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Dear cupid has destroyed my life

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Question - (6 August 2009) 12 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

A few months ago I discovered this website and started reading through the posts as a bit of general interest during my breaks at work (IT department so lots of spare time). But unfortunately I found the website a little too addictive and hence have been constantly reading problems dating back to the start of the site in order to get my fix. Soon I began accessing the site at home to the annoyance of my girlfriend of 5 years. To cut a long story short... 3 months later and I have become a social recluse... my girlfriend has left me and kicked me out the house and I have to use an internet cafe instead. (I am sleeping on the streets now as my parents live in Canada.) How do I go about getting her back?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

Why? You don't feel your nudity would be fully appreciated?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

You know, q1605, I would love to see every aunt/uncle on this site put into a room. Ya'll are a hoOt really and that would make a good reality show.

~Sy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-is-addicted-to-dearcupid-and-is.html

Reminds me of that post.. that was a good day. *sighs in rememberance*

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

Okay- its true- you can advice your own way out f this. Imagine you just read you own post and think how you'd respond.

If you had to choose- DC or your girlfriend- which would you STOP for the other?

Make a long term choice- and chase it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

Dear cupid has not destroyed your life, my friend. You inability to get your ass up off that chair has destroyed your RELATIONSHIP. Yeeashh.. dramatic..

~Sy.

ps.. rock on Phil!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

Was there a direct causal relationship between you using Dear Cupid and your girlfriend dumping you, or were there deeper issues driving you apart?

Bloody addictive, though, this site. It grows on you like a fungus. Eats disturbingly huge chunks of your spare time. I keep telling myself to knock it on the head for two weeks (I'm sure most of the other aunts would be delighted if I did.) Fav boyfriend/booty-buddy thinks I've developed a secret porn addiction. Sister is now getting revenge on me for years of slagging her crappy soap operas, since I used to go on non-stop about the evils of spending one's time in front of a screen.

If this intensfies, we can all meet up in a few years' time and swap horror-stories at our DearCupidaholics Anonymous meetings.

Good luck with the girlfriend!

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A female reader, Iloveribbons Ireland +, writes (6 August 2009):

For Jesus' sake..this is an INTERENET SITE! Go get yourself sorted out and beg your girlfriend to take you back. Choosing the internet over your girl is ridiculous insult!

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2009):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntokay so going on dearcupid to the point of homelessness is right :S Urm Phil not sure thats the best idea ever ya know! =]

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2009):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntokay so going on dearcupid to the point of homelessness is right :S Urm Phil not sure thats the best idea ever ya know! =]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

You need to get your priorities right. A site like this has so much social benefit and is a source of real life knowledge for all to share. This site is so much more important than one woman's insecurities, so it's a good thing she's left you to use internet cafe's. She won't be able to disturb you there so that's all for the good of the wider community.

Get her back? I wouldn't bother if I were you. There are far more important things in life.

Rock on, Cupid!

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2009):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntUrm is this real????? If so you might wanna stop this so called addiction to dearcupid or at least cut it down a bit. and if this isn't real...what is it doing on here :S

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

Why dont you use your problem resolving expertise and become a paid agony aunt that way you can get your own house and a computer and who knows even a new girlfriend problem solved

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