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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Could I be a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a 35 year old woman, in a long term relationship which has just become SO boring! I love my partner, but find my mind drifting away thinking of having sexual fun on the quiet with FEMALES! I am concerned that I may be a secret lesbian,...

I met a guy on line. He called loads and we met up but now I haven't heard from him. Should I try and call him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I met a guy online - -he kept emailing me, I replied then he asked me to call, I said I prefer to be called he called and texct me, we met then he test me and called me everyday. Then he just stopped I calle dhim and he is yet to respond....I really ...

Could it be that she feels awkward that we innocently met up as it's now dawned on her? (she has a boyfriend)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Wwhere I used to work I used to exchange occasional emails with a colleague, she was quite quiet and shy in the office but always warm and friendly towards me. She did have a boyfriend with whom she seemed totally loved up and the only time I ...

My older girlfriends daughter is worried I'm only using her mum for sex, even though we haven't even had sex yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I am a 34 year old male and am dating a 41 year old woman for two weeks now everything is going great between us. we have not had sex yet as i am prepared to wait till she is ready, but the problem is she has a 21 year old daughter who is worried ...

Our relationship is based on fun and non-commitment but I expect a bit of respect and time from him. Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I have been having an affair with a man for 9 months. He is never going to leave his girlfriend for me but I have accepted that. However, in the past few weeks he has become distant. When we do meet it is as good and as fun as always but we are not ...

She wants some time out but I need to know where I stand. How do I ask her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Me and the girl I've been dating recently decided to take some time off, and while it was more for her sake than mine, I couldn't help but agree that it was necessary. She's a girl who's never really been alone, and she believes she needs to make ...

Can a woman regain physical attraction for someone by taking some time off? If not how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Can a women re-gain physical attraction in a 2 years relationship by taking some time off? If not How?...

She went abroad to study; before leaving she said the physical attraction had faded, this is the first time we take a break.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Basically I had a relantionship with a girl for 2 years and 3 months. Im really in love and I even wanted to marry her. She went to study to the states for 3 years. Before leaving we found out that she lost the physical attraction of the ...

My older txt buddy says he likes me txting him but I txt him twice today and he's not replied. Is he trying to tell me something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - me and this lad have been txting for some time now, he is much older than me and has a job, i understand that he cant txt me when he is workgin because he has a buisy job, i txt him twice today and i havnt had a reply and i know he gets breaks ...

Is it just my situation, or are American men lazy and want to live off the woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - is it just my situation or are American men lazy and want to live off the woman? Not only do I have this problem but some of my girlfriends do too. My father is from Greece and in my family the man has always been the one that carries most of the ...

My boyfriend doesnt buy me presents and ignores important occasions

This question has 107 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Ok, in terms of problems this maybe isnt huge but it is playing on my mind a bit. i have been with my boyfreind for 2 years now...and he just doesnt treat me with the same care and attention he used to. Yesterday was my 23rd birthday....and i got ...

My boyfriend calls me nasty names and expects me to do all the household chores

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I love my bf vry much but he disrespects me by calling me names like bit** and then expects me to do all the chores in the apt just because I don't have a job yet. i've just started to attend languages classes because the language is a barrrier from ...

We plan on being together in the future, but I want her now, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

4 September 2007 (?) - My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationships, different colleges. Been together for 5 months. Been having some difficulties lately with school starting up again and not knowing when we are going to see each other next. Also, she is busy b/c ...

I am in love with an 18 yr old girl from a different religion than mine

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6062 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - People I need your help, I am 25 yrs of age in love with this 18-yr old girl, we met on a chatline, transferred on to MSN, and then met eventually, she had numerous numerous guys clammering for her, on phone, chatline and wherever, but she says she ...

My boyfriend makes me so mad that I hit him. I know this is wrong but cant seem to control myself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I really need some help with me and my BF's relationship. We have been together for 1 year and things have started getting a little violent. When I say that I mean that he will say something to me that will hurt my feelings and make me cry and all I ...

Why does he say such mean things to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hi, there evryone, i was wounding if anybody could tell me why my boyfriend thinks it ok to call me stupid and tell me to shut up all i have to do is say something like why dont you cuddle me anymore and he will tell me to shut up. i get very upset. ...

We have both cheated on each other and I dont feel the same now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2.5 yrs within these year we have been ok, but over year she had a baby which is mine, and all we do is argue, she slept with someone who I know in her place but I let her off because I had a one night ...

I am engaged but having an affair with a married woman who I love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I have to break up with a girl that I love, because she is married and I can't settle down with her. I have never told her how I feel about about her, partly to keep a feeling of being in control and self protection. I know that she has considered ...

If I confront her she will know I violated her trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Ok so I posted here b4 about my girlfriend's boss sending her inappropriate text messages at all hours of the night. I've gotten some good feedback but here are a few follow up questions. Almost everyone says to confront her about this right now but ...

I think my boyfriend has a wife back in Haiti!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 3 year. i am american and he is haitian. recently, he went to haiti. when he got there he gave me a number to call him. We communicated back and forth for a few days. On one day near to his return i call the ...

My girlfriend thinks i kissed another girl but I was drunk and it wasn't quite like that. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months. For the first 4 months we spent heaps of time together, however recently she has been really busy with her schooling and has spent little time with me. I have found this hard to believe because she ...

My partners son said I hit him. I didn't and his 21 yr old sister lied and said I did to my partner. How can I deal with step children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I have reached the end of my tether with my partners children. My partners 9 year old son and his 21 year old step daughter live in Northern Ireland and visit during school holidays and for long weekends. In short they are horrible to me, ...

My fiance's job is requiring we move but I dont want to. He says I can freely pack my bags and leave. Is this a sign we aren't meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I am really confused with my situation. I have been with my fiancee for 4 yrs, and I love him dearly. He has a job opportunity in which he may take, requiring him to move and he wants us to move just like that, so I feel that I have no opinion ...

Ive cheated on my boyfriend for 7 yrs. I love him but feel like i'm in love with 2 people? How can I get the other guy out my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hi I am a 27 year old woman who is totally heartbroken. Ive been in love with this guy for 11 years, we met young and started a sexual relationship. We never really dated officially, but our connection was really strong. After a year of hooking up ...

My boyfriends ex is flirting with him. Because of his past should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Before my b/f got together with me, he was seeing the other woman who is something like 26-28. She never bothered me as she is in a long term relationship with 2 children by the same guy. Untill however when I thought about the way she had been...

Do I stay or do I go? My guy is distant these days.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Okay, me and my guy have been together since Jan this year. And Im his first proper relationship. He has been with other girls before, but none would give them him the time of day. He spent lots of money on them, but I have to pay for my way in the ...

I've been having an affair for 5 yrs but we argued and now we're not talking. Does she love me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Hi I am with love with her, we were together for last five years, we bothe were married but some how got into love but it was very difficult to manage this relationship as she wanted me to adject lots of things, because of love I was trying to do ...

I live with my fiance but I am having dreams about her 25 yr old married daughter. Do I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I dont know where to start with this so I guess it will be at the beginning...I live with my fiancee and our 3 year old son and I love them both dearly. My fiancee has two elder daughters one is 23 and the other is 25, just recently I have been ...

What are the chances of a relationship working in the long run, if you left someone else for them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I just wanted to know that if you are in a long term relationship and leave for another person. What are the chances of this working out? What's in it for the long haul?...

I went out and cheated on my girl. I want to make it work with her for my daughters sake but my feelings aren't the same anymore..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - hi.I need suome advice of wot to do!I have been with my fiancee for 6 and half years and we have an 18 month old girl.Last weekend saw me go out and stay round a mates!I ended up taking a girl with me and we made love!I really dont know what to do ...

He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we're in love! Everyone tells me to finish it. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Im in a relationship with this 15 year old boy. He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we've fallen in love. Ive tried so hard to say its over but i just cant! Its our 3rd time we've gone out so i think that we've something. Everyone tells ...

Our paths keep crossing and I feel we should be together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Is there any chance of getting back together,i was with a guy for 7 months we had a good relationship together,never argued,thing was i fell in love with him and i think it scared him. We was talking about moving in together,but because he had ...

How do I make him realise he still needs to earn my love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I love him so much, but 9 months now and he knows he has me. he doesnt chase me anymore which makes me mad cause he just gives me this blah attitude. i wanna see him yet he takes forever for that. how do i make him realize he still needs to earn ...

I don't want my bf getting sucked into his ex's dramas!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - An old girlfriend tried to I.M. my b/f tonight while we were on the computer downloading some music. He chose the "do not accept" this person as an I.M. buddy, but I was still upset that she's contacting him. He claims he hasn't talked to her and ...

Now we are back together he never says he loves me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me and now we are back together but he never says he loves me and if i say it he tells me i dont mean it and that he doesnt believe me. We have been together for 11 months and i do love him :(. what do i do?...

He never goes out and is possesive!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I have meet a man online whom his business requires him to work at home and always in the computer monitoring it daily. We been together for half a year now and we get along very well and fallen really deeply in love. The thing is I find it bit ...

I've tried to move on for 4 years and don't know how to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - well i'm new at this so i dont really know what to do ha... i guess i will just type what is going on right now.... me and my old boyfriend.. brian.. dated for a year and 9 months.. he was my first boyfriend ever.. first kiss.. first everything...

I'm scared to tell her that I got drunk and cheated on her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship for over 18 months. after 9 months I moved to another country and engaged to her right before coming. our plan is that after 12 months I would bring her with me as the visa paperworks didn't allow me to bring her with me ...

Have I just lost my trust or have I got grounds for doubt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6076 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I think i completely suck the whole thing in. Dont know what to do? Please, any advice. Thnigs has started 1 month and half...Very quickly and uncontrolable, when i look back from now, it was probably because i got my mind not on its place, t...

Shortly after we built a house together she wanted a break.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6085 days ago

4 September 2007 (?) - My girlfriend of 8 years and I completed building our dream home about 6 months ago. It was a difficult and stressful experience with some pretty rough arguments but we still loved each other. About a month after we moved in she moved out as she ...

My girlfriends boss is flirting with her and sending her innapropriate texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and things for the most part seem to be going great. I even bought a ring a few months ago with the intent to propose on our anniversary now 1 month away. Here's the problem. She started a new ...