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Archived questions from: 5 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Whenever I express my expectation to her she gets mad!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - Girls, what all do you do in a relationship to make things happy and strong between you and your partner. I mean EVERYTHING..from getting up in the morning to the time you go to bed. I am in a relationship for past 14 months and I love her a lot and ...

How do I get her back, when I have blown so many chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - How can I get my ex back after she has giving me so many chances to change? ...

Boyfriend engrossed with work and now so distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of four years has recently become so engrossed with his work that that is all he focusses on. We don't live together but a couple of weeks ago we were having a lovely time. Cuddles, laughs, talking about the future, great sex. Now he ...

He is jealous of me innocently helping another man. what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I'm engaged to a great guy, however there seem to be some inscurities that pop up now and then. We were on trip with some friends and there waa a new friend who was going to stay with us in our hotel room. He's about 10 yrs younger and was talking ...

We are in a difficult, troubled relationship and I need help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Okay i dont wanna say i know what love is; i think i know what love is. Ive been dating this guy for a while now and things are so messed up, and ive tried everything i can to make things better, and it sucks vecaue everything stays the same. so, ...

Should I keep the one I'm with, or go back to the one I had before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Hello everybody! I live with my bf right now,he is 41 years old.My ex whoe is 57, is now chasing me again and sent me and engagement ring. My ex is a wealthy man, my bf does not even have a job. My bf gets $ from his parents. My bf wants to marry me...

This relationship is all very one-sided and I want SO much more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I feel like I am in a one-sided relationship. I love my boyfriend, but he only has said he loves me when I found out he was on a fling site. Now I do not trust him, and he lied before so how do I know he is not lying now. he is going on a motorcycle ...

Even though we are taking things slow again, shouldn't I have the right to be upset that I found his profile on a dating site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I was seeing a guy for 3 months last year that I met online. We live in the same city, have the same interests and outlook on life. He had just broken up with his fiance when we got together so I started to realize that I was the rebound girl (we ...

If it goes from a relationship to casual sex, shouldn't the issue be discussed first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Hi all got a relationship question if a u go steady with someone and the relationship goes down and only becomes a sexual one am i right by saying that the person introduces it by saying he/she just wants sex because they hoping that some how they ...

How do I get him to realise that enough is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Ok, I think I have had enough. I am a 46 y/o divorced woman, mother of 2 kids. I have been with the same man for 6 years...6 very long years. We are not married nor do we live together. I am at my wits end. I have been through so much with him...

He treats me so well but dosen't want a relationship, should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I had asked a question previously about a situation between my good friend and I. This may be long so bare with me, but I really am confused about this situation and would appreciate any input! Basically the sum of it is, we had been friends sin...

Is it bad to share your feelings with the girl you love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - Is it a bad thing to share what your really feeling with a girl you love? even if your insecure? im so afraid its a turn off and hurts more than it helps.. Not big insecurities just talking to her about how much u really want to be with them. like ...

I don't want him seeing other girls, how can I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - heya i need help i think my bf is in love with someone els!! when i ask him to meet me he saiis he will but dusnt and the other night he told me he went out with his mates and they met up with thes girls and this girl askd him if he was single h...

We had a nice night together, then he never called me again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Did I do the right thing? My ex and I seemed to be getting back together, we had sex afew times. but the last time he put on all the romantic moves, dinner, opening up, talking about our times together. We had a wonderful night and I stayed over ...

She's sending mixed messages but I want to be with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for almost five years. We lived together for a long time, but we recently decided to call it quits. At the time it seemed like the correct decision, as we both had questions/concerns about where our relationship was going. ...

Do you think she really means it? Do people really change? I have lots of questions..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - What does it really mean when someone says there not ready go be with anyone right now, but everytime your together its like youve been together for a long time? If someones feelings are strong enough should it really matter? or do people really ...

Ladies: do you think it's still there for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I honestly am a very confused man who longs to make his wife happy. I thought my wife and I were happily married for many years and with 2 beautiful children things appeared to be working out well. She stays at home and although money i...

I need to leave an impression when I leave, but I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I split with my ex 18 month ago I found out she was seeing someone else, I caused no trouble I walked away, we both work together etc as does the other guy but that hasn’t worked out. Since the split we have no really managed to find any common ...

I don't see how I could be in love with him..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and everything has been ok up until the other day (we've had the occasional argument but what couple hasn't) but the other day everything changed and now i don't know what to do. Me and my...

My partner prefers brunnettes but I'm blonde?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I need to talk to my partner about this but he gets angry however this is driving me insane i need to talk to him about it or write him an email in a away that he can fully understand me and not shout at me. I have been with my boyfriend ...

He used my insecurities against me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - i'm 20 years old and right now i feel ruined! i know it's my fault i shouldn't have been so stupid. i met a guy on the net! worst mistake of my life. we had an internet thing going on. we texted talked on the phone etc but we never met. i talked t...

I'm rethinking my decision to break up with my boyfriend, do you think there is still a chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I broke up just over a month ago now. we were in a very close and serious relationship, we loved each other very much and always had fun together. we didnt break up because of arguments or cheating, basically its because our rela...

Should I forgive his short temper and rekindle things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - When I first saw him three year ago, I thought he was the most handsome man I’ve ever laid my eyes on. He was charming. Very loving and caring. I thought because it’s a new love, he’s trying to charm me and after some time in our relationship, ...

My boyfriend does nothing to help! Am I being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - im 23 with 2 kids. i got with my new boyfriend just over a year ago. he as 2 kids he was grate at 1st but i feel like he's babysitter now as he is never in and when he is in he on the laptop. he dosnt help me do owt or look after any of the kids. am ...

It makes me so sad.. it used to be perfect and now he just ignores me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I'm sad every day because my guy friend is ignoring me. We used to text ever day romantically and hang out now It feels as though my heart was ripped out.I can't grasp the fact that he changed. That he was able to intentionally hurt me and feel no ...

How much is too much to tolerate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half wants to go visit his family far away. In order to do so, he insists that i do not stay at our apartment on my own - none the less in the CITY on my own and tells me that I have to go to my family's house in ...

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is obbsessed with sex thts all he talks about and i aint ready.........the thing is he lives in cali and i dnt.......i dnt wanna talk about sex let alone do it he is always trying to make me horny what should i do?...

I need to get over him, I'm too old to feel this way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Honestly, I don't know what my question is. Maybe I'm just hoping for reinforcement that I made a half-decent choice? Maybe I want someone to explain this silly boy's behaviour? Mostly I just want to get this out of my system. I cannot ge...

He was "the one" but he cheated.. should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - This thing is eating me inside out for almost a year now, so I decided to seek advice here. It is a long question, because it is a devastatingly complex issue for me. We met 6 yrs ago, clicked right away, talked for hours, ending eachother's sent...

I love her, I hate her, I'm losing my mind over her..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

5 August 2009 (?) - hey,this isnt exactly a direct question but i just feel like i need some opinions on my situation...i met a girl about a year ago, and we've been quite serious for a good 4 months, im however leaving the country in september and we both knew this ...

My boyfriend broke up with me in a very mean way, my mom's not accepting that I'm gay and I don't have a job! I feel like my life is falling apart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm new here and I need help, I'm gay and I have a bunch of problems now, I feel really stressed and lost, first of all my boyfriend broke up with me in a very very mean way, he told me really mean things that destroyed my heart, I really ...

Why is he taking pictures of his co-workers or random women in semi-seductive poses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I hate feeling insecure but my b/f travels for business and each time he goes away, I later find photos he's taken of young attractive women. He always puts all his work photos on our computer in a file we both use and have access to. It's not like ...