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anonymous
writes:my baby father i been with him since i was 15 and we have two kids and he cheats he calls me names he dont come see the kids he dont care about me i never cheated he make me feel like im not worth it no man will ever want me what should i do do he really care about me and his children all he wanna do is party and mess with alot of females Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): Well I will start with this he's mentally abusing you and you shouldn't take that, plus if he's cheating on you and not really giving much care for it leave him. Leave him because if he really loved you he will respect you and he wouldn't keep hurting you for the sake of you and your children just leave him God will send you somebody else.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Because you let him.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 People treat you how you let them treat you. You can continue to feel sorry for yourself and dream about the sperm-donor to your children, or you can get yourself some self esteem and decide you are not putting up with this rubbish off anyone. If you cannot do it for yourself, think about being a positive role-model for your kids. It is obvious this man has no respect for you - you cannot change how he thinks or feels, but you can change how you respond to the situation. You can passively accept this treatment from him, or you can stand up for yourself and move on - being single is much nicer than being with a loser!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): Do you really need to ask the question? It's painfully obvious to be that he doesn't give a shit about you or the kids.
I hope you're getting child support from him.
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