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Archived questions from: 28 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I laugh, I cry, I love just like normal people, so why do I end up unhappy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

28 August 2009 (?) - im in such a mess. ive posted here before and i cant find the question but i asked about a family problem. i will reexplain it. everything has seemed to get worse since then. its a long story but intersting, so if you cant help me then well, at ...

Help me get over this inconsiderate, cheating jerk with no future!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Hey everyone... I was wondering if I could get some advise, I'm not perfect... but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3years. In those 3 years I have waited for him to change. and recently we have been on and off. I love him ...

How do I get over an abusive relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Hello. First off let me thank you for even viewing this question. I was in an emotionally [and occasionally physically] abusive relationship with a guy for 18 months. It was my first relationship. I finally gained the courage to leave in J...

I miss him but then I think about what he did..and I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - So I posted a question earlier about how I wanted to move in with my boyfriend, but didn't know how to tell my parents or my sister, whom i have moved in with. I moved in, and we hung out for a while the day I moved in. Later that night, he w...

My girlfriend broke up with my last night, and I have a lot of questions running through my mind. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me last night. I am a 5th year senior and she is a senior at our college. This past summer, we spent the majority of our time together because we were living up at school working, and most of the time we didn't have any ...

Should I be patient, waiting for her to change her mind, or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend of a year broke up with me about a month and a half ago. We were great together and had a lot in common. It wasn't a bad breakup and she said that she needed time to work on herself and I needed the same. About two weeks after ...

My life is a mess! How can I sort it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - help big time!! I have been with a very emotionally unstable man for two years on the first of september. I have a child with another man. I am in debt. so there are my three problems. this man has an unforgiving heart. he meet me an...

Why do you think my abusive boyfriend is stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Sorry-it’s a bit of a long story. It started 3 years ago-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises, a few days after that I started seeing him in places he shouldn’t have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept ...

Am I wrong in thinking that my boyfriend shouldn't be hanging out with his ex, even if it is with his kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Am I wrong that my boyfriend is spending time with his ex wife and sons? I think he should be doing things with his sons only not including his ex wife?????...

How can I make him change without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about half a year but we've been best friends for about 4 years. At first, everything started out great but soon i began to notice things that really bugged me. One, he doesn't drive so I'm always driving us ...

The lying has stopped... or has it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married now for over 8 years and in that entire time, we have been fighting over the same thing: trust. He has broken that trust to the point that it can never be repaired. For the rest of my life, I will never trust him ...

If we are still good friends, why would he ignore me? I don't get it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My guy friend has not been talking to me. I just got an AIM and thought that I would IM him. I didn't want to tell him who I really was because I thought he would ignore me on that to so I talked to him on there and he figured out it was me. He ...

Am I going to have to pay for the entire trip? If so, I think its the end for us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing eachother for 3 years with a couple of months break this time last year. When we got back together things were great except he was having money problems so I lent him some. Which I did get back. He's now earning ...

Will my relationships never survive without me sacrificing my friendships and career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday. He is the only man I have ever loved and he made me feel more loved than anyone could possibly explain. I broke up with him because even though our relationship was so fantastic, other aspects ...

I'm worried that my son may not actually be mine

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - I heard off a good friend of mine that my son is apparently not mine. When I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago she was a single mum, who had a 3-year-old son. Two years later, we moved in together, our life was good, we then decided to try...

The dreaded past...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Hello. I was wondering about something. Lets just say my current girlfriend has slept with around 30+ guys/girls. She used to be into group sex, threesomes and one night stands. I ask her why and she said she was heavily intoxicated or under ...

Was I right to break my girlfriend's ex's leg and jaw because he used to hit her and cheat on her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - look im a 15 year old kick boxer. i been with this girl ever since elementry i really like her. I broke her ex boy friends jaw and leg because he cheated on her and he hit her a couple of times. am I right or wrong....

Should I message him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - ok this guy i like alot sort of went hot and cold when we went camping the weekend just gone. my friend has told me he said he can see a future with me and stuff which is really good and we've always had little moments. anyways camping he w...

Should I tell him I want us to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - alright...ive met this boy at a pool hall and hes so cute and such a gentleman.well on our first date i told him i was looking for a relationship and he said im not.well we've since then just been friends with benefits well now hes saying he really ...

What are your stories on getting revenge on a cheating ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I would like to hear some revenge stories for a cheating ex and the affair partner... I promise I am not planning on pursuing anything... just want to live vicariously through your story. So what is your best revenge story?...

What do you do when you find out the father of your kids is staying at another womans place?

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28 August 2009 (F) - What do you do when you find out that your baby daddy is staying at another females house? You want to try and work it out. Everytime you want to talk grown people talk he says I'm grown i pay my own bills I stay where ever i want? Is is really ...

Girlfriend basically making me chose between her and my parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Hi, This is a difficult one and i really need some help and guidence. My girlfriend hates my parents so much she is letting it drive a wedge between us. She has hated my parents for a long time because she disapproves of the way they tre...

She said she doesn't want a relationship with me and it's driving me crazy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Ok, theres two things i need help with. theres this girl that i rly like. im gd mates with her too. i asked her out a while ago and she said that she didnt feel that she knew me well enough to have a relationship with me, even tho ive known her for ...

I want to ask him what's going on but don't want an argument!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year now and have a baby on the way but what worries me is the fact that this girl that he works with keeps messenging him on facebook and by text and the other day he swapped his car for hers and ...

Brother molested me as a child years ago but acts like what I remember never happened!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I am 52 yrs old and was sexually molested by my brother between ages 7-8. Recently this conversation conversation came up and he told me he had never really abused me. He says that he spoke to other people and that touching me thru the sheets was ...