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anonymous
writes:Hi i'm 17teen years old iv'e been married for almost two year's and i need help and fast my husband is 19 and he keep's hiting me when we get into a fight in front of our 18month old and we have another baby on the way i'm 15weeks and he keeps hiting should we split up or what i need help i dont know what to do??????????????????????????
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reader, Bel2346  +, writes (7 August 2009):
Hun I think you know the answer to your question. And that is too leave. He is not only putting your life in danger,but the life of your 18month old and unborn child. You are a young women and you deserve so much better. Do you really want to put up with your husband hitting you for the rest of your life???? And I can assure you he will continue hitting you. Do you want your chldren to think that treating another person like this is ok??
And if you are afraid that there will be no one out there who can help you, you are wrong. Stay with a friend or you can go to a safe house for abused women and children.. When you leave don't tell him you are going to leave as this might make things worse. Try and leave on a day that he is not home.
I hope real soon you will listen to that little voice telling you to leave him. All the best and stay safe.
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reader, Love is all you need  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 yeah how did you manage to get married at 15? what county? don't worry you don't have to answer that but....he hits you!! Normallyi would say leave him and stomp on him but in your case thats not a good idea.
Obviously cause your pregant and you have another little babe. So tell him your willing to leave him and take the babes if he doesn't stop. he shoudn't be hitting you, there is a counselor for it if he will go, but damn that if cruel
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): leave him NOWWWWWWWWWWWW!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): You're 17 and you've been married two years... Isn't that Illegal? Whether you're from a religious background or not, that is still wrong, if you live in the US. Just needed to address that, anyway...
YES, leave him! It won't be easy but you need to get yourself out, he isn't going to change, if that's what he told you, and he isn't sorry if he keeps doing it again and again. These are words of a liar, so if he has been saying things like this, don't believe it. I find it sick that not only is he lashing out when you're arguing, but that he's doing it WHILST you're pregnant, and infront of your other child!
Please, for the safety of you and your children, leave him so you can bring your children up in a safe and happy environment. If you don't leave him it will only get worse, and he may turn on your kids at some point in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): You need to leave him right away. Go to someone you love and trust. You need to love yourself first!
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