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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:realy need ugent response pls.met my husband at the university,dated for six years,got married last year,he used to be very caring in school,alot f people were jelouse,some say im the luckiest person,but after marriage i discovered alot.he dosent care about sex,he dosent kiss,hug or cuddle me the way its suppose to be,dosent show me how much he loves me,he just says it some times or thru txt msgs,it just seems to me he dosent find me attractive cos i caught him a couple of tyms watching sex movies,when im asleep,i reqest for sex most tyms. eight months into marriage, i organised a suprise birthday party for him. used up alot of my savings and went throu stress to gather his friends at the venue without him having a clue. some friends he had not seen for long. there was food in abundance and it was fun with all music, jokes and riddles. he ws suprised really but was calm too. after the party, he never said anything about it.just said "it was the best day of his life" and went to bec. i expected more that nyt. some people expected even a hug in their presence. but no. it hurted like hell. thats the kind of person he seems to be. advice me on how to tackle this coz we are just starting and i dont want to live like this coz i know he loves me. he doesnt just know how to go about it.
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