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I love him but if doesn't return that, why can't he just be a gentleman about it?

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Question - (6 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2009)
A female Jamaica age 51-59, *ddie`s girl writes:

I think it is time to let go of the man i have loved for years. he tells me he loves me yet he dont phone me when he say he will. he lives in england and that is were we did meet i have visit england many times and he has visit me 3 times. the last time was 2 years ago and we spent 6 weeks together and had so much fun.do you think that he now has somebody else and that is the reason he dont phone me? if this is the reason why dont he be a gentleman and tell me? this is breaking my heart.

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A female reader, emilydislikesherex United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2009):

Long distance relationships are difficult.

If hes not ringing you hes not devoted to you if he loved you so much hed want you with him everyday or hel ring just to hear your voice.

Best thing to do is for you to ring him and ask him if this relationship is working if not theres plenty of men out there who will ring you everyday and will actually make the effort.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (7 August 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntAsk him what is going on. "Hi. How are you? I love you and I miss you. I miss you so much, and I've noticed that you've been visiting me less and less. Is there someone else? ......Because if there is, you can tell me, and we can both move on."

Hope this helps.

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