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Archived questions from: 20 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Our relationship is ending soon... but should we break things off earlier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - I'm having a rough time just now. I'm in a relationship that is going to finish in a few weeks time, because we are both going off to Universities and neither of us want a long distance relationship. But for the past couple of weeks, I've found my ...

She wants me to break off all contact with my parents until they apologize to her and her parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Both my wife and I are in our mid-twenties and have been having this problem since the very beginning. We are of indian / pak descent so please keep that in mind when reading this post. My parents are very traditional - traditional beliefs, etc. Her ...

Why this sudden change in his behavior? Personally AND professionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi all, Please I need your advice and opinion about what I have been through in the last 2 weeks. It is about me and a guy at work. I am so confused it's making me ill. So I have to get this off my chest so prepare your self for lots of details....

I Just Can't Seem To Understand Her!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Hello, to put it this way, I proposed to my Girlfriend, She said no, but she says she still wants to be lovers, I want to take it to a next level, and she's rejecting, we've been dating for 7 years, this isn't the first time I proposed and not the ...

He constantly lies and seems to be cheating, should I get a divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I am almost 8 months pregnant and am having serious marriage problems. We have been married for just over a year and our arguments are more and more serious. This time we have separated for over ten days now and have been talking about divorce. T...

Big age gap & it seems he doesn't love me like I love him..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 39 yr old female and I've been seeing a 22 yr old guy! I have fallen in love with him, but have been trying to hide it!! I'm crying as I write this, because last night, we talked, and we've decided to stop the intimate part of our ...

Feel down, was angry, and I called the other girl. Was I wrong???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had seen two other girls while we were together, i lost trust in him, and i noticed he started calling me less, and i always made all the plans, so we were on and off. just recently a new girl that i knew showed up and i found out they ...

I am so lost without her, any advice on how to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - HI all, Very briefly, I am not your reader or poster, in fact I am in my thirty's so I do apologise. But I am so confused it's making me ill. So I have to get this off my chest and any ideas, advice etc would be greatly appreciated. I ...

My ex is too involved with my pregnancy and my current boyfriend doesn't understand my mood swings! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been combined] 1. my ex boyfriend (father to my child of 2yrs) keeps asking me if i am pregnant with my current boyfriend. I cannot understand why he would be so interested, i mean he even ...

Girlfriend wants to get serious, but are her words and actions too inconsistent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Hello. I met my girlfriend online on a game program a few months ago. About 2 months after meeting online and talking everyday, all day (we still do it) we met in person (I was supposed to see her, something came up and she came to see me!) none...

How do I get out of something I don't really want to be in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend about six years ago and we've been together coming up 5 years now I think, but I feel like I've lost interest in the relationship. I don't know, cause she's a nice and lovely person. But things just keep coming up, like ...

How do you deal with someone who only seems interested when you back off from them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - how do you deal with someone who constantly makes excuses for their behaviour as though they are trying to test just how far they can push you? Example, they didnt email you back for a week as they said they didnt check their emails, or they dont ...

My partner decided to end our relationship but she cant afford to move out, what is the best thing to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - After 12 years with her she out of the blue said she didnt love me and wanted to split up.She said she can't afford to move out of our house and i can't afford any money to buy her out or move out myself ( i pay all the utility , mortgage etc). I ...

Why does his family call me his "secret lover"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - i have been dating a boy for 5 months now. his family call me his "secret lover". ( i never met his family in person) what does this exactly mean?...

Toxic relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I have an online male friend that tells me he loves me. I love him as well but not quite the way I think he wants me to. Any time I try to put some distance between us he goes of his nut and acuses me of using him and not loving him anymore. I speak ...