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Archived questions from: 15 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I quit my job and teach these guys not to mess with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - i have two questions i grew up in a crack infested hood and saw all kinds of crazy sht and got involved with alot of things as i got older, As a kid i was a crack addict before i got my first pair of pullups well i move from my home and broke my ...

I know this is abuse, so why do I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Where do i start? What is the difference between being mentally abused and battered? My husband puts me down all the time. Anything i do is never good enough. He yells and me and calls me names. He embarrasses me in front of his guy friends and his ...

In the middle of two relationships and both are troublesome

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this girl whose a few years younger then me. I like her despite the fact that we are complete opposites and she's nothing but trouble. I just wanted to hang out with her and nothing really serious but I also didn't want to ...

Sister's family taking advantage of my parents and I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Pls help my sister and her family been staying with my parents and i 4 a few months which has been hell her one kid sleeps in my room 16yr old her 9yr with my parents and her son in her room , i'm at home so i do all the house chores , i've been ...

Does he want me to move in with him or doesn't he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I need some man advice cuz my hormones are going nuts before my period and im pretty sure other than crying i dont have any other viable solutions to my little problem. Ive been dating my lovely bf for over a year and half and since like 3 mon...

What's going on between my old teacher and me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - ok so just 2 days ago i saw my old science teacher who i had when i was in eighth grade. im really attracted to him and i know the feeling was mutual when he was my teacher. but i wonder if the feeling still is? Now I'm 17 and I believe he is 30 ...

I feel like I'm a tool she can throw away when she's done with me

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15 August 2009 (M) - Ok so this is what's going on. I've been dating this female for a couple of months now and it seems that everything was going well until I noticed that I wasn't as special in her eyes as I thought. It seems that all she really wants is the bare her ...

B/F having dinner with girl even though he knows how I feel about her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - i have a long history with my boyfriend say like a three year relationship, but we had an issue,, because we once brokeup because of another girl i found in his appartment she tried so many times breaking us apart she talks bad behind my back and ...

I'm 24, she's 14 but she loves me and I don't want to hurt her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - Hi i was looking for advice and found this site, I wrote my whole question out and it got deleted some how. So I have to write again, Basically this girl who is a close family friend came onto me while i was at a Summer BBQ at her house, asked...

While we had broken up she slept with someone else....and I can't stop thinking about it. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a bad break up with no intent to get back together. While we were broken up, she thought I did not care about her and I thought the same as she did. we became started talking to each other between our break up, but very ...

I'm having serious problems with my kids, and now I don't know if I wish to see anyone in my family again. Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (?) - [MOD NOTE: Two questions posted together] I know my children will be fine, son of 17 and daughter of 14. They went into independence early and their social skills are advanced. Knowledge has been fed into them. I studied psychology etc... But what...

Am I being out of line for saying he can't talk to girls he used to sleep with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Ok.... well.... I've been dating my fiancee for a year now... before that I was in a very serious, long term, relationship of 7+ years... now, I am only 25, so thats a long time... Any way, It almost seems the weekend that my boyfriend of 7+ years ...

My teenagers have no time for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (?) - I am a 37 year old mother and have a 17 year old son and a 15 year old daughter. They seem so wrapped up in their own lives, that right now, I'm not included. I have always ensured they getting the best out of life, and I try to set them on the ...

Fiance has profile on online dating website, does that mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for three years. The other day, his mom called me and asked if I could have him reply to her e-mail she had sent him a few days ago. We know each others passwords to our e-mails, so I thought I would just check his ...

Should I continue with marriage counselling? Or divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - It will be 14 years of marriage, this month. We have 3 kids together. We went to marriage counseling in January and in April, I kicked him out. It was my decision, due to serious mistrust issues that he had. He would check the caller I.d, email, ...

Please help me, I don't know if this is the end between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - i was seeing guy for 4 and a half months (not officially lke) 3weeks before he startd seeing me him n his gf of 3 n a halfyears broke up, about 1 month into things he asked to take a step back n things were going well but for the past month ive ...

Struggling to cope with my husband led me to sleep with another man...but now he has gone distant. What should I do? Should I try to make my marriage work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I do not know exactly what I am asking here, but let me just begin. I have been in a marriage to an addict ( alcohol/prescription meds) for almost 15 yrs.. I really don't even consider it a marriage since I am more of a mother or a nurse to him. ...

Why is my boyfriend of five years looking at shemale porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - i just discovered my boyfriend of 5 years has been looking at, and jacking off to shemale porn. i discovered it while using his computer. i was on google, and the little "memory typing" came up and said transvestite dating sites. i called my ...

She only has sex with me to "get it over with". I want to express my love for her, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - I've been with my wife since I was 18, for 20 years. I still can't figure out how to relate to her. She wants sex about once a month, maybe less. I want sex every day. The only time it is rewarding for me is if she enjoys it and wants to be ther...

Am I not good enough for him if he wants to look at other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I am in a 3 month relationship, with this guy i really do love. i am having jealousy problems, i think. when i first got together with him, i knew he had playboys. but it did not bother me at the time. well later on in the relationship, i would get ...

We've talked about me being with another woman...but why has he picked her? Is he attracted to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - ok so my fiance of 4 years and i have been discussing myself beining with another women which im kinda interested in if its the right person, so we talked about this for 3-4 ,months non stop then he just let go for awhile. last nite he walks in from ...

I need help! My fiance won't go down on me, and I also want to please him more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I have a fiance that wont go down on me and I need my sex pleasures to be meant please help me out and also I want to please my man more How can I do that and in what positions. please help me...

How do I let go of the only person in my life that matters?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5368 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - I've been with my gf for about a year and a half and we live together. I love her very much and I know she loves me back. I've known her for many years as we had met in high school through mutual friends, but we never really progressed into anything ...

Watching him masturbate was hot, but now I'm obsessing and feeling useless at sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I would like to start out this question by saying I think masturbation is healthy and I never used to have problems with it. Now the question. I never even bothered to think about whether my boyfriend masturbated, because I really didn't care if he ...