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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I love him and I don't want it to end...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for a year, and in January we broke up b/c I found out some things about him that he had been hiding from me. Our relationship had a lot of ups and downs, mainly b/c he had issues with commitment. However, for the most part I ...

One guy is cruel..the other guy is so kind! Why am I so torn as to which one to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I've been stuck in a serious dilemma between 2 guys. One is the sweetest, kindest and most unselfish man who would do anything for me and would make an unbelievable husband/father. The other is selfish, unmotivated and somewhat cruel at times. ...

Too many bad things have happened and I don't know how to deal with it all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Right where do I begin... A couple of months ago my brother fell into a severe depression which led to him committing suicide by standing in front of train, 2 weeks after my mum sadly became ill with a perforated bowel and had to be admitted into...

My gorgeous gf gets hit on by other guys and she hates it. How can we deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - Hi Aunts, My Problem isn't really a big one but its driving me mad!My Girlfriend is super attractive Shes 5 11' skinny long brown hair she could pass as a model.Thats not the problem though the problem is every where we go shes constant...

Dating 7 months and he won't tell his Mother about us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months. There is a 10 year age gap. We are very happy. He says he loves me, but he hasn't told his mom about me. He is 30 I am 39 an i have 2 kids from a previous relationship. Am i wasting my time?...

Long distance relationship and now, he doesn't text me back! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy and we dated for about 3 weeks. We both felt a great connection and really liked each other. We do not live near each other, so we talked over text message when I had to return home. At first the texts were very nice and sweet and said ...

His 30 year old daughter has big problems, she dislikes me and now we are forced to sneak around to meet up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Should i stay or should i go? Ive been with my bloke for about 10 yrs. We are really good together when we're together (and alone) problem for me is his daughter (around 30) still lives at home and uses him for entertainment and sustenna...

Is he not sexually attracted to me? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - i have a man who tells me he's not into sexual things for instance, like trying new things with food, me dancing for him, or doing all the freaky things I would love, to please him. Is it because he's not sexually attracted to me? help, what am i ...

Married 18 years in a horrible marriage! I need to get out and move on, but I can’t..advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Hello I am going out of my head and just need advice. I have been with my husband for over 18 years, no children. The last few years have been the worst of my life and I just feel completely and utterly trapped and alone. My husband and I hav...

It ended with me looking like the bad guy! I feel so down..help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for one year and then we broke up and we were dating for 2 years, but we were not in a relationship. for the past two years he stopped calling me less, he said he did not feel 100 percent sure about our relationship but we ...

He's a great guy but...I've lost respect for him! Help, I'm disillusioned here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Simple to explain my situation, but don't know what to do about it. I have a partner who is a good guy I've know for 15 years and we've been together 10 years. I think he genuinely loves me, although it's never been exactly passionate and I have inc...

He comes, he goes...how do I deal with this odd relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months and we have got a 5 month old baby but we keep arguing really bad and he moved out but then i begged him to come home but now hes back i want him to leave but if he leaves i know i will ...

How do I ask this guy where we stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Hi all I've a question. I was seeing a man younger than me. He is very nice and sweet. He didn't want his friends to know about our relationship. Mainly because they aren't very mature. I think it's cause of my age. Am 33. We'd meet up every we...

I don't know what to do about my boyfriend's friend... help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I HATE my boyfriend's friend. We've been together for over a year now, he only met his new friend less than a year. We're 20 and 21, his friend is 30something. They met accidently when I threw some stuff out by curb for free and boyfriend was ...

Long distance confusion and heartbreak

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7 August 2009 (F) - HI, I met a lovely guy when I went on holiday a month ago. We had a really fab and romantic time, and it felt great! he lives where I went on holiday in Tunisia. We swapped emails, address's etc, and I put it down to a holiday romance although he ...

Why would he settle for second best when I bring out the best in him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - what do i do i walk round with such a feeling of sadness and lonelyness in my heart. theirs one man i want put hes just not ready to settle down. weve been together 3 yrs on and off he did try but it always raises its ugly had that hes not ready. i ...

We decided to try for a baby but once I got pregnant he asked me to have an abortion!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year. in februry we decided to try for a baby, infact it was his suggestion. i am now 13 weeks pregnant and when i told him he wanted an abortion. i obviously refused (if i didnt want a family i wouldnt have gone ...

I found out she had got another boyfriend whilst I was ill in hospital, but now she claims to be missing me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - I had been in relationship with a girl for the last 1 and half year. One day, I was sick and hospitalized for about 2 months. the 1 week of sickness time my girlfriend is normal. After that she hardly contact me and when I did she has lot of ...

Teen porn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - So here it goes. My boyfriend and I don't live together, and we are both in our early twenties. Every once in a while I'll go over to his place and use his computer to check my facebook and myspace. His browser history pops up every time I start to ...

My b/f started talking to a boy about this hot girl with whom he used to watch porn... in front of me. Is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I have a pretty good relationship with my (relatively new) boyfriend, but the other night we had a little hiccup. This hiccup in itself is definitely nothing we won't get over but it led me to think further about the issue and my reaction to it. B...

Seeing a woman who's separated from her husband... now I think she's seeing him again while I'm away!

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7 August 2009 (M) - i have a big question ..i have been with this girl for 14 months..she has been working on her divorce for the last 3.5 years from this guy.where she lives now. its taken her 3-4 years to divorce she says he didnt want to..iam thinking she did why....

My husband never shows me any affection, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - hello to all the readers of this. Im still young still in my early 20's and im married for the 2nd time. The first marriage ended after 3 years of him beating me. I finally left him. Well i was single for about 3 years and now im married to a ...

Why do people in relationships play these games?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Games! Why do people in relationships play these games?! My bf has weird phrases that he uses and I don't know if he means them or not. Like when we argue, he'll say something like "I honestly don't think this is going to work out anymore.." and ...

It seems there's three people in our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - my fiance and i live with her bestfriend ( a gay man) and this is not my choosing. Well we are having a baby and it turns out she had discussed with him that he should have legal rights of our child if anything happens to us. Not my choice, she ...

I love my husband and his family needs him, but he works so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - My husband is a work-a-holic. He has lost a tremendous amount of weight because all he does is work! He doesn’t eat, barely sleeps, and as a result has little time for me and the children. Recently, he was in a car accident, and there have b...

Is he just afraid of his own feelings? I'm getting mixed signals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I don't understand my ex. He puts on the full court press and then I don't hear from him for 4 days. Is he just afraid of putting it out there again since he is afraid of his own feelings? word on the street, since I am new to the area is that he ...