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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need advice badly. I've been in a "relationship" with this guy for almost 3 months. And I need to get out asap, but he won't leave me alone. At first everything was fine. Then I stopped seeing him. And when I tried to leave he went pyscho. calling and texting me none stop begging and pleading promising to do better. I gave him another chance, and a thousand more after that. I went out of state this past weekend, and there was absolutely no type of communication. So when I got back I told him to get his things so I could move on. He agreed. Then when he came to get his stuff, he refused to leave. Resulting in him forcing me to have sex with him twice, unprotected. He smacked me and pushed me. Then he took my phone and left. but he left his keys and had to double back. Then when he came back, he acted as if nothing happened. As if I was the problem. He told me he was never going to let me go. I'm not even scared, I'm just tired and stressed out. I'm only 22 and I'm losing my hair. In the little time we've been together he's hurt me so much. And I just want this to be over with. This was the relationship I was avoiding all my life. I feel him slowly breaking me down and I can't let him do it. Plz any advice is appreciated.
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reader, Love4Life +, writes (22 April 2009):
 I would have to agree with all the other responses. Call the cops get a restraining order. If you weren't willing he has raped you. If you let it slide he could take that as you wanted it and keep coming back. I work with criminals and they feed on power, fear and lust. They think their victims asked them to do what they did. You need to take charge now before this gets out of hand. Remember guys like this start small and just get more violent. TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): Totally agree with the anonymous female's answer. He needs to be arrested and taken off the streets before he does you or any other woman any more damage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): Good God, you've been raped. Twice.Call the cops. Press charges. Get a protection order. NOW. I've been through this. He's a rapist and they get bolder and bolder. You might end up dead if he continues. Seriously, go to the cops NOW
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