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Archived questions from: 21 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Been together for 9 years and have a 6 year old child together and he still won't commit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I have just paid thousands of pounds to be on holiday at the same time as my boyfriend. Out of 14 days we spent three days together. Most of the time was fun but some of the time he just kept picking at me and trying to humiliate me. I have re...

I found out he's an Escort! What should I do here???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I have a very strange situation and although i have my own opinions and views, others would be appreciated. To summarise, i met a guy who was involved with someone else and told him he could only be with me if he left her, and so he did, he left ...

I love my wife but I don't think I want her to be my wife anymore. Need some advice...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

21 August 2009 (M) - What to do... I married my highschool sweetheart after ten fun-filled years together. We had an awesome destination wedding and have been together as husband and wife for an just over four years now. We are only 31 years old, so we have basicall...

I thought we were getting back together, then he texted 'it ain't gonna happen'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - me and my ex split up just over a month ago and its killin me. im so upset and cant stop thinkin about him. a week after we broke up he was with a new girl so that just hurt even more. feel like i ment nothing to him after over 2 years. but we ...

I get so frustrated with the way his daughter treats me! And all I'm trying to do is help take care of her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - Ok well I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half...he has a 5 yr old daughter from previous relationship and i have a 3 yr old son from a previous relationship. We all live together and his brother stays with us too. His daughter rarely ...

Trust is gone and I don't know if I can forgive him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a question about my current relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 1/2 years, and I recently found out that he had been sending and receiving x-rated pictures to and from other women roughly a year ago. ...

Did my girlfriend plan this baby? Can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. Im really not sure how to put this really but my gf and i are expecting a baby in early feb, but the thing is im becoming more worried about this as when we both found out i didn't want a child as really we havent been out that lon...

Why does he always pull away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - It's a bit long but i'll try and be brief. About 2 yrs ago I met a guy, he was very shy but the more I got to know him (indirectly through work) the more I liked him. Anyway he started to offer to do little jobs for me and after 8 months asked me ...

During our split we dated other people. I got pregnant but had an abortion, and since then he always brings it up!! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - When I was 13 years old I met this Special someone, we both feel in love the minute we saw each other. And now we are all grown up ages 19 and 20 and we just got married this year. But there is a big problem... Last year we broke up for about 6 ...

I have just found out my boyfriend cheated on me for 8 months!! What shall I say or do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend (Daniel) for 16 months (since April 2008). The relationship was quite serious from the start as we had know eachother for a while already, we fell in love quite quickly. Around October 2008 to December 2008, we drifted ...

My new husband has never introduced me to his parents/siblings/family ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I recently married my husband in his country of residence, and although we married in the same city as my spouse's parents live in, he did not invite them nor did he ever introduce me to them. He claims it was because he was "on the outs" with them ...

What can I do to not get worked up over little things that he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months..I love him a lot and he helps me through everything. He treats me well and lets me do everything I want to do. Just he annoys me and since I have really bad aniexty it drives me nuts like ...

I feel like I just woke up and can't beleive I married him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I am 28 years old and I was married March of this year. My husband and I had only known each other 8 months before the wedding and only 2 before we got engaged. In January my grandmother passed away and then in February my father unexpectedly ...

I'm married and believe that God hates divorce, but I am drawn to another Christian. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - Hi all... I am married to my hubby now for almost 3 years, I am and have never been sexually attracted to him. One thing that really gets to me is that he is not circumsized, I have never been with a guy that has not been circumsized before. Don't ...

Is he telling me the truth about his education?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years and although I am a student, my partner works with an estate agency and just two weeks ago he told me he'd like to get married in three years but the problem is my parents would want me to get married to ...

I have no enthusiasm to see my girlfriend! What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (M) - I no longer feel enthusiastic about seeing my girlfriend. We haven't been together all that long, but in the early stages she was a lot of fun. Unfortunately, she's gotten very clingy. She wants to see me every day. I'm flattered, but if I say no, ...

I found out my boyfriend has been looking at pre-teen porn, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - This is so hard and I have no one else that I can talk to about this. I am 20 and my I guess you can call him boyfriend(I am rethinking that) have been together almost 5 years. We have been arguing and I have been losing trust in him because he was ...

I am attracted to a 16 year old! How do I stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - My little brother has a friend that he grew up. I watched both of them grow up. Now my little brother is on his way to becoming a career criminal. Always in and out of jail. While my brother has been away, I've been spending a lot of time with his ...

The hardest decision I've ever made

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - Kind of a long story but I really need some objective advice...I was dating a guy for almost 2 years and then we got engaged and moved in together everything was fine for about 6 months then sort of fell apart. He ended up leaving me and I was so ...

Did I make a mistake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I was seeing a guy (not officially) for 4 and a half months. For the past month I'd been arranging everything, initiating most contact, whereas before he did everything. Last friday he told me he wanted to take a step back and he didnt know if ...

Does this relationship have a chance to last forever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I am a 31 year old mother of 3 young children. I met a 23 year old single guy at my work and started dating him 6 months ago even though I am still married. I was having issues with my marriage, I'm just not in love with my husband anymore, who by ...

Why can't we just give it a go? Or is this relationship already doomed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (M) - I've been seeing a girl my age for a few weeks now. At nineteen, it's my first relationship. After a prolonged courtship in which neither of us seemed able to tell the other party how we felt and in which she made most of the (rather drunken)...

I want to break up with him, I feel trapped, he's clingy but I've never done this before!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I think I need to break up with my boyfriend but I don't know how. I've never done it before. I've been thinking about it for some time but when we're together he is so lovely and kind and would do anything for me. Sometimes I think it can work if ...

How do I tell my parents he's going to be living with me! They scare me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months now. It would be an understatement to say that we moved way too fast. He moved in with me, and we weren't even seeing each other for a month. Before that, I spent every day and every night with him. He ...

Should I confront him and ask why he cut contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - This guy and I went in several dates together. We go to the same school. we are both in college. We kissed twice and did not have sex. Everything was fine until he just completely stopped calling me or texting me. I tried to text him once only, he ...