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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is this one of the tsigns of my relationship falling apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Hi, guys. I'm an Asian gay man, 37 year old who's been living in the states for 3 years. And my partner is American guy who's 60 year old, divorced and has 4 grown-up children. I posted some question here about my relationship before. It was a...

I don't want him back but want him to be their for our child

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - My exboyfriend and I separated, it was not on good terms either, but it was an on off relationsip so I wasn't concerned as I thought this was for the best. However three months later I found out I was pregnant with his child. He does not care for it ...

He won't sleep over with me because of his mother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I have known my man for about two years. it is a serious relationship but the problem is he wont even spend the weekend with me or spend the night at my home. One time he spend the weekend his mother get upset and call him, saying she disappro...

Since we moved in together, he's spending less time with me, what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - hi. me and my boyfriend riley of 2 years have just moved in together about 3 months ago now. ever since then at LEAST each week ive been in tears. he goes out ALL the time and when he says he will be back he is always hours late to the point wh...

Sex has lost its "umphhh" over time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been dating for a year and 3 months now and the sex was great at the start of the relationship because i was a virgin. She brought a few kinky night dresses about 4 months in. It all fell apart about 8 months in. I found i ...

My man is going out of town with a female friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I have been in this on and again off again relationship with this man for nearly 4 years. I had made up my mind to end the relationship as he has lied to me about other women on several occasions. He came back to me, making promises to be right with ...

If she wants her ex and has no feelings for me, then why is it complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Heres the low down. Was with my girlfriend for nearly a year, she was moving to australia and we still stayed together long distance. She split up with me around 6 weeks ago, completely out of the blue telling me she didnt love me anymore, then i ...

Pregant with my ex's child. Do I keep my hopes up that he'll eventually come around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - My ex and I ended the relationship in 5/16, I found out two weeks ago I was 14 1/2 weeks pregnant, I am now 17 weeks. I made him aware and he has only contacted me to offer to pay for the abortion. Hes ben stationed out of town and will be returning ...

What do you do if someone is giving you the silent treatment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - What do you do if someone is giving you the silent treatment? I have told them I will not contact them again as they obviously dont want to speak to me, and I know I must not break my word now that i have said that or i would look stupid. but what ...

Why is he still watching porn? I don't get it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Well I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 half years. Everything is going pretty well. We don't fight much, we still laugh and have fun, and we have sex regularily (and yes we are both very happy with it!). What I don't understand is th...

He caught me red-handed, cheating, I treated him badly and dumped him, but he still wants me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (?) - I had a short lived relationship with this may, who has been a childhood friend. He wanted marriage and i agreed to it, though i wasnt realy sure. I hurt his feelings badly. I cheated on him several times and he cought me with condoms and hotel ...

Cheating boyfriend: what do I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - If someone can help me now i'd be very gratefull! My BF and I are now together for about 3 and a half years now and about a month ago i caught him in bed with another woman, he admited that it happend twice since then we've gone on vacation for 3 we...

What am I supposed to do, fight or walk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - me and my best friend haven't spoken in months(please read my other questions) I emailed him and his entire family ( over a month ago) and asked them not to contact me again then a week ago out of the blue he emails me and says: How do you expe...

Our lack of sex is making me want an open relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Question 1: its been almost 20 months now and my boyfriend has followed a partern of only have sex with me every one to three months what does this mean and why Question 2: if my boyfriend is not having sex with me should i ask to have an open rel...

I don't want to live like this anymore but don't know what the alternative is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Could Somebody Please Help Me. I have been struggling with this issue for 2 years now and feel that despite trying to get help for my daughter and myself that there aren't any solutions and I feel that I cannot go on living like this anymore. ...

If I'm getting into a serious relationship I don't want cigarretes to be part of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a good relationship, however when we first began dating he mentioned he smoked, i wasn't too happy about it (you might think i'm weird) but i don't like smokers, i hate cigarrets, the smell gets to me real bad that i feel ...

Is my mother being paranoid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - ok im 17 and my girlfriend is 15 the legal age for sex in WA is 16.. just to explain and make it easier for people to understand even though my girlfriend and i havnt even had sex and dont intend to until she is 16, also we have been together for ...

I havent been able to talk to my girlfriend for 3 months, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - i have a girlfriend of a relationship of 1 and 1/2years .i love her but for 3 months now she has been out of network and we don't communicate ,at first she started ignoring my calls later she switch off her phone.i don't know what to do coz i ...

Just how insulting to men with erection troubles can women be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I lost my erection about a month ago and my wife is just on my back all the time about it. Why can't she just leave me alone while I work this out? She's got a damn' vibrator, is it too much to ask that she backs off? And for that matter, why do ...

I love my girlfriend but I have feelings for a male friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend and I love her to bits but I also have feelings for one of my male friends who I think is gay, what should I do...

I'm really upset about our breakup, but my ex doesn't seem to care!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I recently split up with my girlfriend and whilst I'm really upset about it, she doesn't seem to care. We were together for a year so it was obviously an important relationship. She just goes out partying all the time and hasn't even called me to ...

How do I tell him he's hurting my feelings without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - At the end of my current boyfriends last relationship, his ex told him that he had destroyed her life by taking all of her confidence and making her believe she was stupid, which really made him hyper-sensitive about being some kind of ...

My boyfriend is lovely and I have everything I want, so why cant I stop thinking about this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - A while back, I was getting close to this guy. He finally told me that he was falling for me, and I was really happy. I missed him when he wasn't around etc. Then someone else came along and asked me out, and I said yes. I've been with my boyfrien...

I was dating a 30 year old and got my heart broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Okay i was dating someone and hes 12 years older then me and before we got together he had a girlfriend but he says he broke up with her for me but because hes a good guy he was taking her back to her home in IL and is gonna stay 6 months to 24 ...

I want my brother put away before he can abuse his own kids like he did to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - My brother has assaulted me when i was a child In front of a few of his high school friends and he tore my underwear off and threw them in the middle of the street and made me get them while i was naked and a few years later my brother was very ...

What is wrong with me? I cannot commit to anything, even my amazing girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm 19 years old and i'm completely lost with what im doing with my relationship life. I've been dating a woman who is in my eyes a very unique "one-of-a-kind" person that i admire very much. She doesn't believe in hooking up with people unless ...

Am I doing the right thing? I thought she wanted a relationship and then got with her friend, so I cut her out of my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Hey it's me again guys after alot of months haha. Anyway I need help with something I need to know if I made the right decision. Anyway there was this girl who liked me and we flirted and even kissed! but then soon after she tells me she wasn't ...

I feel wrong for seeing him when he has a girlfriend but they are both miserable together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so I was training this guy I worked with and the first time I saw him I connected with him. I asked a few of our mutual co-workers if he was single and they said yes and he told me he was one day as we were walking around our job site. Any way ...

Can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy? I feel really unstable i don't know what's going on. This guy I've been seeing and spending time with has me feeling so confused. We do have sex, and I love it. However I don't kn...

Am I obliged to look after my mother when she abused me as a child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - So, Do I have any obligation to take care of my aged Mother who was abusive to me? I very rarely have migraines now, but I had them regularly in my childhood and teenage years and later, whenever my parents came to visit. My mother was probably...

Can't get over what happened at my BFS 21st

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I've been in a healthy relationship for four years. The person I am with is the one that I'm meant to be with. So his 21rst birthday just recently passed. First; I was not invited to come, his brother was adamant that it was a guys night out o...

I feel like he's playing me, should I let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Should I stop dating this guy? Here's my story, I am single parent of three. I own my own house, have a career, and make a good amount of money. The guy I'm dating has no kids, and makes way less than I do. He currently is staying with me due to g...

How can we resolve the real issue instead of constantly bickering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy for the past 11 months. I love him very much and he loves me too. But he have a lot of issues with each other. We argue a lot and make up really soon too. But I think, we do not really address the problems we have. ...

I feel I have a right to call the woman's house where my son is staying, and maybe try to get to know her. So why is she so disrespectful to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - My baby daddy just moved away and he took our son for the summer. All along I thought he was staying with his sister but until recently I found out he was staying with this woman. Everytime I tried to call his sister to talk to my son. Her reply ...

It feels like my BF is humiliating me sometimes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I spent a fortune to be on holiday with my boyfriend and the kids. We were not on holiday together as such but spent sometime that I found beautiful and I really enjoyed his presence. It was the first time in over a year we became intimate. We ...

My boyfriend is talking behind my back, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - well recently I browsed through his chatlogs, out of curiosity and after that, he confessed that he made me seem demanding behind my back to all of his friends, but not on purpose. I only read one of the conversations he had with a mutual friend(...

He wants every girl but me, yet he spends all his spare time with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy just over a year ago i was 25 and he was 22 and it was great at first, there was lots of physical stuff and affection everything seemed like it was going well. Gradually over the course of about 2 months the sex almost completely stopped ...