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Archived questions from: 14 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Dating for 3 years troubled the whole time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Well it all started about three years ago. we have been going out for three years and its just been so hard since day 1. Well first of all let me say he dont work he dont go to school and he is pratically like they say a bum. I work i am going to ...

Can marriage survive without sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I married 5years ago to my irish husband who is 23 years older than me. we have problemes in bed i tried to see sex expert and do few session. things are change for better. i dont feel intimacy during sex, my husband never make love before me and ...

Feelings for a co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - i have feelings for my co worker,i dont know can i tell him that i have feeling for him or not..but i feel bad when i see him or if i didn't see him...

Perverts on the train!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Hi Im 15 and everyday i go on this one crowded train to go to a main public place that me and my friends like to hang out. i am always on the train alone (because none of my friends live near me). One day i was wearing a skirt(it was a mini ski...

He doesn't want to lose me but says I'm not what he's looking for

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I started being friends with my next door neighbor about seven months after I moved in. We quickly began having sex, talking on the phone and seeing each other practically everyday. He says that I am the closest person to him other than his ...

I want the REAL deal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend (6 months dating) is talking about us moving out together in the near future. Us buying a home is a huge deal and commitment!! All this talk gets me ancy. But what about a ring on this finger?? I haven't told him yet, but I'm not ...

Help!!! I'm worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me along time ago with the guy she lost her virginity. No sex, they just kissed then she walked away. The same thing happened at the beginning of our relationship. She was quite the party animal and used to drink a lot. We ...

He said he needs "time to sort out his head"... how much TIME should I give him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - When a man says he needs 'time to sort out his head' after an argument, How long do you consider is appropriate? ! I feel almost foolish to ask but I havent contacted Its 3 days now and a slight panic is setting in Would appreciate some advice ...

I don't get why he's like this, anyone able to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now, I'm 26, he's 29. We've been engaged for 2 years now. In the last few weeks he's become very interested in signing us up as members of AARP, lost interest in sex and spends all his time on the Inte...

Why text me when he was with his new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I was with someone for a couple of months and i split up with im i was simply to busy doing my house up he was fine with this and carried on txtin i met up with im a couple of times, then he started seeing someone else, but kept texting me no just ...

Do I try again... or do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Five years ago I met the love of my life, the girl of my dreams. It was not a stress free relationship, she was still married but seperated from her husband who was addicted to drugs and a loose cannon. She has twin girls who my son and I also got ...

How can I get over my boyfriends mistakes in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years, and we have been really serious. When he moved out of his parents house and into a friends place, things started getting rough. He was living with two other guys, so I was also concerned about ...

He's being short with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for about a year. We have only seen each other a couple of times but I love him so much and I felt the same. We talk about me moving out there because he cant leave his son. At first I did not like the ...

He said he used to pretend his ex wife was me in bed, what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. our relationship has been kind of complex. we dated when we were younger for several years. then it ended and he married someone else. through a series of events we got back together ...

My boyfriend has gone travelling for a year, I'm not sure if I want to wait around that long for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - im 21 years old and my boyfriend has chosen to take a gap year in australia. he has been gone for 7 weeks and im missin him so much but wondering if it is worth it? he had already booked to go away before we got together so everytime i try and talk ...

How can I make things better? My lies are making a mess of our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - So today my girlfriend and I were sitting on the computers. She was at her house and of course me at mine. Were both 16 and we have been in the relationship 6months now. We were sitting just after watching a couple of anime episodes and then she ...

He said he was falling for me and then started flirting with my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Hey Everyone!..I need Help i have some boy troubles.. Okay,so i have been talking to this guy for the past month now, We are really close he tells me everything and i tell him everything too..He lives in America =/ and i live in ireland.. Well,...

Please help me solve this relationship-friend problem! I don't know why they're against me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating almost two years. He is really close to his group of friends. His best friends wife recently launched an attack against me. She's made up all these lies about things I didn't say. She's had help from my boyfriends ...

Naked photos of women on my boyfriends phone and lack of sex are making me think he is just not that into me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - about 6 months ago I found a naked photo of my boyfriends ex wife in his phone. We had been together about 6 years at this stage. He told me it was an old photo from years ago but his phone was only new - so either it was a new photo or he had ...

Should I believe him? Or think hes a liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - Ok. Soo basically I was just lied to and fuckd with by a good friend of mine. He told me he's bi. Which I'm ok with. But someone... so my friend says txtd me from his phone telling me that he really like me and would've said yes if I asked him out. ...

I have done something I could regret for the rest of my life. Please help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I know there are a million of these questions out there but i just want some advice for my situation. see I met this guy at a school dance 5 years ago in yr 8. It turned out that he caught my bus home from school every day and we got talking and i ...

Should I stay with my ex or bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - My ex is still in the picture, even though I have a new bf who I live with, My bf is nice, but does not help me out economically, we share expenses, but if I am going to the doctor, he does not even ask me if I have money or not. My ex did supported ...

My husband keeps suggesting that I find a boyfriend to have sex with. Is this normal in a marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I'm not sure if I am in the minority or not but here goes. I am a sexually frustrated wife. I have been married for over 17 yrs. with kids. My husband has suggested to me over many years that I find a boyfriend that can keep up with me. Is there ...

My girlfriend says "You would try if you wanted it" way too much..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - Ok so it's perfectly fair to play hard to get, it's a real turn on in the bedroom and can make the average romp become a wild night to remember. This is NOT the case when she says it every time you want to do something, holding hands is a prime...

Please help walk me through my next steps!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - Hi, ive just turned 18 and im in abit of a difficult situation. Im not the most confident guy in the world, i suppose when it comes to my friends though im pretty confident and just generally friendly. Thing theres 4 of us who are the best of ...