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We are always arguing and he is always saying hurtful things. I've gotten to the point where I can't take it anymore

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Question - (6 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi i am 36 living with a 41 yearold man who thinks he is younger than what he is. Recently I have been receiving email from a woman who claims to be sleeping with him. De denied it of course but lately he seems to pick fights out of nowhere they get intense he says alot of things that hurt. The next day he days sorry and says it was heat of the moment. He tell me I don't give him space he tells me I am always on top of him. But sometimes I don't even see him. He works two jobs. He says that I have no goals no nothing. I don't know what to do I love him so much. But it's getting to the point where I just can't take it anymore. What can I do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

I am somewhat curious... When you said, "I don't know what to do I love him so much" - can you explain in detail the feeling of love that you have for him that you "love him so much"?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I have found that he does have contact with this woman he lies to me and tells me no. I looked at phone records and always see her number but he will flip if I tell him I know that I looked at the phone records

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