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I'm trying so hard to be the bigger person but he's being a jerk!

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Question - (6 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm so confused and angry!! My boyfriend of six months and I broke up recently (his decision), and I have been a mess. I am dying to get back with him but I am holding onto my dignity and I am not contacting him or saying mean things about him or anything.

However, he is saying pretty horrible stuff about me and I don't know why. He was the one whho wanted this breakup and now he has it so why is he being so vicious about me? I'm still not saying anything bad about him to anyone as I think it'd be petty, but I 'd really love to know why he's acting as if I was the one who hurt him?!

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (7 August 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntWhy do the reasons for his feelings matter anymore to you? Keep being the bigger person. Let him show his ass. You are doing the right thing. Maybe write about it some. Draw some funny pictures of him being stupid.

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