A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship with my fiance for about 3 years and i love him a lot but i also have feelings for my best friends bloke. We have been meeting up a few times a week and its been great to get out and have some fun, but the other week he told me that he loves me and that he wants us to be together, now its making me really confused and im starting to think i love him too, he's also said that if he dint have kids we would be together, but i really dont want to hurt my friend or my partner, but i cant stop thinking about him, he's on my mind all the time and when i dont see him i feel down and when i do he cheers me up, these is something between us that i have never felt for my partner, we tried to stop things happening while we were with other people but it all just feels right. I no that what ever happens someone is going to get hurt, but i dont no what to do anymore.
View related questions:
best friend, fiance Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, niki20  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 if you sincerally feel that you would be happy with your buddys guy , go for it but be aware chanves are it will ruin your friendship. dont be selfish, try talking to your girl. try going somewere w/ your fiance and see if the other guy is clouding your vision of the relationship you do have. just remember, if you leave the one you love for the one you like, the one you like will leave you for the one they love. you have to be aware of everyone. try talking to everyone.
|
