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Archived questions from: 17 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He has a high sex drive and I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Help! My boyfriend has a very high sex drive and I don't. We have been together for nearly 5 years. Whenever he asks for sex and I say no he always speaks to me like a piece of crap or hardly speaks to me. I try the best I can but he doest ...

I accused him of cheating and really messed up our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I started seeing this man Ben in may. I have known off him and to say hello to for the last 2 years. I before was in a relationship after being single randomly ben started getting in contact with me via email. he seemed very keen and as...

Cousin attacked me in a jealous rage and I broke his arm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - I was at a BD party just drinking and lounging, my cousin had brought a girl around he left her siting by the pool where i was he went some where. I began talking to this girl she was kool she filled up the beer cooler for me and even helped get ...

Is a strong sense of love enough for a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is without a doubt the nicest man I have ever been with, and I think he is the only one that truly loves and cares for me. He has often said that he feels differently about me than anyone else he h...

How can I get my boyfriend to clean up his appearance without sounding rude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Alright...so my boyfriend and i have been together for about two years and i lovee him. He’s always a gentlemen and is such a sweet guy to me.however his style, haircut, and lack of shaving has been driving me crazy lately. There is no doubt I love ...

Can how I make my boyfriend understand how important having a child is to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I am 23, and engaged, to man who is 39. There is no question about the fact we are very much in love. We've already been through much together in the years we have known eachother, including both having abusive relationships, and being there for the ...

Now that we've set a date I'm having doubts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now. We started dating when we were 18 years old. We've now been engaged for about 2 years. Recently, we set our wedding date... March of next year. My problem is this: I've always had fleeting feelings of ...

What's my ex trying to do to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Hello everyone Please help me its really comfusing me, my ex bf dumped me last october to go bk to his other ex gf, but that never happened, Anyway we have stayed really good friends and since then he has a new gf who is pregnent with his 1st chi...

I have a beautiful boyfriend but I'm not into having sex. At all. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i fancy the pants off him. I'm just not interesed in having sex and it's starting to become a strain on our relationship. I thought it might be because of the pill which ive been on about a year now...

He hasn't said "I love you" or introduced me to his parents! How long is too long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my bf for the last 2 and half years. He's amazing and great to me..but he has never said I love you to me. He has not told his parents about us either yet. I feel as if its been way too long, and I'm slowly starting to feel ...

I don't know what's going on with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Im not sure if im doing the right thing. My friend and i fell out mostly to do with our "relationship" He would tell me he loved me then he would back out. We eventually ended up making love and i was his first. A few weeks later he said he wanted ...

She's not into me anymore, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Correct me if I'm wrong but is it not ok to want more out of a relationship if your giving your all and your choice in partner isn't. Like am I wrong for desiring another woman if my current isn't being real with me regarding her sexual interest in ...

Why in the world do I always give in and let him contact me and start believing in him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I am sorry ahead of time for how long this is going to be, but I am totally at a lost.....Me and my ex meet online 4 yrs ago. He totally swept me off my feet. We dated online for over a year, seeing each other on weekends etc. After a year, I ...

How can I bring back the sexual attraction in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 years. Most of that time has been great. We have had an awsome sex life. For about the last year or so I was not a very good boyfriend. I got myself into a routine of being lazy about housewor...

Do I deserve to be treated like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I am 22 and I have been with my bf for over 4 years, after about a year of being together he said that I had to choose him or my friends, and that if I forgot my friends he would forgot one of his mates who is always nasty to me. 3 years later he ...

I want to know how to stop thinking about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - 2 years ago I met a foreign guy who was on a short holiday in my country. We stayed in touch by email (always as friends only) and he invited me to visit him in his country. I visited him and during my short stay he was very friendly with me. I ...

My husband gives lifts home to a younger colleague when it's unncessary. Is something going on? Should I tell him to stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - My problem is that the other evening on a night out with my husbands works colleagues, he admitted to me that he sometimes gave a lift home to one of the office girls "as it is on the way home" now I was most surprised to hear this, as firstly it is ...

What can I do to bring our relationship back to life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i love him more than anyone, or anything. I feel so comfortable when im with him and i can really see us being with each other for a very long time. The thing is i feel the spark in our ...

I confronted a girl my boyfriend knew, but nothing was going on! Now both are mad at me, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - ok so i feel really bad right now. my boyfriend and i been going out for almost 2years. i trust him but sumtimes i have doubts. so i went throu his cell phone and i found this girl who recently call him. i checked for the second time again and as ...

Is this relationship able to work? Or am I crazy for even considering it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Apologies in advance.. this situation is very complicated. There is this girl.. my ex girlfriend / what I thought was my girlfriend. I was with her (fakely) for 3 months a while back until I found out she had been secretly in contact with her ex ...

I think we are at a different stage of life and I'm not sure she is the one I want to settle down with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - I fell head over heels for my girlfriend a year ago, I'm late 20's she's early 20's. I thought I had never met anyone as mature and as suited to me as she was but in hindsight I was blinded by my love for her. In four months we were certain we ...

Is she still into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Hello, to make it quick, I'm in the military and was away for some time in Afghanistan, I returned home after 4 years, but I noticed somehow my girlfriend rejecting me in some way, she isn't returning my calls, she doesn't answer my emails, could ...

Threesome turned sour....how can we improve our sex life without resorting to that again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I seem to be in trouble. After repeatedly cheating on my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, we had a good chat and I confessed that it was only sexual stuff and nothing emotional involved and that whereas I never climax with him, I did with the last guy ...

Can't let go of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I'm in luv with a guy who's 2 years younger than me. I'm working and he's doing his final year at university. He loves me and is everything i'd ever want from a guy. Problem is i still love my ex and i know he still loves me too (he's been begging ...

How do I stop my feelings towards this married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - hi, i like this man whose married and have two kids. and i am jealous of his wife and can't see him with her. i know very well its not her fault but mine and his. even he likes me and we've had many good times together. we still continue to see each ...

He is starting to be more honest about his sexuality but he still wont introduce me as his boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. He is a few years older than I am. Since I was 16 I have been out of the closet. I have fully embraced my gayness. I am in the military and most of the people who know me know about my ...

I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman but I'm afraid of another failed marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - I have two failed marriages behind me, the last one I felt railroaded into and didn't have the courage to back out of. I have now met a wonderful woman who has asked me to marry her. I said yes but that I want to wait for a while as I am only jus...

How do I stop caring about him talking to another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - could some one plz help me.... i dont know what to do i love him but i dont know how to forget all that has happened... i asked him not to talk to this unnone chick but he has not stopped but he say that it is nothing.. i was told to keep faith an...

Do you think she has feelings for me despite being in a relationship with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - hi there, i am a 23 years old virgin never have a gf in my life, i love women but for the reason which i don't they know, and sadly, they have never entered in to my life. i have been with this girl for more than a year, we have been very close, we ...

Should I stay or should I go..I think she's cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - me and my grl have been together for15 years. ive been laid off for 6 months. money is tight. her 28 yr old daughter and 3 yr old son are living here for free for over a year.i had a drug problem for a while. weve been arguing bout everything and ...

He blames all of our problems on me or my insecurities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? My bf says there is. He blames all our relationship problems either on me and "my insecurities" or he blames our problems on my ex bf and claims I am judging him based on how badly my ex treated me. I find it...

All of the sudden, he doesn't "want a girlfriend". What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - okay so my ex boyfriend and me still hangout and hookup..tonight i gave him head and i swollowed for the first time thinking that it would show him that i care!..WRONG..after i did that we talked about us and he said that he has to much going on for ...

He still doesn't call me his girlfriend. Won't even refer to us as a couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that I met in January.We initially met online in December,and then met and had dinner together a month later.Anyways,we have been going out since that time.Usually on weekends because of our work schedule,and also because of ...

He seems to be losing interest in me. Does he even like me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - wow my boyfriend... he was really great he was my first kiss but now it seems like he doesn't care about us first he never calls me and i have to call him and when i do he justs sits there and tells me how much he doesn't like talking on the phone ...

My fiance has been seeing someone behind my back. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - My fiancee has been seeing someone else behind my back. She has not had sex with him (according to her). She did tell me that she was attracted to him, and I let her know I was uncomfortable with her spending alone time with him. She bookmarked...

He works out for many hours a day, leading to our long distance relationship troubles!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for about two months now and everything has been going great until the last couple of weeks. At the beginning we used to talk ALL the time, everyday about 4 hours a day till we fell asleep on the phone ...

Why does he only love me when I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I've been on a rollercoaster with my boyfriend of 16 for the past nine months. We've had our highs and lows, happy moments and definatley the sad.. Sorry this is long.. but bear with me. Our relationship started out long distant, phone calls we...

How do I get over wanting my father's approval and affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I've been though a lot this summer with my father. He has told me that unless I am willing to be around my step mother he will not see me. And I am not allowed to be around her because she emotionally abused me, I won't get into details. What I need ...

I want her back, but she has trust issues, is there any hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Hi I need some advice. Me and my now ex girlfriend broke up 4 months ago. It was a really nasty breakup with me admitting to not being exclusive until we had the talk...her manipulating me into letting her go through an old email account, ...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is making my life hell!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Okay, here goes.... I found out just under three weeks ago that I was pregnant. I'm 22 and have been with my boyfriend (whose also 22) for nearly five years. It was a complete shock as I was on the and using protection, can only pin it down to a ...

I wish my boyfriend was better but he's the father of my child.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Hi i have been with the father of my child for almost 4 years.We met my senior year and it was great we broke up about 6 months into the relastionship but got back together because we thought i was pregnant. I wasnt it was a mistake but he changed ...

I can't seem to communicate with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Ok, So I had dated this guy for about 8 months maybe longer. We broke up and didn't contact each other for about 5 months. We were in love, it's just something happened with family issues and I didn't blame him at all for breaking it off with me. ...

I have horrible anxiety and need help!!

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17 August 2009 (F) - Hello, I need some advice. I am at my wits end here. You see, I suffer from anxiety. I have had this problem since I was a child. It would start out as a tight feeling in my throat, and that would convince me that I was about to be sick. I found...

Depression caused big problems, Break up. Now getting better, need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Got together with my girlfriend about 3 years ago. I was happy and confident then, funny, charming and social, enjoyed going out and having drinks here and there. She fell in love with me. I also fell in love with her. She was similar - also happy ...

She doesn't love me back .. will she ever..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - The prettiest girl I've ever seen... the girl of my dreams, a year ago she broke up with my cousin who used to be very close to me, a few months ago me and her started talking and we became inseparable. There literally isn't a moment in the day when ...