how ...

For one day to the next she ignores me WHY??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Well, this story might sound famliar to some of you. About a year ago, I met a girl at university. She's four years older than me, (she's 25. I'm 21). We got along very well, and stayed in touch after the school project was over in December. ...

One day he wants to leave me, and the next, wants to marry me! What am I supposed to believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Am I delusional? He says he wants to marry me. He has seen a therapist for the names he calls me and is trying to stop. I am seeing a therapist because a few months ago the mean names and accusations drew me to a point of making an attemp...

Why doesn't my fiancee want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 27 years old and recently engaged, everything in our relationship is awesome except one thing: We dont have sex! I want to and I feel i need to, but my fiance never wants to. She always makes some kind of excuse or says s...

His mother's comments have put a huge hole in my confidence about our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriends mother invited me round for dinner while my boyfriend was away, and got talking about various tings, after a few drinks she asked if we were using 'extra protection' as my boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship that wasnt ...

I thought teenage boys were supposed to be very interested in sex; why does my boyfriend not want it anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months but he's not been wanting to have sex as much as he did. Whenever I want it he says not today (but not in an angry way) or 'Lets wait til another day' I dont get it because we'r...

My new boyfriend has stopped turning me on and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I have new boyfriend who is amazing. He's really cute to look at but for some reason he has just stopped turning me on and I dont know why. He tells me all the time he thinks Im sexy and always wants to make love but I just dont want to even though ...

If I leave her I will walk away with nothing, but if I stay I know I can expect more humiliation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - im 24yo Irish lesbian and until last year i owned my own hairdressing and beauty salon and had everything i ever wanted.Then it all went wrong i was losing money and struggling to pay my bills,i met this woman online from London ,she was a lot older ...

Neediness in relationships... I can't have it happen next time! How can I calm down while still showing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi there, I broke up with my ex-girlfriend around 2 months ago and I'd say I've done a pretty good job about getting over her completely. I even get happy when I see her photos on Facebook, etc. with her new girlfriend because they suit each o...

We're dating, but he doesn't demonstrate much affection! Does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - i've been seeing a man for 2 months, he's attractive, never married, no kids, but doesnt express how he feels about me. i'm not expecting love or anything as he's 43 and i'm 42 and taking things slow, as we are both getting over ex's. but he doesnt ...

Why doesn't he get divorced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

4 August 2009 (?) - I rarely ever ask questions, but this problem is a bit confusing to me. I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We both talk to our previous significant others except he tries to keep his contact secret because he knows it irritates me. ...

How can I tell if he's interested?

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4 August 2009 (F) - Me and my neighbor have always had a thing for each other. We always considered ourselves best friends or good friends. After 6 years of knowing each other we have finally hooked up. However, when he drinks at parties he tends flirts with other ...

He said he used me, what meassage should I get from this?

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4 August 2009 (F) - dear cupid, I got deeply emotionally involved with a guy about 3 months ago. We were pretty much dating but he was about to leave to go to Japan for 2 months. I told him i wanted 2 wait til he got back 2 start something and he was ok with that. ...

How do I tell my FWB about the girl I want to marry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I am seeing someone on a regular basis and we have discussed marriage already. We have been seeing each other for about 3 months now. The problem is that before this I was seeing someone on again and off again for 2 years. We were the classic ...

He's not the man I married.. or I just didn't know who I was marrying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - OK Folks - this worked before, so I am hoping to hear some feedback and that I will be able to understand what happened in my marriage - I wrote June 26th - titled 'He was sweet before our marriage, now he is abusive' and received some great in...

Am I giving her mixed signals?

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4 August 2009 (F) - I told my friend I was lesbian and she is straight.. she knows i'm an emotional person and everything.. and she's always like flirting with me.. and she told me" I thought about you boo"... and like two weeks ago i told her i had a boyfriend and she ...

Why does he always cheat on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Six of you kindly replied to my question dated 31st july 2009 about my cheating husband, while i write this my so called loving husband is in bed with the woman who has caused most of my problems. I thought i was just being paranoid about his ...

Hes mad with me because of a text. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Ex and I broke up 3 wks ago.We've txted frequently.Broke up - claims he wasnt feeling it anymore *he gave numerous random reasons*(during our relationship he never acted unhappy/called and saw me daily - on his part, had me meet his fam/they ...

He says I can't leave him or he will do things to me. Should I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - i just wanted some advice, im in this relationship with this guy is been 2 yrs, and im not happy with him we dont do anything but stay home. i work and he doesnt so when i have a day off i go see him but since he is so boring we just stay home smoke ...