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Archived questions from: 22 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have had enough! Do you think I should stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I have had enough! do you think i should stay? I met my current boyfriend through friends in my first year of Uni. We became good friends and started dating after 2 years later. We have now been together 3 years. The main problems are: 1. He ...

How do I get over this awful feeling of not being the first with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - My wife of 48 years lost her virginity when she was 14. To this day I cannot get over it even though she told me about it while dating prior to getting married. How do I get over this awful feeling of not being the first with her especially since...

Constantly butting heads!!! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Don't know what to do about long term relationship that always seems like its in turmoil. B/f very emotional; blows up easily. I try to keep things calm but it doesn't always work out. He snaps at me and I'm learning to snap right back because he ...

When does communication get better in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - When does communication get better in a relationship? My b/f and I have these stupid fights and it's always over the way we communicate with each other. Example, the light bulb needed changing in the bathroom. They are special lights; the light ...

Should I tell him the way I feel or let him be with this other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I need help!! Basically the story goes me and my ex boyfriend met each other and talked the whole night at our friend’s 21st birthday party. Then about 3 months later we got together it was fab at first we were smitten with each other, but then ...

How do I talk to this unreasonable man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has really been upsetting me lately. The relationship is only new and he already expects me to start sharing sexual fantasies and thoughts with him...though I am not comfortable doing so because I am still a virgin and have never opened ...

I cheated on my boyfriend and the guilt is taking over my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I have guilt that is eating me alive every day, multiple times a day. 5 months ago I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years, the man I am sure I want to marry one day. I don't know what got into me but at the time I felt like a different person, I felt ...

Is he not happy with me? And if I am this insecure, should I be in the relationship at all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I'm going to give lots of detail so that I may get a more objective response... My fiancee (B) and I have known eachother for 13 years, but we've only been together for 10 months, engaged for 6. We had tried dating before, but long distance wa...

Things are changing in our relationship, including our sex life! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend and I have been together for around 8 years. Things were great we always had fun together but over time she started taking me for granted. I left her for awhile then came back, I missed her alot. Everything was good for awhile but it ...

My boyfriend said he likes me but not as much as I like him. I want to be with someone where the like is equal!, but I don't want to give up on him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend tells me that he likes me but not as much as I like him. I want to know how I can go about that because I am only 16 but I tend to express my thoughts and feelings a lot. It just comes with my personality. My boyfriend always mean what ...

He's not being as affectionate as he is usually...could he be cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a few months now, we have talked about kids and moving in together and the future already. At first he was the sweetest guy ever. And all of a sudden the past 2 to 3 weeks hes just been an ass. Once in awhile he ...

I feel like my boyfriend and my best friend are a little too close! What should I do?

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22 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend calls my best friend much more than he calls me. Sometimes, he'll just spend the whole night on the phone with her and not bother to call me at all. They do little surveys together (they've done atleast around 15 by now) and post the...

How can I start trusting him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Me and my bf had been together for about 13 months but i always had trust issues with him so he left me,we broke up for 2 months and just got back together 5 days ago.Now its even harder because i found out he got a gf while we broke up but he ...

How do I end things with him and get over him dating another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and me and this guy have had a thing since 5th grade, I'm in 8th grade and we've been on and off a lot. I'm going out with him right now and he's so confusing. He can be the most amazing, and sweetest guy ever, but sometimes, mostly..he is ...

Why was my boyfriend so horrible to me in front of his friends? It hurt me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Help! I understand that guys will be jerks to you infront of their friends but can you just please tell me about it. I am very heart broken because my sweet boyfriend of almost 9 months was an arrogant asshole to me today, for the first time eve...

How do I find out if my ex wants me back, or at least misses me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Should I contact my ex or not??? My ex broke up with me. Butttt it was partly my fault. I kind of influenced him to break up with me. See we had a fight because I wouldn't do something for him (which went against my values) which he wanted me to ...

My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me because he feels like he is missing something. It's taking it's toll on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - so me and my boyfriend have been together sence highschool and lately evry now and then he gets to thinking that hes missing something becuse hes been with the same person for so long. and that he will never get to experance the college life. he ...

I'm starting to get the feeling she's cheating on me with her boss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - I am a young guy and i have a beautiful girlfriend whom i love. We have been together 3 years and plan on getting married. She is 22 and currently doing some work abroad as part of her career. She has been gone 3 months now and I'm starting to get ...

Why is my boyfriend being overprotective all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I'm very confused at the moment. My boyfriend wasn't always like this. Why is he being overproctective all of a sudden? Are these signs of a controlling relationship? - I can't even talk to my guy friends. There was also a fistfight ordeal...

Do you think he loves her and will treat her better than he treated me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - My ex was manipulative and verbally abusive, in my opinion. His mother was terminally ill so I felt sorry for him and let him get away with a lot. He told me that he is emotionless and insensitive. He would call me names: stupid, hoodrate, whore; ...

When he holds me all I can think of is his betrayal. Is breaking up the answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - ok so i gess the best way to ask for your help is to just tell you the story. iv been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and for the first 9 months i wasnt aware of any problems between the two of us. there was a constant bother from his ex but ...

Will it always be this difficult to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - Well I don't relly know where to start. I have been in a somewhat shaky, on again, off again more off then on relationship for the past three years with this persom. Most of the the break ups I will have to say has been her fault. Wanting others ...